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The Troubled Teen Industry / Re: Outward Bound
« on: August 23, 2006, 11:11:01 AM »
Quote from: ""Guest""
WTF

http://www.troubledteensprograms.com/pr ... og_id=2352

Thompson Island Outward Bound

Brad M. Reedy, Ph.D., L.M.F.T.

 Phone: (435)738-2040
Fax: (435)738-2046
Email: [email protected]
 
Brad began his studies at Brigham Young University where he graduated Magna Cum Laude with a B.S. in Family Science.  Next, he attended Loma Linda University where he received an M.S. in Marriage and Family Therapy.  He returned to B.Y.U. and completed his Ph.D. in Marriage and Family Therapy.  During school, Brad?s clinical experience included work with sexually abused children, domestically violent offenders, and adults/adolescents with Substance Abuse and Dependence.

Research and clinical interests include treatment with sexual abuse victims, family trauma and associated processes, chemical dependence, personality disorders, sexual perpetrators, and developmental psychology.  Brad works with a variety of populations which often include students with dual diagnoses or gifted I.Q.?s.

In the public sector, Brad worked with young victims of physical and sexual abuse at Loma Linda University Hospital, domestic violence victims and perpetrators at Riverside Family Service Agency, and sexual perpetrators at Center for Family Development.  In private practice, Brad has also worked with individuals and families with eating disorders and other addictions.  Brad later worked as a field therapist and Clinical Director with Aspen Achievement Academy and Aspen Ranch.

Brad currently serves as one of the principal partners at Second Nature Wilderness Program and is the supervisor for the Clinical and Admissions Departments.

Born and raised in Orange County, California, the middle of three boys, Brad was raised by his mother.  He grew up surfing, listening to Bob Dylan, and causing his mom a great deal of grief.  Brad is married and has three children.  He enjoys golf, wakeboarding, snow skiing, motocross, and running.  He is an avid fan of the Los Angeles Lakers and the Anaheim Angels and can be easily engaged in a debate on any sports-related topic.

 
 


Dude, that guy was my best friend in treatment's counselor when she was at Second Nature. Wierd.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Update
« on: August 23, 2006, 11:00:40 AM »
I was the guest that posted earlier about having called her. Just forgot to log in. She emailed me and requested a meeting, I however, try not to make it a point to meet random people off the internet, so I told her a phone meeting would suffice. It is scheduled for Friday, I will post on the outcome.

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The Ridge Creek School / Hidden Lake Academy / My Mistake...
« on: August 23, 2006, 10:53:17 AM »
But havent you been the one making random ass posts on every topic on this site from like, 2 months ago, bumping threads and such?? And your going to sit here and say that you're "not sure why someone wants to dredge up this old stuff but i guess they are bored or something..."

I could ask you the same question, Suzanne.

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Well, first off its not supposed to be fun for anyone but the spectators. The reason behind my "challenge" was because I used to be like, a "goth" or whatever when I was like 13. And they thought that the way to get me out of that mindset was to make me dress in all white and play with rainbow streamers in front of the student body. In reality, the goth crap was just a phase I went thru in early HS years and had absolutely nothing to do with why I was sent away. I mean all kids go thru wierd phases with the way they dress and act. But they focused on that as my main issue. So that was their reasoning for my challenge. There were 2 others (everyone gets 3 challenges) but I cant remember what they were.

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Hehe. I had to dance with ribbon dancers dressed in all white to the song "True Colors". It was frickin hilarious.

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On 2005-12-16 15:09:00, Anonymous wrote:

"woah woah woah





dan?



im dan

and my bones arent shrinking. never were. if your making reference to A) the injuries i have had to my bones due to skateboarding or b) my scoliosis then you have no tact.



who the fuck are you, you pussy. hiding behind fucking anonymous names where its safe.



dan katz

pg 26.

id put my fucking address here if anyone talking shit would do it to my face."



Dan, calm down, it wasn't about you. I'm sure whoever that was was talking about the dan in pg 45(?) who moderates the MySpace group. Its a joke between the people that were there with him in the begining because of some of his actions regarding his health. Ask him about it sometime and I'm sure he'll elaborate. I wasn't there for it all but did hear the infamous stories.

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On 2006-05-21 17:37:00, Badpuppy wrote:

"Can you tell me how the couselors kept the gay kids from becoming pariahs? How did you help them work it through? Did you encourage them to discuss this in group?



Let me help you a little with your education. If you think being gay isn't a major issue in their lives you need a reality check. How the hell could you treat the drug abuse and depression without understanding what it is like to have to either lead a double life or a life where who you are is largely subjected to derision, and scorn. Rememeber, your a kid. You can't just up and go to a gay freindly area. Being gay is a comorbid factor in probably 30% of teen suicides.



Gay kids are going to gravitate in a different social environment than staight kids. Can you tell me whats different? I am trying to see if you are competent to deal with these kids.[ This Message was edited by:  on 2006-05-21 17:41 ]"


Are you talking to me? I'm not a counselor. I meant in my PG as in I was a student. I never claimed to be competent to "deal with" these kids.

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On 2006-05-21 11:45:00, Anonymous wrote:

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On 2006-05-19 13:51:00, Badpuppy wrote:


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On 2006-05-16 17:08:00, RobertBruce wrote:



"Hmmmm if thats true it raises more questions.







Why would a school prohibit inmates from forming any sort of relationship yet its owner not only engages in a homosexual relationship (a disorder the school at one point claimed to treat) while also engaging in dangerous promiscuity?







It really would raise a few questions should it turn out to be true. "




Why is promiscuous sex dangerous if they engage in safe sex? Is your point that homosexuatity is a disorder, or that HLA is hypocritical by treating homosexuality as a disease at the same time its owner was gay? I have the same disdain for homophobes as I do for this industry.  Many kids are incarcerated for little else than their sexual orientation. If the point of the post is to point out the irony of their gay relationship while treating homosexuality as disease that is one thing. If your point is to bash them for being gay thats something else."




I don't think that by listing homosexuality as something they treat they were calling it a disease.  What was meant by that is that they helped kids who were having difficulties with their sexual orientation and were going through a difficult time with that issue.  Never in my time there was a kid treated as having a disease if they were homosexual.  Actually the opposite was true.  Kids struggling with there sexual identity were just given an opportunity to work through that issue.  Whether they were homosexual or not was not the real issue."


Uhm, from having 2 homosexual kids in my PG, and being in the counseling sessions, I can atest that you are incorrect. Their sexual orientation and actions partaining to it were often brought up and "dealt with" in a very negative light.

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The Ridge Creek School / Hidden Lake Academy / Curious...
« on: May 19, 2006, 09:54:00 AM »
My mother doesnt want to argue. My moms kinda messed up from all this, and shit in her own life. Just because what she wrote was confusing and long winded and most people had no idea what she was saying, doesn't mean she just wanted to argue. She just wants someone to hear her side. Given, the way in which she tries to accomplish this isn't always appropriate, but oh well.

Me? I'm just not comfortable with a 40 yr old ex wife of a corrupt staff member, going onto the Alumni group of the place that staff worked at, and thinking it would be ok to post there. How did she THINK she was going to be welcomed? How were we supposed to react? Many of those kids are merely months out of HLA and out of the lying, manipulation, and excuse me, but mind-fucking that they probably were put through for well over 20 months. I'm not here to argue whether it actually happened or not, or the technicalities of the circumstances at HLA which it all happened. Whether its real or not, its real to THEM. And it is still VERY very raw. So yes, I do feel it is worth addressing to keep the peace and and safe environment of our Alum group. Because it is those higher-ups like the one SHH chose to defend in our group, that represents to us the most corrupt of all. The ones they saw rolling up in Jags, and the lawns they picked clear of leaves who lived on campus.  Making their millions off the parents, and off of our difficulties in life.

So think what you want, Anon, about my reasons for raising this issue.

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The Ridge Creek School / Hidden Lake Academy / Curious...
« on: May 17, 2006, 09:46:00 PM »
In ALL of that indignant bullshit you just regurgitated on this thread, you STILL managed to dodge the issue. So you can sell yourself to be as victimized as you want but, still... You've said NOTHING of value. So I guess I'll just have to let my questions go unanswered.

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The Ridge Creek School / Hidden Lake Academy / Curious...
« on: May 17, 2006, 02:37:00 PM »
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On 2006-05-17 07:54:00, SHH wrote:

"Dan, what makes you think that only people under 25 have a myspace? I personally know of 25 people over 35 who have one. Whether or not I have a page is none of your business. Whether or not you think I am ugly is also none of my concern. You are in your 20s, I dont expect you to find a 40 yr old woman atractive nor do I want you to. Those pics are of me, and my son and mother. They are for my friends. And what I clarified was that Bill wasnt fired, he resigned. That was it. I dont care what else they have to say, on here or there. I only wanted to clarify that one thing. And trust me, my life is far from pathetic. Im very proud of my career, my son, and my accomplishments. What you think about those things is completely irrelevant."


Ok, so you jumped at the chance to defend your looks, the fact that you have a myspace account, and that you only clarified ONE thing (which doesnt really make you look much better, considering the amount of posts you had to have read to clarify that ONE thing must have been alot).

Why cant you JUMP at the chance to answer my questions? They weren't rhetorical, and I'm waiting...

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The Ridge Creek School / Hidden Lake Academy / Curious...
« on: May 16, 2006, 01:34:00 AM »
Obviously not.

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The Ridge Creek School / Hidden Lake Academy / Curious...
« on: May 15, 2006, 01:52:00 PM »
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On 2006-05-15 08:06:00, SHH wrote:

"Ok fine, I wont post there. That was only my 2nd post there in a year anyway. LIke I said, I wasnt trying to cause problems. But maybe if you don't like non members posting, making the site private isnt such a bad idea. Right now anybody who is a member of myspace can post there, if they want. So maybe making it private will prevent non alums from posting since it seems to be upsetting to some of you."


Theres a reason we decided to keep it public, and that was for easier access for Alums. Plus, the moderator of the group was in PG 43 (i think. or 46 I cant remember). Anyway. We have Alums from pg 13 and such there, and also from newer ones. How would he know if they ever went there or not, to be able to accurately dole out access. However, it is easy to tell that a middle aged women totally preoccupied with her ex-husband doesnt belong posting there. Why do you put so much effort into this HLA posting anyway? You responded pretty quickly to that girls post, which shows you read the board quite often. What is your M.O. for getting involved? The only way to feel connected to your ex-hubby perhaps?  My advice? Find a new hobby. Maybe knitting?

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The Ridge Creek School / Hidden Lake Academy / Curious...
« on: May 15, 2006, 10:31:00 AM »
Ok, well had you read the site more clearly, it is for HLA Alums. We had an issue a while back about ex staff posting on there and creating problems, and made it very clear that either we were going to make the site private or other people were not to post there. Plus, dont you think its a little inappropriate for a 40 year old woman to be posting on a site with all recent high school grads? The site is not for you, and I would reccommend not posting there again.  It is not your place to "clarify" our arguments.

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The Ridge Creek School / Hidden Lake Academy / Curious...
« on: May 15, 2006, 09:53:00 AM »
http://forum.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuse ... =100144848

At the myspace board, this Sanna person (4th post down) came in to "clarify". The face look familiar to anyone? I'm just confused as to why this 40 year old is reading over the message board of HLA kids.

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