Peninsula Village

[Anonymous]

So, uh, why are you sharing this? We know programs take advantage of sexually abused girls, and we know the shit they say to justify it is not true.... why are you rehashing it?

This is a discussion forum for survivors to talk about their experiences in abusive programs, isn't it obvious?

[Anonymous]

we ran across this dudes bud growin in the middle of nowhere, but it was totally nasty, not worth a cunt hair. we woulda been better off smokin cauliflower leaves. and then jake starts itchin like crazy and he's like fuck this cocksucker is growin his stash in a fucking poison ivy patch and were all just scratchin and thinking fuck we could use some calamine lotion. so much for free weed. weed is never free.

[psy]

I was talking about sexual harassment at school, I  bleeped it out  *&^*& because it was horrible.

Yes...  It's apparantly so horrible you can't repeat it here...

WOmen should feel free to talk about such things with out being told they are at fault, "I must like sex, be obsessed with it"

I don't think anybody said you liked it.  I think Guest said you were obsessed with it.  As in terrified of it.  As in sex-o-phobia.  Take for example this mysterious C word that you can't seem to repeat.  I can't think of any C word that is, by itself, sexual harassment.  If you are referring to "cunt"... well.  People call people dicks far more often i think.  Again.. Double standard.

you say, because I am writing about sexual harassment and I gave an example with what was said bleeped out? Go to hell! You are abusive.  PV does public relations damage control I think, that is the best you could come up with?  That is so PV evil irrational stupid logic,

Oh geez... i'm PV staff.  That's funny.  Yeah.. Go check out my website sometime.

[psy]

when I say unfit parents and in state care or semi in state care, I mean the parents were so unfit the state took the kid away but then gave them back kind of only to have to take them away again and so on. The child ended up living in both foster care sometimes and at home sometimes, when parents would sober up for a while, year or two.  Parents alcoholics, abusive, drug addicts, negligent and such, not just jerks.  I forgot the thirteen year old whos mother was an alcoholic and her father had been shot. Her baby sister was still living with alco mom, because she was little I guess, the state thought the thirteen year old needed help dealing with her fathers death?  She had done nothing else another case of PV helping abused girls.  
I'm not scared of you all either! Oh no not harassment never seen that before. You can't kill me, I've written who would be responsible everywhere.  You can't arrest me unless you plant something on me, hmm shouldn't give them ideas, Of course I can pass a drug test.

Nobody is out to kill you.  At least not here.  Um.. I think you're just a wee bit paranoid.

[Anonymous]

This thread is fucked. Move on people.  Stop going back and forth with her about it all. You only are adding to it.

[psy]

I really am not picking on all men :roll: I like a lot of men, nice people and such, I want a revolution but I think a peaceful approach with civil disobedience is the way to get stuff done, I'm not going to be elbowed out by freshmen, at least a few of you can't drink in bars I'm guessing?  I'm just going to keep right on talking!

Um.. I'm 24.  Zen is ... well zen is old.  Niles is... well he's in his 20s.  I don't think anybody here is under the drinking age.

[Anonymous]

This thread is fucked. Move on people.  Stop going back and forth with her about it all. You only are adding to it.

Too bad your not a moderatir you could close it.

[psy]

I view discussions of sexism, rape, molestation, harassment and other mostly womens issues as things that should not be viewed as taboo, like we live under the Taliban or something.   She said sexism, that has sex in it?  Huh? and the other people list expanitives I could  be talking about, It was cauliflower totally like he says, you knew what I was taliking about you went on to say it. :roll:   I edit *&^^ explanitives, because they sound so bad when you re write them, even though you are giving examples of things that are bad and not what you think or say.

Well fair enough.  Just understand nobody else will know what the fuck you are talking about.

It's not saying the c word to the room, it's saying it to a woman or about a woman, it is still a pretty offensive term.  Sexism may begin with sex because it inevitably , historically it seems to have to do with the sexual oppression, repression and abuse of women.  sorry but that is what sexism is, economics come into play, if you look at marriage a hundred years ago it had a lot to do with sex and economics and women were not given any other outlets?  This has only so much to do with me?  It is as much about people I have known, please have some respect for all the girls in the Village and elsewhere and understand that you should let people talk without bothering them?  Do you have anything interesting about life to say?  Anything relevant to PV?  Otherwise you should not be here, I am the only one on here that was in PV? Sexism was a big problem in PV for women, I don't even think half of you know what sexual prejudice is.  It's when a woman says I was flashed or something and someone says, well what were you doing in the park alone and such.  
This is relevant to being in PV for me, and more than a couple of the other girls, because I was in PV because I was molested at fourteen, and then I got PV's crazy sexual prejudice for two years!  I am so used to being attacked about this stuff, I am an expert on it, I anaylize and read books on it.  Don't give me any more examples :roll: I speak out about it because I think it is important.  It is real, that is why I am like this, paranoid or not,  how could I not be paraniod? If you were one of the girls in PV for being molested you would think the same thing.  
Your responses are terrible and I am saddened by them, have some empathy. Please think first before you say stuff back, I am not attacking men

But you hold a double standard...  You think women are the victims always.  Well.  historically they have been.  i aggree with your description of history, and you were a victim.  I think I made that clear.  You are misinterpreting almost everything I say.  I think the deck is definately stacked against women.  however, at the same time, like I said, you don't gain equality through things like overly-sensitive censorship.

the tv is mysogynistic in a lot of ways, women are often portrayed as stupid available prostitutes, annoying but there for sex?

I aggree.  I don't watch TV for reasons like that (but a bit more general).

I am sorry if I seem to pick on men, but think a little, I have good reason to be a bit touchy.

You're right.  You have reason.  It doesn't justify it. But i can understand your reasons for doing it.  Likewise, I think many of the responses you've gotten here have been overly harsh, or at least insensitive.  Probably myself included.  I wish you would PM me so I could explain a bit more.  but Hey... If you don't feel like it.  Fine.

[psy]

This thread is fucked. Move on people.  Stop going back and forth with her about it all. You only are adding to it.

we'll get a mod to fork it later.  somewhere around page ... well whenver this started.

[Anonymous]

Rampant talking out of group , I thought that was welcome here? Group is getting angry though?!!  :x  :x

[ZenAgent]

Peace. I found out what I wanted, nasty as I had to be to find out.  Free, be cool, no one's against you.  Bye.

And I'm 40, dammit.  Old is what you make it.

[Anonymous]

thank you, i really just want to post stuff about PV. I didn't mean to call you Nihilanthic a moron but you made me angry,  
I like video games?
I was hard on the ninja guy because you have to be careful I think saying anything that could be seen as a threat, especially me because PV might know who I am
plus I am an advocate of peace and happy people and such, maybe you have to fight to get to peace I don't know, sometimes.
But i think writing and other stuff within laws is the most effective way obviously.
I can understand anger for sure
video games are fun.
I'm into wicca and stuff, but I'm a good witch and all, I prefer shinto Buddhist christian but whatever.  I can make a mean seaweed, sulfer zit cream.  Don't know about Baphomet, I know who he is but i don't think you should sacrifice things to him. obviously
I like nice things, having dealt with so much ugliness makes you really stay toward not scary nice stuff?  I get all sorts of crap about the religious stuff, people don't get it.
I think people should have happy, fun healthy sex lives, between two consenting people that care about each other or at least both know what the expectations or lack of are.  I don't think people should feel ashamed about sex and I don't think relationships should be abusive.  I think everyone should be completely consenting and no lying to get a girl or guy in bed with you.  You should say up front what you are looking for.
Other than that let the boinking go on in happiness and prosperity
Sexual harassment is unwanted sexual talk and such not normal sex stuff between consenting people, to get it to stick in court you have to tell the person you don't like what they are saying Jesus :roll:  
stop attacking me
sexual abuse, harassment, rape all of this stuff has nothing to do with normal happy sex? Normal happy sex is good, the above is very very bad. Ok do you get me now? You came back with all this stuff about pretty normal sex, what you do by yourself is your own damn business, don't tell me about it either. but I do think people should not be taught shame
they should be protected from abuse of course thought but the two things have nothing to do with each other.
I have had a normal love life, I am really busy right now.  Guys ask me out, but no one I've been interested in?  I should say yes to the next nice seeming guy.
I honestly think taking it slow is wise because god knows what you are going to get, for guys or girls, if you take it to fast.  Next thing you know your married, or they are living with you?  Did I agree to this, but anyway?  I was the last guest too, so I don't get accused of anything I just forgot to write my name.

[psy]

YI'm writing this stuff to get it out there, not to have it commented on? PV is bad, can we stay with that theme.  It is bad because it beats up on girls who deal with bad sexual harassment in school everyday and blames them for it.

Fair enough, but you hurt your hypothetical case by not being willing to state frankly what was said, without ^&^&$(#*$)%.  or "C" words.  At the same time, you talk about how horrible it is to hear those things around college, and how often you hear them.  Hypothetically, if I were a lawyer on PV's side, I would have a jolly old time blasting you in court, portraying you as a loony over-sensitive drama-queen who gets off on being the center of attention, seeing "harassment" everywhere.  You follow?  Nobody besides you, or I, or anybody else who was in program, knows, or cares that you are this way as a result of PV.  At the same time, we aren't making the decisions here, and we aren't your audience.  If you want to speak to the parents, great!  But consider what they are likely to believe, and leave out things that may be true, but are less likely to be believed.  There is lots of shit that happened at Benchmark that I leave out becuase A: it's too embarrassing, and B: because many of the things wouldn't be believed, and would take away credibility from my overall argument.  Besides, what i've said publicly is bad enough.  There is also the issue of confidence.  People's stories that I could tell, i often don't publicly, becuase I'm not sure if they are ready to speak out, and I'm not going to call them out when they're not ready.  That's why i suggested PMing me.  K.  There was a girl who was in a very similar situation to yours at Benchmark.  If I were to elaborate, publicly, it would be immediately clear who I was talking about and that would not be right, considering her issues were very personal and sensitive.

[Anonymous]

Well fuck me black jesus! who woulda thought a PV survivor could be the most effective troll ever on fornits and totally destroy such a long and useful thread?!

[Anonymous]

all right that's it, you all are ridiculous, this is supposed to be about PV,  At least two people on here are probably PV staff, not psych guy.
Zen why did you have to know that exactly?  
why would you be so unpleasant to find that out.  
That is not a very nice tactic
what does any of this have to do with PV?
I posted stuff about how the girls in PV are not juvenile delinquents?
I'm sorry if you all sound young?
Anyone not writing about PV go away.
I am paranoid because PV/ covenant health has a lot of money and connections, and I don't feel like getting arrested for having a tail light out or something ok?  Or beaten up by some random goon ok?  I am scared of PV understandably.  Those people would kick my ass very fast if they  could.  
I am sorry if you disagree about what I considers sexual harassment.
It's not a big deal, and has nothing to do with PV
what the hell was that weed post? you are just bogging down anything good said in stupidity.