Why did she refuse to go to school? How old was she at that time?
We really didn’t know. We tried changing schools and had her schooled at home but she just lost interest. She felt she couldn’t succeed or do well. She didn’t feel like she was smart enough.
She was about 13, I think, when we first noticed her down turn.
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Lost interest? at 13? LOL..many children HATE school at that age...that is quite normal ...many children say they do not want to go to school, they want to eat ice cream and watch TV and hang out with friends ...yet you are the father who says: get your little butt to school darling, because I say so! You know? Actually be dad!
Sorry, I do not want to say you did not have problems with your child,but I feel there must be much more to you story.I mean if that was your main reason for sending your daughter away, I feel really sorry for her...and you really should appologize to her !
Be honest: did you never doubt your desicion?
Why was your self esteem so low that you thought you could not handle your own child?