Why Are Struggling Parents Such An Easy Mark?

[Anonymous]

Why does this logic for validity work for you when you talk about the horrors in some behavior modification schools, but does not when you talk about the evidence of God and the life, death and ressurection of Jesus Christ?  "
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[Helena Handbasket]

Guess that is suppose to imply you are there with him, huh?  If so, why not just say that?   Just you, him, mommy and the computer - sounds like a real swell time!

Let's just say I know more than you do.  Maybe you don't know enough to be appraising anyone's personal life.  But then again, maybe it's none of your business.

Oh but that's right - we've been told he is "distant" from mommy.  Yet at 20, he is still sponging off her and living with her?  Great character statement there!

Again - you're attacking someone's personal life, and you don't know shit.  

I'm interested to hear your analysis of a situation, Doctor :

Two women live in a house together.  One is about 50, the other about 30.  Who's "living with" whom, and what is their relationship like?

Oh wait- that's right.  Poor college boy is broke.  You know, there is a cure for that - GET A JOB!  Besides, someone sooo brilliant that they even started college early cause they got "bored" and dropped out to get a GED - well, seems like they would be done already with college.  Hell, I work with a guy that goes to school full-time AND works full-time - and I bet he doesn't even know his IQ!


No wonder it makes that poster want to puke.  

And the rest of this is such juvenile drivel that I can't believe someone with your self-proclaimed understanding of psychology would bother to post... unless to goad someone into defending your personal attack so you can say "Oh LOOK!  See how DEFENSIVE you're getting???"  It's the oldest trick in the book, pal.


I noticed you said you work with a guy...

How about you, righteous one?  What's your level of education? How old were you when you finished college? What do you do for a living?  Do you have a woman (a man?) sitting on your lap right now?  What's your relationship with your mother like? ::

Go on... lie down on the couch if you like. :lol:

[Anonymous]

On 2005-09-29 04:25:00, Anonymous wrote:

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Why does this logic for validity work for you when you talk about the horrors in some behavior modification schools, but does not when you talk about the evidence of God and the life, death and ressurection of Jesus Christ?  "

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[Anonymous]

On 2005-09-29 05:08:00, Helena Handbasket wrote:

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Guess that is suppose to imply you are there with him, huh?  If so, why not just say that?   Just you, him, mommy and the computer - sounds like a real swell time!

Let's just say I know more than you do.  Maybe you don't know enough to be appraising anyone's personal life.  But then again, maybe it's none of your business.

Oh but that's right - we've been told he is "distant" from mommy.  Yet at 20, he is still sponging off her and living with her?  Great character statement there!

Again - you're attacking someone's personal life, and you don't know shit.  



I'm interested to hear your analysis of a situation, Doctor :



Two women live in a house together.  One is about 50, the other about 30.  Who's "living with" whom, and what is their relationship like?

Oh wait- that's right.  Poor college boy is broke.  You know, there is a cure for that - GET A JOB!  Besides, someone sooo brilliant that they even started college early cause they got "bored" and dropped out to get a GED - well, seems like they would be done already with college.  Hell, I work with a guy that goes to school full-time AND works full-time - and I bet he doesn't even know his IQ!




No wonder it makes that poster want to puke.  

And the rest of this is such juvenile drivel that I can't believe someone with your self-proclaimed understanding of psychology would bother to post... unless to goad someone into defending your personal attack so you can say "Oh LOOK!  See how DEFENSIVE you're getting???"  It's the oldest trick in the book, pal.





I noticed you said you work with a guy...



How about you, righteous one?  What's your level of education? How old were you when you finished college? What do you do for a living?  Do you have a woman (a man?) sitting on your lap right now?  What's your relationship with your mother like? ::



Go on... lie down on the couch if you like. :lol:

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Too funny!  I am only going by what he himself posted!  

Amazing - no where have I ever claimed to have an understanding of psychology.  Go back and read again dear.  You will notice that YOU are the one making up things to support your rants.  I am simply pointing out things that someone said about themselves.

Now I must say - I really don't see what 2 women living together (much less how old they are) has to do with this discussion - but fine - I'd say they are living TOGETHER.  

Cute trick!  Let's throw unrelated stuff out there.  We won't deny what was said, or clarify any misinformation.  We will just come up with unrelated drivel!

Or are you trying to say his mommy lives with him?  And this 20 yr old college kid that apparently is broke and has no job, is supporting his mommy?

One thing you did get right - it is none of my business.  So why does he insist on posting all this shit about his life?  Especially when it doesn't exactly paint him in a flattering light?

Oh, and since you asked so nicely (ha!), I have a 4 yr degree and was 20 when I graduated from university.  I am employed full-time.  There will be a real live human in my bed when I go to sleep tonight.  My mother and I have a wonderful relationship - we both love and respect each other.  Thanks for asking!

[Anonymous]

To the ANON bashing Niles: what is your problem? You are an absolute jerk, who deserves to only be ignored!

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On 2005-09-28 11:45:00, Anonymous wrote:

"Good post., Anon. A few positive words here: Ginger, I don't agree with a lot of your posts, but you do show a willingness to consider thoughtfully the other views on the forum.

 ::bangin:: program graduate" "college student" posting, it's usually her impersonating her own son, who's also got a ton of social issues.  

He previously has threatened people on this board that he was going to "rape your wife."  He's a sick and sadistic little bastard and takes after mommy who is an arrogant miscreant bereft of conscience or moral values.  

Just thought you might like to know who your dealing with.  Might as well bang your head on a rock... ::bangin::

[Anonymous]

On 2005-09-29 06:54:00, Anonymous wrote:

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On 2005-09-28 11:45:00, Anonymous wrote:


"Good post., Anon. A few positive words here: Ginger, I don't agree with a lot of your posts, but you do show a willingness to consider thoughtfully the other views on the forum.


 ::bangin:: program graduate" "college student" posting, it's usually her impersonating her own son, who's also got a ton of social issues.  



He previously has threatened people on this board that he was going to "rape your wife."  He's a sick and sadistic little bastard and takes after mommy who is an arrogant miscreant bereft of conscience or moral values.  



Just thought you might like to know who your dealing with.  Might as well bang your head on a rock... ::bangin:: "

Sorry - but you are wrong!  No idea who you are even talking about, but don't let that stop you!

I know - the truth, it's a bitch, ain't it?  Someday it will came and slap you right upside the head.  

Have fun - I'm done!

[Troll Control]

The Program Success Story Wrote:

"Oh, and since you asked so nicely (ha!), I have a 4 yr degree and was 20 when I graduated from university.  I am employed full-time.  There will be a real live human in my bed when I go to sleep tonight.  My mother and I have a wonderful relationship - we both love and respect each other.  Thanks for asking!"

Dude, you sleep with your mom?  That's sooooo nasty.  Can't you get some other "real live human" other than your own mom?  GROSS.

[Anonymous]

On 2005-09-29 06:54:00, Anonymous wrote:

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On 2005-09-28 11:45:00, Anonymous wrote:


"Good post., Anon. A few positive words here: Ginger, I don't agree with a lot of your posts, but you do show a willingness to consider thoughtfully the other views on the forum.


 ::bangin:: program graduate" "college student" posting, it's usually her impersonating her own son, who's also got a ton of social issues.  



He previously has threatened people on this board that he was going to "rape your wife."  He's a sick and sadistic little bastard and takes after mommy who is an arrogant miscreant bereft of conscience or moral values.  



Just thought you might like to know who your dealing with.  Might as well bang your head on a rock... ::bangin:: "

This mother-and-son duo are doing a very good job exposing the mindset of teen helper wannabees ... it's all about THEIR twisted values and beliefs and instilling them into young minds.

The mother troll, especially, should buy herself a big bottle of anti-diarrhea medicine b/c the chit coming out her mouth is so putrid it makes me want to puke.

 :smokin:

[Nihilanthic]

BTW all, I just checked on something. Dug into the ole box-o-childhood-paper-crap.

As a young child I got a WISC-III test done. Thats Wechsler Intelligence Scale for Children - III

I scored a 143. 135 is the threshold for being in the smartest 1% of the population.In other words, its statistically almost guaranteed Im smarter than most if not all people here.

So yeah, keep trolling away, Im having a blast being called stupid ::both:: by someone trying to play those double-bind psychological tricks that everyone does in the LGAs (under the guise of worksop, seminar, propheet, rap, or simply verbal diarrhea) and saying he got it right right after I said he got it WRONG... and then continues to call me a 'mamas boy'.

P.S. - the reason Im sticking around, is because she had thyroid cancer, and having had her thyroid and the cysts removed requires help around the house and with my sister. Assuming sure made an ass out of you today, bucko.

Oh, and yes, heres your dime: I really, really got off on being an arrogant prick to you  :grin:

Rulers who wish to subvert the public liberty may have found an established clergy convenient auxiliaries. A just government, instituted to secure and perpetuate it, needs them not.
http://www.law.ou.edu/hist/remon.html' target='_new'>James Madison, "A Memorial and Remonstrance", 1785

[Troll Control]

On 2005-09-29 10:34:00, Nihilanthic wrote:

"BTW all, I just checked on something. Dug into the ole box-o-childhood-paper-crap.



As a young child I got a WISC-III test done. Thats Wechsler Intelligence Scale for Children - III



I scored a 143. 135 is the threshold for being in the smartest 1% of the population.In other words, its statistically almost guaranteed Im smarter than most if not all people here.



So yeah, keep trolling away, Im having a blast being called stupid ::both:: by someone trying to play those double-bind psychological tricks that everyone does in the LGAs (under the guise of worksop, seminar, propheet, rap, or simply verbal diarrhea) and saying he got it right right after I said he got it WRONG... and then continues to call me a 'mamas boy'.



P.S. - the reason Im sticking around, is because she had thyroid cancer, and having had her thyroid and the cysts removed requires help around the house and with my sister. Assuming sure made an ass out of you today, bucko.



Oh, and yes, heres your dime: I really, really got off on being an arrogant prick to you  :grin:

Rulers who wish to subvert the public liberty may have found an established clergy convenient auxiliaries. A just government, instituted to secure and perpetuate it, needs them not.
http://www.law.ou.edu/hist/remon.html' target='_new'>James Madison, "A Memorial and Remonstrance", 1785

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Niles, I have known for some time that you are a deviant of sorts.  I just never dreamed you were THAT DEVIANT.

Your IQ is two standard deviations above the average.  The deviant bastard's a genius.  

Give that man a cigar...

[Nihilanthic]

:roll:

The notion that a radical is one who hates his country is naive and usually idiotic. He is, more likely, one who likes his country more than the rest of us, and is thus more disturbed than the rest of us when he sees it debauched. He is not a bad citizen turning to crime; he is a good citizen driven to despair.


--H.L. Mencken

[TheWho]

On 2005-09-29 15:00:00, Nihilanthic wrote:

":lol: Id settle for an explanation of why Im having trouble getting a job, Im having trouble affording an education... and our leaders are by most accounts dumbfucks  :roll:

The notion that a radical is one who hates his country is naive and usually idiotic. He is, more likely, one who likes his country more than the rest of us, and is thus more disturbed than the rest of us when he sees it debauched. He is not a bad citizen turning to crime; he is a good citizen driven to despair.


--H.L. Mencken

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Aspergers Syndrome?  I'm serious, when you mentioned your I.Q. and then looked at the type of responses you were giving to people expressing their feelings it clicked.
Check it out - no slight intended

[Troll Control]

On 2005-09-29 15:55:00, Anonymous wrote:

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On 2005-09-29 15:00:00, Nihilanthic wrote:


":lol: Id settle for an explanation of why Im having trouble getting a job, Im having trouble affording an education... and our leaders are by most accounts dumbfucks  :roll:

The notion that a radical is one who hates his country is naive and usually idiotic. He is, more likely, one who likes his country more than the rest of us, and is thus more disturbed than the rest of us when he sees it debauched. He is not a bad citizen turning to crime; he is a good citizen driven to despair.




--H.L. Mencken

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Aspergers Syndrome?  I'm serious, when you mentioned your I.Q. and then looked at the type of responses you were giving to people expressing their feelings it clicked.

Check it out - no slight intended"

By definition, those with AS have a normal IQ and many individuals (although not all), exhibit exceptional skill or talent in a specific area. Because of their high degree of functionality and their naiveté, those with AS are often viewed as eccentric or odd and can easily become victims of teasing and bullying. While language development seems, on the surface, normal, individuals with AS often have deficits in pragmatics and prosody. Vocabularies may be extraordinarily rich and some children sound like "little professors." However, persons with AS can be extremely literal and have difficulty using language in a social context.

This DOES NOT describe Niles.

Why would a genius-level IQ lead you to think about AS when, by definition, IQ's are normal?  

I think you spend too much time trying to LOOK like you know what you're talking about and too little time actually learning.

If you're going to be an arm-chair psychologist, at least try to give a somewhat relevent diagnosis.

[AtomicAnt]

On 2005-09-29 04:25:00, Anonymous wrote:

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Why does this logic for validity work for you when you talk about the horrors in some behavior modification schools, but does not when you talk about the evidence of God and the life, death and ressurection of Jesus Christ?  "

I once had a conversation with a fundementalist christian and when I mentioned I was a member of the UUA, he said, "Oh yeah, that's the church where you can believe anything you want."

My response was, "No, as a fundamentalist christian, you can believe anything you want; despite history, science, logic, and reason. I have to justify what I believe in."

[ This Message was edited by: AtomicAnt on 2005-09-29 16:48 ]