What I think is unfortunate is the responses she gets for being honest vs how a person who is telling stories in a negative light is received...... I think that is why fornits is seeing mostly only one side of the picture....
Would you STFU about responses. All the fucking whining about people have to be nice to program parents so they will hang around and whine some more..... wah. If anything, one side is seen because programmies have no skin, take everything personally, and their sensibilities are easily offended. [Precisely why some kids end up in private pay prisons] Is that someone else's problem? What would the program tell your kid about that?
Not one of you program parents could survive in a program. You'd walk out the first day. Further, not one of you 'really' know what happened on a daily basis, or why it appears to have 'worked'. How can you say that "you" had a positive experience? Someone else took your kid off your hands and changed them... doesn't matter how they went about it, the means justify the end.
And you, nor I, nor anyone else knows if she is being honest or not. For all anyone knows, you and she are Aspen marketers.
If you want to control a forum, start your own. If you allow dissent, I'm sure a few survivors will participate.
I guess, Deborah, what I am trying to say is : Lets say this was a Parents survival forum and some child came on here and gave their experience and her story was met with skepticism and sarcastic remarks, like ?those responses sound like they were cut and pasted?, ?Oh, she only gave her 3 year old sister heroin once, wa,wa,wa, that?s not a big deal!?, ?go ahead,punk, run away don?t answer any of our questions?.all these program kids are the same, thin skinned, you place them on one reflection and they yell abuse!!...?you give them work to do, like us parents have to do, and have them clean their dorm and they yell child labor laws, they have no idea what us parents had to go thru, all I hear is me,me,me!!??. I wish they would go away I am sick of hearing about it?.
If I was on that forum I would intervene apologize to the child for the rude behavior and try to get the child to stay and ask the other parents to cut the crap?? they may, they may not, but I would at least try to keep that child around to allow her to speak.