I have wondered why people are so suspicous about parent stories.
Maybe it is because it is so easy to make one story up.
Here is a fake one in progress:
http://http://www.asstr.org/files/Authors/JensenDenmark/mothersconcern.txtBut we also need to understand that there is no reality we all can agree on. I see the world in a different way than the person next to me.
As I can understand, JustaMon did something which is out of order, when it comes to the normal inmates at ASR. She drove her son up there herself. That speaks for some degree of commitment from her son. Commitment is the real factor when we are talking of whether it is OK for not for the child to be locked up.
If a 16 year old boy or girl want to lock themselves up in a monastery in order to serve god, would that be OK?
If they feel afraid of the surrunding world and wants to lock themselves up in a TBS, would that be OK?
Properly yes in both answers.
But they have to ask for it themselves! They should be allowed a trial stay for 2 week - fully paid of course. If they want to leave at the end of the 2 weeks - they should.
But what if the child is sick? I have suggestion. Change the laws so a court has to judge
in every case. Let the court and the local school district be the deciding factor when it comes to treatment or the need to be locked up. Waste of tax-payers money would soon come to an end. Only facilities with a certain amount to quality would survive.
To the parents: I am fully assured of the fact that you love your children and you think that you took action in their favour. No one is questioned that, but in all other aspect of our society it is the court, not private interests, which decide who belong behind bars and not.
Some degree of protection of the childs rights is missing when a child in locked up at a TBS.