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« on: September 18, 2004, 01:02:00 PM »
That quote is perfect.
The worst part of the whole experience, was that I was supported in the belief that I was (or had been) a bad person; that my former friends were liars, users, freaks and 'Druggies' (even if they'd never used drugs, they had a 'druggie' attitude); and that the Seed ideology and the staff that enforced it were virtually faultless.
I internalized the belief that, without the Seed, I was a loser. That I myself had 'fucked everything up' before I turned my life over to the Seed, and that on my own, I had been a bad influence on my friends, family, and society (I was 'part of the problem').
As part of the Seed, I saw other people as sick and deluded, and maybe bad. I saw myself as 'better' than others, but also knew I was potentially bad, because only the Seed made me 'straight.' And I always felt anxious, because, to my shame, I wasn't as perfect as I hoped to be.
Today, I see this same attiude in churches, schools, political parties - this cult-like certainty about right or wrong, black and white. I see it on the right, or course, but also on the left. It's human nature, if we allow ourselves to throw away reason, and allow ourselves to be manipulated, especially regarding things we feel ashamed of, like our bodies, sexuality, imperfection, social fears.
Whew! In some ways, I am glad that I went through the Seed, because I really think I was given an inside view of human nature. I had to tear myself down and build myself up, once as part of the Seed, once as an 'ex-Seedling.'
However, I wouldn't wish that on others. There must be a better way!
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Wally Gator[ This Message was edited by: cleveland on 2004-09-18 10:02 ]