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« Reply #75 on: October 19, 2005, 10:14:00 PM »
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On 2005-10-19 16:44:00, Anonymous wrote:

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This is just too crazy.

The program apologist states:



I know kids in my peer group had stolen cars, stolen money and jewelry from their parents, stolen and sold prescription drugs, got kicked out of school, had promiscuous sex (girls), eating disorders, alcohol addictions, robbed garages, stole bikes....



And every program out there (with the exception of those the courts favor for placement) will tell parents that they don't take 'really bad' kids, 'criminals'.



The programs' story changes with the wind.

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I think what they are saying is kids who are always in trouble with the law and/or violent.  Punching out cops, using knives etc. there are schools who are not set-up for these types of kids.
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« Reply #76 on: October 19, 2005, 10:34:00 PM »
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On 2005-10-19 14:40:00, Antigen wrote:

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On 2005-10-19 10:42:00, Anonymous wrote:


The good places I was at called themselves RTC's (residential treatement centers).




Please explain; which places and what was good about them?

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Those anon posts before were mine (a couple at least) Im gunna sign in because it's getting confusing.

Hmm.. I wish I could remember the exact name of the place... but it was a group home type thing run by the state. There were only 2 of us per room, we could keep personal posessions (cd player, books, magazines, etc). Parents came and visited everyday, and we had family therapy everyday. (that helped a lot) There was a real school we went to during the day, and afternoons were spent doing physical activity. In comparison WWASP programs had NO therapy, NO real school, and you all know the deal about not seeing your parents for a couple years. It wasn't helpful at all, it was a very sad time in my life. Before I get off track with the bad programs, another good one I had attended was day treatment at the local psychiatric hospital run by Sharp Hospital. You have to get your insurance to pay for that place, but man, is it well worth it. I am 100% anti-wwasp and anti-program, but I have to say, the inpatient and outpatient psychiatric care was top notch! The counselors there were awesome and really cared. Your parents came and visited everyday for an hour. You had access to a psychiatrist, therapist, and all sorts of therapy groups. The one drawback was the amount of medication they put some kids on , including me. I was so high on anti-anxiety and anti-psychotics I was in somewhat of a blur, but whatever. I wasn't doing drugs and was quite happy. Hell, if I could of stayed at that place until I turned 18 I would have, I liked it that much. These places were in san diego, CA (sharp) and Ramona, ca (rtc).

WWASP on the other hand.. don't know where to start. No help, no nothing... just 'get in line' and keep your mouth shut for months and months. The place was a shithole. It was obvious they were reeming our parents, and it made us all kind of sad. One of my friends there just received a letter from his parents saying they were mortgaging the house to keep him there longer. He knew he wasn't getting help, and he felt really bad for his parents spending all their hard earned money. It's a very sad situation for all involved with some of the bad programs, it really is.

All I can say, is in my experience, local is better. You need the parent around to really help the problem I think, it helped me out a lot.

The fucked up thing is, I could have stayed at the program in Ramona, but my dad came with all these fancy brochures from Spring Creek lodge and I thought it would be MORE FUN! LOL They had pictures of canoes, and mountains and stuff. Too bad we never got to see those. It was a prison camp... we had no freedom of movement whatsoever. Not to mention the 28 days I spent in the hobbit for not complying with the mind warping. I was old enough to know what was going on and wouldn't reveal anything juicy enough in front of the seminar group (I really had nothing.. never been molested or anything dramatic... I really had nothing to say) but that wasn't good enough, so they thought I was lying. This happened every time seminars came around.. spending 5 days straight in the hobbit fucking sucks. I still have nightmares about that place and it's been 5+years. It's scary these places still exist.

Anyways, that's some of my experience, trying to answer your question Antigen. I definitely have been through a couple 'programs' *I hesitate to call them that* that were extremely helpful. But they were in a completely differtent context than the shitholes discussed on this forum. These places were approved by my medical insurance. Spring creek wasn't. I wonder why?  :wink:
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« Reply #77 on: October 19, 2005, 10:35:00 PM »
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On 2005-10-19 16:22:00, Anonymous wrote:

I was in group with the kids and talked to the parents, some kids inflated their stories a bit but that all came out over the course of the program i.e. tons of writting, life stories, talking to parents in group, confronting each other etc. it all boils off eventually exposing the truth or as close as possible to it.


Yeah, that's what we thought too. In reality, these torrid confessions grow in the telling.

Here's some irony for you. In The Seed, there was a 16yo girl who claimed to have established herself a $1000 per DAY heroin habit. This was in 1970's dollars, mind you. And she was a tiny, pettite little girl. But she was telling the kinds of stories that fed the frenzy upon which the cult thrived, so no one ever challenged it.

The irony is that the cult leader, Art Barker, used to claim that the bills to keep the Seed open ran up to.... $1000 per day. Hmm, that's about as bad a an imaginary heroin habit, isn't it? Of course, no one in attendance ever dared remark upon the coincidence.

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« Reply #78 on: October 19, 2005, 11:20:00 PM »
I think I have to agree with this last post, I tried killing myself when I was at Heritage School for Girls in Provo Utah, and they sent me to a psychiatric hospital for a month, and it was a great place to be. I tried to stay there as long as I could, because atleast I didn't have someone screwing with my head. I guess it was too expensive, and in the end I was sent back to Heritage for a couple more years by my parents.
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« Reply #79 on: October 19, 2005, 11:21:00 PM »
A phone?!? Yes I can see how that might keep a facility more in-check than what I experienced. I mean it wouldn't stop abuse from  people who were just truly abusive, but atleast a Phone would have given us hope. More programs take ALL rights away, ALL. I mean ALL. Even the right to close your eyes for a long reliving break from the floresent lights. We NEVER saw the sun, except through a window, when we went to the building a little later on Sundays. Everyones skin was kinda green, malficient of necessary vitamins. We were forced to be physically ill for months and sometimes years. How could we even think properly. I just don't understand how so many places get away with it all. It's truly sad, thousands of children are dying a slow death because of programs.
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« Reply #80 on: October 20, 2005, 12:18:00 AM »
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On 2005-10-19 14:34:00, Anonymous wrote:

""Mostly parent over reacting to finding a small bag of pot."



Yeah, I'm sure that is exactly why the parents decided to spend $60K or so- because they were overreacting to a small bag of pot.

Have you killed so many brain cells that you don't remember exactly what it is that most of these kids were doing?  Just the things they would ADMIT to went way beyond civility and legality. I know kids in my peer group had stolen cars, stolen money and jewelry from their parents, stolen and sold prescription drugs, got kicked out of school, had promiscuous sex (girls), eating disorders, alcohol addictions, robbed garages, stole bikes....

Get real.  Whether or not you think these programs are all bad, and maybe some of them are, don't mislead yourself and others by pretending that the kids didn't need help desperately.  I know I did."


Hmmm. I think I did pretty much everything on your list except for the eating disorders and the sex (I wish). I never went to a program and came out okay anyway. Wonders never cease.
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« Reply #81 on: October 20, 2005, 12:42:00 AM »
Someone wrote about meth being addictive the first time you use it. This peaked my curiousity because they said the same thing about heroin when I was a kid. In fact, I never tried heroin for that very reason, so it was effective propaganda.
 
I checked into this by simply calling some doctors. They all said that NO substance is physically addictive after only a single use. Physical addiction occurs when the body builds up resistance to the substance.

A Google search pretty much confirmed this information.

Still, meth can be quickly addicting and causes permanent brain damage. Don't use it. Don't use heroin either. Both are very dangerous.
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« Reply #82 on: October 20, 2005, 09:34:00 AM »
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On 2005-10-19 21:42:00, AtomicAnt wrote:

"Someone wrote about meth being addictive the first time you use it. This peaked my curiousity because they said the same thing about heroin when I was a kid. In fact, I never tried heroin for that very reason, so it was effective propaganda.

 

I checked into this by simply calling some doctors. They all said that NO substance is physically addictive after only a single use. Physical addiction occurs when the body builds up resistance to the substance.



A Google search pretty much confirmed this information.



Still, meth can be quickly addicting and causes permanent brain damage. Don't use it. Don't use heroin either. Both are very dangerous."
Yes the physical addiction can take awhile, the Psychological addiction can be immediate in some cases, depending on the individual.  That is where the statement was leading.
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« Reply #83 on: October 20, 2005, 04:14:00 PM »
Look into SAN CRISTOBAL RANCH ACADEMY GOOD SCHOOL NOT abusive very nicely structered with good staff and a great director
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« Reply #84 on: October 20, 2005, 04:31:00 PM »
Were you a student at San Cristobal, or have a child enrolled there?
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« Reply #85 on: October 20, 2005, 04:42:00 PM »
San Cristobal Ranch Academy is a facility for young adult me ages 18-25. Seems like the "students" would have a whole lot of SAY-SO about whether or not they wanted to be there.

They have 4 phases...with phase 4 being where the students live "independently" in the town of TAOS.

Why pay a "school" for this type of experience?
Why not just outpatient care at home? Or at age 25---why not already graduated from college and living totally INDEPENDENT anyway?
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« Reply #86 on: October 27, 2005, 05:29:00 PM »
Frankly any facility that feels that a hotline is not needed, is not a facility that needs to have open doors. <- if by that you mean closed down, I agree  :grin:

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« Reply #87 on: November 17, 2005, 12:44:00 AM »
Why is it necessary to use fowl language to get a point across?  I am not only referring to your message, I see it often on this and other message boards.
Just curious,
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« Reply #88 on: November 17, 2005, 08:44:00 AM »
Not necessary, apparently a preference. Why the compulsion to comment? And, why the compulsion to evaluate (judge) others. Aren't 'good' christians suppose to leave that to their father?
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« Reply #89 on: November 17, 2005, 09:07:00 PM »
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On 2005-11-16 21:44:00, jody wrote:

"Why is it necessary to use fowl language to get a point across?  I am not only referring to your message, I see it often on this and other message boards.

Just curious,

Jody"


Because FOWL language is the only thing PARROTS understand!!!   :lol:
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