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The Troubled Teen Industry / idea, inspired by over the gw. the grassroots effort thread.
« on: October 06, 2007, 09:25:31 AM »Quote from: ""Oz girl""
On one hand if a kid is experiencing legal, mental health or substance abuse difficulties and there appears to be a lack of local social services or extremely heavy handed laws when it comes to petty youth crime and drug use then a program is going to be pretty tempting.
Many parents have complained of these issues and I can see how jail is a realistic fear in states with an excessive approach to youth crime or drug taking. While i recognize that Jail is ironically better than most programs I can see how the word Boarding School is going to sound better than jail to any reasonable parent.
You have hit on exactly the issues that caring parents face. Zero Tolerance policies and heavy handed punishments create more fear for parents than they do for teens. No parent wants to see their child denied the ability to finish his or her education, or to start their adult life with a criminal record that limits their ability to find the kind of job they want. Although jail or juvie may be less abusive than many programs, that fact is not obvious to desperate parents who are looking for solutions, or looking for ways to get around the Zero Tolerance madness and the long-term consequences their children may suffer from being labeled a "bad kid" by the state. On the surface, a boarding school seems like a better alternative than juvenile detention, limiting educational opportunities and limiting job opportunities.
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This is why any real grass roots action needs to also look at lobbying for a far more sensible approach to young people on a local level. A shift away from ridiculous zero tolerance policy both in schools and with regard to policing is a start. Greater genuinely helpful and accesable mental health and medical services would also help in reducing the sense of desperation (false or otherwise) that parents feel. if nothing else a good non hysterical local doctor can reassure a parent who suspects their experimenting child is an addict.
That will require a political shift. Zero tolerance comes from the conservative "get tough on crime" folks, who tend to be the same folks that don't want to spend tax money on things like mental health services for youth. Even good non hysterical doctors are getting harder to find. Many times, it's a doctor or therapist who suggests the idea of a therapeutic boarding school to parents. I suspect in most cases they know absolutely nothing about what these programs really do, but they suggest them anyway as an option for troubled parents.
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Having said this, it does seems that some parents are far more willing to buy in than others. Some of the things that kids to get sent to the industry for indicate that there is either hysteria on the parents part, a step parent who wants them sent away cause they are not cute any more or a parent who expects total obedience form the kid. I can remember reading about Paul Richards in help at any cost. On one hand his parents did appear brainwashed but on the other they were pretty shitty parents to begin with. They appeared to pretty much decide that their son was an asshole at ten and spend his adolescence picking fights with him and punishing him. Programs are always going to market to such people. So the question is were they brainwashed or were they assholes who just found like minded freaks?
The only solution to this is civil rights for youth. If you are legally treated as someone else's property, and that someone is an abusive asshole, you're pretty much screwed.