You sound like a kid playing at being a parent--- an overly-permissive(read that as lazy and distracted) parent and there's a good chance that your kid is going to have plenty of trouble learning boundaries and appropriate ways of being with other people. Your posts, taken as a whole say that you've got some growing up to do yourself before you can adequately raise somebody else
I don't wish that on you but it's a fact, and I'd like to hear how you feel about your anything-goes theories in a few years.
Love involves teaching limits as well as making pretty speeches about what a superb mother you are. Childhood is not about "being seen but not heard", it's about learning that there is a time and a place to be heard, to act certain ways, to just plain not do certain things.
Frankly you just sound like you're not up to the task of being an adequate mom, based on this and other posts, just a lot of platitudes and a whole lot of time ranting and bashing others on the computer.
Time, btw, that maybe, just maybe, you could be sharing with your child doing something constructive instead of being a cyber smart-ass most of the time