Carlbrook

[sick of child torture girl]

i have only read some of the postings here but i would just like to say as a former Calrbook student that it was the worst place i have ever been.  I was part of the "rebellion" that happend their about a year ago and was sent to a government run juvinile detention facility where the kids really knew how to fight the staff...clubs shanks ect... i just want to say to all my friends i saw hurt at Carlbrook that i couldn't do more to help them.  

o yea my parents went to jail in part for sending me to carlbrook, they used carlbrook as a tool to keep me from reporting years of abuse so fuck carlbrook and the parents who say that all parents are just trying to do the right thing.  And fuck grant Price he was my bitch and i told him so when i was there.

Here is the quote. I suggest you read more carefully. They were sent to jail in part for sening him to Carlbrook as they used it as a tool for keeping him from reporting the abuse.

What do you think of that consequence?. Is it appropriate?

[Anonymous]

I suspect if you checked into the matter you would discover that the actual placement at Carlbrook had absolutely nothing to do with any jail sentence.   Can I sell you some property, while we're at it?

[Anonymous]

Prison is the appropriate punishment. All parents who resort to locking a child up against their will should be sent to prison because it should be against the law. Reading what these insane program parents write must be like going to a NAMBLA meeting. They sit around and discuss sick and disgusting child abuse, and to them it is completely normal and acceptable. I hope more parents are sent to prison for this sort of unethical behavior.

[Anonymous]

Good luck with that!

[Anonymous]

I suspect if you checked into the matter you would discover that the actual placement at Carlbrook had absolutely nothing to do with any jail sentence.   Can I sell you some property, while we're at it?

It is used by program parents as a place to send their child to be hidden from society where they do not report abuse. The parents pay to keep the kid silenced, yes it had everything to do with it! That's why you get so upset when reading this website, you want to keep these safe haven for child abusers like yourself open, sorry but it's coming to an end you sick freak!!!

[Anonymous]

Makes you wonder if Karen's son had a secret about his mom or dad that he threatened to reveal? Then he got escorted away and the place doesn't report it to authorities. It is a clever scam for abusive parents.

[Deborah]

Ok so, the parent who pays loads to send their kid away because they want to change girlfriends, careers, sexuality? Is that punishment or consequence (YOU WILL NOT BE GAY! THIS IS YOUR CONSEQUENCE FOR BEING WHO YOU ARE!) this to me is callous, the oarents who send their kids away because they have become what the parents don't want them to be, what happened to live & let live? Letting a kid become his/her own person is the best gift you can give to them

You are so totally full of shit if you think this is why parents send kids away. Funny how parents are supposed to practice "live & let live" when it comes to their kids, but the kids don't have to practice fuck-all. The kids can be total criminals, stealing everything they can get their hands on, taking all kinds of drugs and then driving their parent's car, refusing to go to school, refusing to get a job, being verbally and physically abusive to their parents or brothers and sisters -- in other words, doing whatever the fuck they want and expecting mom & dad to just take it...and keep paying the tab to support a completely insensitive little shit of an offspring.

Fuck that shit. Some kids get sent away simply because their parents are tired of being terrorized by the little demon they tried to raise to be a decent human being.

No, you are wrong. I think you are projecting your situation on the masses. There are many kids who are sent away because their religious/political views differ from their parents, parents don't like their kids boy/girlfriend, bad grades, talking back, stress between kid and step-parent, parents social schedule is too full to parent, etc. etc.

The 'little demon' wasn't born that way, yet is sent away to be punished/ conditioned for the inadequacies of his parents. When a kid is physically abusing their parent, there is some serious lack of teaching and boundaries going on the household. Is that the kids fault? At what point did he learn that his parents would tolerate physical violence? I'm guessing it probably started around 2.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, that's it!  You've finally figured it out.

[Deborah]

Brilliant answer luv! Now what do you do when your kid doesn't want or need your approval or to talk to you, and his idea of "grow and develop their own path" means little more than do as many drugs as possible, do as little work as possible, choose "criminal" as an occupation, hurt as many people as possible during your brief stay on this earth, constantly remind everyone that life is pointless and it makes no difference who lives or who dies today or tomorrow?

That is HOPELESSNESS, and a common source of parentally distressing behavior. Learned helplessness.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Learned_helplessness

Why do you think your kid felt that depth of hopeless/helplessness? Any clue? When did it first manifest? Did you ever explore that with him, or pay someone else to help him explore it?

[sick of child torture girl]

I suspect if you checked into the matter you would discover that the actual placement at Carlbrook had absolutely nothing to do with any jail sentence.   Can I sell you some property, while we're at it?

How about you sell me an "emotional growth school" , where the deans Time Brace , Justin Merrit, and Grant Price were hands on torturing kids in one officially confirmed cult and another suspected cult Cedu and Cascade both synanon offshoots that  were both were shut down by abuse issues, where kids personally can testify  seeing Tim emotional and physically abuse kids, where there is only one liscenced phD in psych who comes from off campus once a week, where kids are subject to the whims and under the authority of other kids whom you say are "criminals "and have so far devoted themselves to "hurting as people as they can"-that "positive peer culture" -youth enforcers you corrupt instead of hiring staff, that is not liscened for health services, and insists kids achieve a "softening up"  mental breakdown through a forced march before confinement for 5000$s a month or so

Oh no, Im not that stupid

[Anonymous]

Now what do you do when your kid doesn't want or need your approval or to talk to you

Stop referring to them as a demon child for starters.  :roll:

Of course, never to their face. But what if they really are a demon child?

[Anonymous]

Now what do you do when your kid doesn't want or need your approval or to talk to you

Stop referring to them as a demon child for starters.  :roll:

Of course, never to their face. But what if they really are a demon child?

Who the fuck is this? Karen?

Eat shit and die, you're wasting your time here.

[Anonymous]

Now what do you do when your kid doesn't want or need your approval or to talk to you

Stop referring to them as a demon child for starters.  :roll:

Of course, never to their face. But what if they really are a demon child?

Must of been raised by demon parents.

[exhausted]

Now what do you do when your kid doesn't want or need your approval or to talk to you

Stop referring to them as a demon child for starters.  :roll:

Of course, never to their face. But what if they really are a demon child?

Must of been raised by demon parents.

That hit the nail on the head !!!

Parenting means to guide, love, prroterct and help their child as much as possible to do what they, (THE CHILD) should consider is right or wrong

it is not about controlling or forcing your kid into being a clone of yourself or forcing them to believe in the same thing as you do - their minds are individual to ours, it is up to the parents to give them the tools to make those choices, I wish with my whole heart someone had given me my own advise a long long time ago

By the way, I never said Carlbrook advertises correction of Gayness/Adhd, depression, I was talking about some programs who do

In answer to what I do once my kids don't look to me for advice or approval etc.....I would like to hope that we will have built up a good enough relationship that they will always come to their mum, if they don't, then theyll be adults by that time and must do what they do

[irvbulldogs72]

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