Bipolar paradox - hot school teacher

[Anonymous]

In the case of La Fave, she has a sexual addiction.  Which may or may not be related to having bipolar disorder.

However, I do not believe sexual addiction is insanity.

Therefore I do not believe it should hold any water in court as to her breaking the law in the state in which she resides.

Thus in my opinion she should serve the normal jail time for statutory rape, as well as receive mandatory sex addiction counseling afterwards.

[Anonymous]

Also, wouldn't you think that a 25 year old woman with a sexual addiction (I guess you could call her a nympho maniac), even if her addiction tends towards taboo fantasies (such as 14 year old boys), could have satisfied her addiction by going to a bar after work and flirting with some college age young men?  Even 21 year old men?  Looking like she does it would not have been a problem for her to get satisfied legally.

Therefore, since you don't hear in the news that statutory rapists are all bipolar, and you hear first hand from those of us who have it and know that it doesn't cause out of control behavior to the extreme of statutory rape from our personal experience that we have never been out of control in this manner, it seems to me that La Fave just made a concious choice to break the law.

[Anonymous]

And finally, if she were insane that day she did choose to break the law consciously, how could she have been teaching?  I do not believe that insanity and teaching go together on the same day.

I rest my case.  I should probably study law, I'd make a lot more money that what I make now...

[Anonymous]

Now as far as my case is concerned, and bipolar is not a one size fits all illness, so I don't know about others' cases, but in my case I would say that I am hypersexual in terms of attractive women getting my attention more than normal.  I can look at a woman and her various curves more than normal.  And when I was younger I did not have this problem.  However I have never broken the law.  I read up on sexual harrassment and I have found that staring at women is a form of sexual harrassment.  So even though logically you might think if a woman dresses in tight clothing that she'd want to be stared at, that just isn't the case, with the exeption perhaps of the man or men she is or wants to mate with I would guess.  And so I will from now on make a conscious effort to avert eye contact as quickly as possible from said round body parts and remember to look the woman in the eyes instead when talking to them or look away if not talking to them.

And yes the way some high school aged girls dress and look, I'd admit that they can get my unconscious attention as well.  I subscribe to the definition of pedophile as being someone who would want to do it with an elementary school aged child, and this is not my case at all.  And morally and in terms of the high school student's psychological development, I would not want to do it with a high school student (i.e. as with the example of American Pie, the movie.)

The point is in this thread that I don't think there is any mental illness that makes a person have sex with another person - I believe that is a conscious choice, particularly in the case of doing it with a high school student which all teachers know is against the law.  Mania in it's most extreme form can progress to psychosis, but it is more of a delusional psychosis, it has nothing to do with an "insanity" where you can't control who you date.

[Anonymous]

However, I'd say that in my case, there have been some times when I surfed porn on the internet for hours.  Not a daily problem but the times I did it I'd get hooked for hours.  That is probably sexual addiction.  I fixed the problem by purchasing the http://www.bsafe.com web filter.  I noticed that some of the online porn providers will put in links to material and you get to some links and don't realize it is linking you to porn of a minor girl.  This does not interest me and I hit the back button in my browser.  So I think I'm normal all except for the staring thing.

And part of the staring problem for me might be the part that is just appreciating beauty.  I stare at sunsets and mountains and flowers and nature as well.  I think beauty and sexiness are blended together - as an artist probably sees women that he paints.

Anyhow, I would think that a man who likes to view porn of girls that are obviously too young to be sexually attractive to most men is a pedophile, even if the girl is at an age where it might be past the age of consent in some countries.  I think that might be the acid test for pedophilia.  Because the same girl in certain clothing might have some appeal based on the fashions she is wearing creating an illusion of being older.

[try another castle]

I would have to say that I have also experienced compulsion when it comes to sex, especially when I was going through periods of mania. This specifically manifested itself as anonymous encounters, although I did have a few "regulars". I went through a period where I was obsessively getting trade several times a day. It's obviously risky, in terms of getting an STD, getting caught by police (if you are in a public area like a park) or running into someone who might go Jeffery Dahmer on you, chop you up into little pieces and put you in his refrigerator, and I think there is an element to that risk that is somewhat thrilling to people.

I think that to some extent, a lot of fags go through this. We're just horny like that.

Then there is the other side, where I lapse into depression and I am in complete hibernation sex-wise, sometimes for years. Then I will come out of it for a few months and be on a fuck-frenzy, then go back into dormancy when autumn hits. I swear, I feel like I'm on the same mating cycle as the seven year cicada.

[Anonymous]

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/quer ... t=Citation

[Anonymous]

Teacher With Porn Past Hopes For Bible-Belt Forgiveness

Some Parents Attend Rally To Support Teacher


Should a Kentucky high school teacher have been fired for being in an adult movie 11 years ago?

Yes, she should not be teaching children.
6%, votes counted: 2,875

No, it was in her past.
94%, votes counted: 47,480

May 8, 2006

PADUCAH, Ky. -- A teacher in Kentucky is considering what to do about being fired from her job after officials learned she appeared in an adult movie more than 10 years ago.

Tericka Dye told WKYX in Paducah that she was in the adult entertainment business for only a matter of hours, recognized her mistake, and turned her life around.

Dye said that she's now a Christian and wants the Bible Belt community to practice forgiveness.

Some parents are supporting Dye.

Bonnie Chilcoat took her daughter out of school to attend an impromptu rally for the suspended teacher.

"She's not the person she was 10 years ago," said Chilcoat. "We've all done things that we regret, except hers is on tape."

Dye said she has bipolar disorder and agreed to appear in the 1995 movie because she had no home or income and her disease wasn't being treated.

She said she "absolutely 100 percent regrets doing that."

She said she's trying now to look ahead and not focus on it.

Dye had taught science at Reidland High School for the last two years. She was also a volleyball coach.

But school officials recently learned that Dye participated in the adult film when she was 23.
http://www.10news.com/2006/0505/9165569.jpg

Schools Superintendent Tim Heller said he decided to fire Dye because her presence in the classroom would be a distraction. Her pay was also suspended for the rest of the school year.
http://www.mccracken.k12.ky.us/RHS/home.htm

[Anonymous]

http://www.lyricsfreak.com/v/van-halen/142736.html

[Anonymous]

Dr. Diana York Blaine is a professor of Women's Studies and a self-described "philosopher, writer, adventurer, and buttkicker."

NBC Los Angeles reported that Blaine's personal Web site includes a trio of topless photos of the professor. A university spokesperson was caught off-guard when asked about Dr. Blaine's pictorial and forwarded NBC Los Angeles a copy of the university policy.

The USC Web policy stated, "The content of individual Web pages is primarily a matter of free speech and academic freedom that must be protected in a university environment.

"The University will not be held responsible for the content of personal Web pages. Personal Web pages shall not imply that they are representing or speaking on behalf of the University."

NBC Los Angeles reported that USC did not say if there was a code of conduct for its professors that extended beyond this policy, but school officials said they would be looking into the matter further.

http://www.dianablaine.com/

[Anonymous]

Good for her, I hope she does not
get in trouble, and leave the site
up!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/dianayorkb ... s/1347140/

[Anonymous]

Her site is still up, bravo!

[Anonymous]

USC Professor: Topless Photos Provide Lesson

May 10, 2006

LOS ANGELES -- A University of Southern California professor told an NBC affiliate in Los Angeles that the topless photos of herself that she posted on her personal Web site provide a lesson.

Dr. Diana York Blaine is a professor of women's studies and a self-described "Philosopher, Writer, Adventurer, and buttkicker." NBC4's Cary Berglund reported that her personal Web site has three topless photos of the professor.

"I realize that they are provocative, in so far as sex sells, and we have eroticized the female body in this culture," she said. "We have a kind of an adolescent, 'Look: naked breast' attitude. At the same time, I'm trying to naturalize the female body so that we don't have that reaction."

Berglund said a university spokesperson was caught off guard when asked for a reaction to Blaine's pictorial and forwarded NBC4 a copy of the university policy:

"The content of individual Web pages is primarily a matter of free speech and academic freedom that must be protected in a university environment. The University will not be held responsible for the content of personal Web pages. Personal Web pages shall not imply that they are representing or speaking on behalf of the University."

Berglund said USC would not say whether there was a code of conduct for its professors that extended beyond the stated policy on personal webpages.

NBC4 learned of the photos through a student blog.

"Of course I knew they'd draw attention," Blaine said. "I didn't know they'd draw this much attention, but I'm comfortable with it because today I know who I am and why I do what I do."

Blaine said she hopes that the pictures will prompt more women to be accepting of their bodies.

"The feminist theory has enabled me to realize, 'Oh, there's nothing wrong with me,'" Blaine said. "It's the cultural expectations of this kind of artificial woman that no one is and we don't need to be."

Blaine said the images led to inquiries from the adult entertainment industry.

[Anonymous]

She has been married for one year,
and is being interviewed on the
Today show this morning.

[Anonymous]

Sex is EVIL they shouldn't even be talking about it in school!!!!