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AA is voluntary.  It may be a stupid idea but it's a voluntary stupid idea.  Sure informed consent isn't always there, like when the judge or the prison or whatever forces you there.  And it teaches bullshit...  but mostly it's a voluntary stupid idea.  I have no problem with voluntary stupid ideas.  Never have, never will.  Buyers of a product of treatment have the right to choose what they want, even if it's bunk.  At a certain point you just have to trust in people to educate themselves before they leap.  Force them by government?  Hell no.  That violates their rights to choose which treatment methods to use on their sovereign being.  If you want to eradicate AA, educate, and show it to be the bullshit that it is.  Google Penn & Teller on AA / 12 Step and watch the videos.  They did a good job of poking holes in it.

However I do have a problem with forcing people into AA.  That sort of government force has got to stop.  People have a right to refuse treatment (and I use the term "treatment" loosely as I do not see drug use as a disease, rather, a choice).

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Ok, but the key word there is influence.  Can you explain peer resistance and the others you mentioned?  I'm trying to understand the underlying structure of the program.  If it's voluntary, i'm personally cool with it, as long as people know what they're getting into.  If it's 12 step based?  If so, do they explain to people prior to "treatment" that it's a calvinistic religion that preaches a deterministic philosophy that denies the existence of free will?  What i'm getting at is: is there informed consent?  Is the program accurately marketed?  Are people being told not just that they are going to be "cured", but also how?  Once in the program, can people decline to participate in activities they feel uncomfortable with without consequence or does release require cooperation?

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Open Free for All / Re: Depression and Smoking
« on: April 18, 2010, 10:46:58 PM »
Whooter.  Could it be possible that your family suffers from depression, which is a disease?  Could it be possible that their substance use is merely a symptom?  See i'll never see addiction as a disease.  Maybe I can see that certain people like certain things more than others (maybe because they alleviate symptoms or pain of a disease) but liking something enough or wanting something enough does not excuse a person from personal responsibility.  If it were, we'd be letting off murderers simply because they had a really great motive.  Choosing to use a substance and choosing to continue to use it are choices.  A person cannot choose not to have cancer anymore.  The depression may never end but teaching people tools of self control and self discipline can alleviate the symptoms.  And yes, the right drugs can help too.

Problem is AA, which teaches the disease concept, preaches a deterministic philosophy where the disease is and always will be in control.  It teaches a person to be powerless and gives them an excuse and self of entitlement rather than teaching them they are responsible for their actions.  If you have no free will how can you be held morally responsible for your actions?!??!  I really wish people like you would stop for a minute and think about exactly what you are encouraging.  It's simply a wrong philosophy that denies the very free will that makes us human.  I hate it.  And compelling others into an indoctrination process so they'll agree with you on illicit substances is wrong.  Free will can be taken away in such a process but without that free will a person is a shell, a slave, and the worst is they don't even know it.

 :peace:

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Quote from: "DannyB II"
:shamrock:  :shamrock:

 I was thinking about this post above and it occurred to me that I may not be a alcoholic after all I'm Irish and that explains it. At least 50% anyway the rest was imported.
Seriously so many have studied the Alcoholic and produced results saying it is genetics, a lack of spirituality, disease and now social teaching.
Now this last one social importation. Hmmm I am not exactly sure if I understand this. I wonder if it has anything to do with what are children are being taught about drugs and alcohol today on a higher plane, subliminally by the actions happening around them. The troubled teen industry is filled with children/young adults with alcohol and drug abuse problems. I understand that this belies another latent problem yet before the real problem is addressed you can have alcoholism and addiction to drugs.
I don't know if I have been able to get my point across but I guess the long and short of it is this. What are we teaching are young Americans today about drugs and alcohol and is this affecting their growth.
Danny.......
 :shamrock:  :shamrock:
Wow. For the first time I agree with much (though not all) of what you're saying.  It doesn't mean you should go out and drink, though.  If you have a drinking problem it's probably better to be safe than sorry and abstain completely.  Once you pick up a habit, it's hard to undo.  Once you pick up certain beliefs, such as powerlessness, it's hard to "un-believe".  It can be done, as Moderation Management and Stanton Peele argue, but it's difficult.  The fact is that you don't need alcohol to live.  If you've had problems with drinking in the past, it's just common sense that you should avoid it, especially if your prior attempts to moderate have failed.

Here's another excerpt about genetics you might enjoy:

Quote from: "Stanton Peele"
The Genetics of Alcoholism

AA originally claimed that alcoholics inherit an "allergy" to alcohol that underlies their loss of control when they drink. Today this particular idea has been discarded. Nonetheless, a tremendous investment has been made in the search for biological inheritances that may cause alcoholism, while many grandiose claims have been made about the fruits of this search. In 1987, almost two-thirds of Americans (63 percent) agreed that "alcoholism can be hereditary"; only five years earlier, in 1982, more people had disagreed (50 percent) than agreed (40 percent) with this statement. Furthermore, it is the better educated who agree most with this statement.15 Yet widely promulgated and broadly accepted claims about the inheritance of alcoholism are inaccurate, and important data from genetic research call into doubt the significance of genetic influences on alcoholism and problem drinking. Moreover, prominent genetic researchers themselves indicate that cultural and environmental influences are the major determinants of most drinking problems, even for the minority of alcoholics who they believe have a genetic component to their drinking.

Popular works now regularly put forward the theory — presented as fact — that the inherited cause of alcoholism has been discovered. In the words of Durk Pearson and Sandra Shaw, the authors of Life Extension, "Alcohol addiction is not due to weak will or moral depravity; it is a genetic metabolic defect... [just like the] genetic metabolic defect resulting in gout." One version of this argument appeared in the newsletter of the Alcoholism Council of Greater New York:

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   Someone like the derelict. . . , intent only on getting sufficient booze from the bottle poised upside-down on his lips. . . [is] the victim of metabolism, a metabolism the derelict is born with, a metabolic disorder that causes excessive drinking.16

Is it really possible that street inebriates are destined from the womb to become alcoholics? Don't they really have a choice in the matter, or any alternatives? Don't their upbringings, or their personal and social values, have any impact on this behavior?

Several well-publicized studies have found that close biological relatives of alcoholics are more likely to be alcoholics themselves. The best-known research of this kind, examining Danish adoptees, was published in the early 1970s by psychiatrist Donald Goodwin and his colleagues. The researchers found that male adoptees with alcoholic biological parents became alcoholics three to four times more often than adoptees without alcoholic relatives. This research has several surprising elements to it, however. In the first place, only 18 percent of the males with alcoholic biological parents became alcoholics themselves (compared with 5 percent of those without alcoholic parentage). Note that, accepting this study at face value, the vast majority of men whose fathers are alcoholics do not become alcoholic solely because of biological inheritance.17

Some might argue that Goodwin's definition of alcoholism is too narrow and that the figures in his research severely understate the incidence of alcoholism. Indeed, there was an additional group of problem drinkers whom Goodwin and his colleagues identified, and many people might find it hard to distinguish when a drinker fell in this rather than in the alcoholic group. However, more of the people in the problem drinking group did not have alcoholic parents than did! If alcoholic and heavy problem drinkers are combined, as a group they are not more likely to be offspring of alcoholic than of nonalcoholic parents, and the finding of inherited differences in alcoholism rates disappears from this seminal study. One last noteworthy result of the Goodwin team's research: in a separate study using the same methodology as the male offspring study, the investigators did not find that daughters of alcoholic parents more often became alcoholic themselves (in fact, there were more alcoholic women in the group without alcoholic parents).18

Other studies also discourage global conclusions about inheritance of alcoholism. One is by a highly respected research group in Britain under Robin Murray, dean of the Institute of Psychiatry at Maudsley Hospital. Murray and his colleagues compared the correlation between alcoholism in identical twins with that between fraternal twins. Since the identical pair are more similar genetically, they should more often be alcoholic or nonalcoholic together than twins whose relationships are genetically equivalent to ordinary siblings. No such difference appeared. Murray and his colleagues and others have surveyed the research on inheritance of alcoholism.19 According to a longtime biological researcher in alcoholism, David Lester, these reviews "suggest that genetic involvement in the etiology of alcoholism. . . is weak at best." His own review of the literature, Lester wrote, "extends and. . . strengthens these previous judgments." Why, then, are genetic viewpoints so popular? For Lester, the credibility given genetic views is "disproportionate with their theoretical and empirical warrant," and the "attraction and persistence of such views lies in their conformity with ideological norms."

Several studies of male children of alcoholics (including two ongoing Danish investigations) have not found that these children drink differently as young adults or adolescents from their cohorts without alcoholic relatives.20 These children of alcoholics are not generally separated from their parents, and we know that for whatever reason, male children brought up by their alcoholic parents more often will be alcoholic themselves. What this tells us is that these children aren't born as alcoholics but develop their alcoholism over the years. In the words of George Vaillant, who followed the drinking careers of a large group of men over forty years:

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   The present prospective study offers no credence to the common belief that some individuals become alcoholics after the first drink. The progression from alcohol use to abuse takes years.21

What, then, do people inherit that keeps them drinking until they become alcoholics? Milam asserts in Under the Influence that the source of alcoholism is acetaldehyde, a chemical produced when the body breaks down alcohol. Some research has found higher levels of this chemical in children of alcoholics when they drink22; other research (like the two Danish prospective studies) has not. Such discrepancies in research results also hold for abnormalities in brain waves that various teams of researchers have identified in children of alcoholics — some find one EEG pattern, while other researchers discover a distinct but different pattern.23 Psychiatrist Mare Schuckit, of the University of California at San Diego Medical School, found no such differences between young men from alcoholic families and a matched comparison group, leading him to "call into question. . . the replicability and generalizability" of cognitive impairments and neuropsychologic deficits "as part of a predisposition toward alcoholism."24

Washington University psychiatrist Robert Cloninger (along with several other researchers) claims that an inherited antisocial or crime-prone personality often leads to both criminality and alcoholism in men.25 On the other hand, antisocial acting out when drinking, as well as criminality, are endemic to certain social and racial groups — particularly young working-class and ghetto males.26 The Cloninger view gets into the slippery realm of explaining that the underprivileged and ghettoized are born the way they are. In addition, Schuckit has failed to find any differences in antisocial temperament or impulsiveness to differentiate those who come from alcoholic families and those without alcoholic siblings or parents.27 Instead, Schuckit believes, one — perhaps the — major mechanism that characterizes children of alcoholics is that these children are born with a diminished sensitivity to the effects of alcohol28 (although — once again — other researchers do not find this to be the case29).

In Schuckit's view, children of alcoholics have a built-in tolerance for alcohol — they experience less intoxication than other people when drinking the same amounts. (Note that this is the opposite of the original AA view that alcoholics inherit an allergy to alcohol.) In the Schuckit model, alcoholics might unwittingly drink more over long periods and thus build up a dependence on alcohol. But as a theory of alcoholism, where does this leave us? Why do these young men continue drinking for the years and decades Vaillant tells us it takes them to become alcoholics? And even if they can drink more without experiencing physical effects, why do they tolerate the various drinking problems, health difficulties, family complaints, and so on that occur on the road to alcoholism? Why don't they simply recognize the negative impact alcohol is having on their lives and resolve to drink less? Certainly, some people do exactly this, saying things like "I limit myself to one or two drinks because I don't like the way I act after I drink more."

One insight into how those with similar physiological responses to alcohol may have wholly different predispositions to alcoholism is provided by those who manifest "Oriental flush" — a heightened response to alcohol marked by a visible reddening after drinking that frequently characterizes Asians and Native Americans. Oriental flush has a biochemical basis in that Asian groups display higher acetaldehyde levels when they drink: here, many believe, is a key to alcoholism. But individuals from Asian backgrounds who flush do not necessarily drink more than — or differ in their susceptibility to drinking problems from — those who don't flush.30 Moreover, groups that show flushing have both the highest alcoholism rates (Native Americans and Eskimos) and the lowest rates (Chinese and Japanese) among ethnic groups in the United States. What distinguishes between how people in these two groups react to the same biological phenomenon? It would certainly seem that Eskimos' and Indians' abnegated state in America and their isolation from the American economic and achievement-oriented system inflate their alcoholism rates, while the low alcoholism rates of the Chinese and Japanese must be related to their achievement orientation and economic success in our society.

Not even genetically oriented researchers (as opposed to popularizers) deny that cultural and social factors are crucial in the development of alcoholism and that, in this sense, alcoholism is driven by values and life choices. Consider three quotes from prominent medical researchers. Mare Schuckit: "It is unlikely that there is a single cause for alcoholism. . . . At best, biologic factors explain only a part of " the alcoholism problem31; George Vaillant: "I think it [finding a biological marker for alcoholism] would be as unlikely as finding one for basketball playing. . . . The high number of children of alcoholics who become addicted, Vaillant believes, is due less to biological factors than to poor role models"32; Robert Cloninger: "The demonstration of the critical importance of sociocultural influences in most alcoholics suggests that major changes in social attitudes about drinking styles can change dramatically the prevalence of alcohol abuse regardless of genetic predisposition."33 In short, the idea that alcoholism is an inherited biological disease has been badly overstated, and according to some well-informed observers, is completely unfounded.

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Open Free for All / Re: Ginger,Ursus, Matt,Felice,Anne......AA
« on: March 11, 2010, 12:01:20 AM »
Quote from: "DannyB II"
:shamrock:
(1.) AA denies god gave man free will, OK. (2.) AA religious roots came from Oxford, OK. (3.) AA calls addiction a disease, OK. Freewill plagiarizes everything he posts because he is why to young to have any experience what so ever.

I haven't plagiarized a damn thing (and those three statements are true, btw.).  If you equate knowledge with ignorance you're even more far gone than I originally thought.

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The three statements show your tremendous amount of ignorance and since you only intellectualize what you read,copy and paste it is hard to have a conversation with you. You have no sense of heart in what your talking about, your just regurgitating what you read.
Danny

The "heart" is nothing but blind animal impulses without the head.  Both must be in balance.  Perhaps you're finding me so difficult to understand because it's you that is out of balance.  Perhaps its' you who have forgotten how to think for yourself and decide rationally and yes, intellectually, whether something makes sense or not.  You can't "feel" the truth.  Emotions can guide you, but they can also fool you and take you down the wrong path.  Without the head, you're half-blind.  Worse yet, you're intentionally blinding yourself out of fear.  There is no such thing as "stinking thinking".

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Open Free for All / Re: SEKTO, PSY and INCULCATE
« on: March 10, 2010, 11:53:04 PM »
Quote from: "RTP2003"
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you folks think because you read something and it makes sense to you and then you incorporate in your collective value system that makes it Ok to then start acting like it is one of your convictions. I don't see the jump that's all. These views sound phony. You base them on no real study, no real life study. I have real life study so I talk. I have real life study of treatment centers so I talk.

I have been to AA, NA, and detox.  More than three times for each.   I have plenty "real life study" of recovering from an addiction.  I found Stepcraft to not only be ineffective, but also to be detrimental.  Believing one is powerless over an addiction makes it so, for one thing.  Blaming my foolish choices and voluntary decisions on a fictitious disease did nothing but reinforce the notion that I was doomed to lifelong addiction.  Trust me on this one, Danny---I was about as strung out as a person can get without being dead, and was consciously trying to exit the building permanently. I have since broken an addiction that lasted well over a decade, and I was able to do it only after I rejected the cornerstone concepts on which the Stepcult is based, and began accepting my responsibility for, and my control over, my addiction.  



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Many of you sound like the staff I listened to and rejected because I knew they were full of shit because they had no idea of what they are talking about.

Danny, I could easily say the exact same thing about your comments.  With your dogma and rhetoric spewing, and your rejection of facts about and critical study of AA/NA/--A, you have been acting much like the staff of one of the places by which many here were victimized.  You have rejected facts in favor of slogans, reason in favor of superstition, and, perhaps most sadly of all, rejected your power of choice in favor of learned helplessness.
:notworthy:

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Quote from: "DannyB II"
It is always funny until it is family and your loved one is sitting in front of you and your saying it is a bad habit, you don't need a higher power pull your boots straps up and stop it.

While that can work with some people, nobody is suggesting that.  The alternatives I would suggest revolve around getting people to realize why they drink, and treating that problem.  People drink to cope with problems in their lives.  It's a symptom, not a disease in itself.  In addition to that, certain drugs can help with withdraws and cravings to start off with (if you watched the AA episode of Penn & Teller you would know that).  Convincing a person that they are weak and powerless without a group is nothing more than a manipulation.  People can be taught skills to deal with these bad habits.  All AA does is say "let go and let god".  Blame the disease for bad and credit the higher power for good.  It's completely irrational.

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Your running around trying to find help. I know many of you haven't been their with a loved one yet.

Actually. I have, and I've seen people get sober without the help of AA, and I have had people close to me who coped using alcohol.  You have no knowledge of my personal life and it's irrelevant to my arguments.

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Well thank god, I really don't wish this calamity on you. Like I said there will be folks that show up here and I want them to have the other experience of AA to read.

And I must say you make an excellent spokesperson.

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Open Free for All / Re: SEKTO, PSY and INCULCATE
« on: March 10, 2010, 08:26:32 PM »
Danny.  AA is like a snake being forcefed rats.  You never hear the snakes complain.  It might not be AA's choice to accept court ordered offenders, but AA certainly doesn't mind it.  After all, most AA members (~60%) are a product of either court ordered attendance, or indoctrination within a court ordered treatment center.

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So I just happen to be one person that is willing to talk positive and try to correct misinformation not minds

I'm not so sure I believe that.  In order for you to correct misinformation you have to actually be willing to read both sides.  You haven't, refusing to even acknowledge the existence of AA's surveys until they were shown on a website you saw as "safe" (aa.org), among other things.

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Open Free for All / Re: Ginger,Ursus, Matt,Felice,Anne......AA
« on: March 10, 2010, 07:59:07 PM »
Quote from: "Eliscu2"
This is not the first time you have promised to move on..........
He can't help it.  He's powerless.

Niel Peart of Rush wrote "if you choose not to choose, you still have made a choice", in the song "Freewill".  I think there's an exception.  If a person believes they cannot choose, they cannot make a choice.  Perhaps that's not quite right.  They still make choices, they just don't' believe they are the ones making the choices, conveniently absolving themselves of the consequences and guilt that goes with it.  A person who believes himself to be powerless will give into whatever he believes he is destined to do, or whatever he believes his higher power wills to happen.  Have another drink.  Snort another line.  Post again on the forum.  Weakness is attributed to a lack of faith or the higher power's decision not to intervene, Strength is attributed to the higher power.  Nothing is attributed to the self, and the self as a result is not held responsible.  Living such a life is living as a slave to an imaginary tyrant, deprived of free will.

Personally I'd rather die than accept that as a belief system.  Thankfully one doesn't have to.  There are many recovery programs out there that don't teach a doctrine of powerlessness.  Don't get me wrong or take this to mean I'm attacking religion.  I'm not.  Almost all religions teach that god gave man free will.  Only AA denies this.  There is no desire so strong that it can overpower the will to resist, and if you give in, it's still your choice.  Christianity calls this temptation and sin (both choices, given to us by free will).  AA calls it a disease and relapse (determinism) over which one is powerless.  Only the former treats a person like a human being.  I'm no fan of Christianity, but at least it doesn't convince people that they are slaves to their desires.

One Christian doctor's view of AA:

http://jbmyers.net/?page_id=11
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As mentioned previously, the Twelve Steps theory of loss of control, powerlessness, and the required action of a Higher Power is a religious-based treatment approach that has its religious roots in the ecumenical Oxford Group and the theological determinism of John Calvin.  These deterministic features are present in the treatment methods of AA, Twelve Steps, and the disease model. In fairness, the disease model does not have its roots in religion but in the biological nature of disease, which is also deterministic in that we cannot choose to get sick.
Right, but a "sick" person cannot choose to get well either.  Addicts can, and thus it's not really "getting well", rather "making healthier choices".  Addiction is not a disease.  It's a behavioral habit that can be broken.
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Because these two views of behavior share a common philosophy, they join together in their approach to addiction treatment. The misapplication of determinism to addiction behavior runs counter to the more practical and successful cognitive techniques described in Beck (1993), Schaler (2000), Peele (2004), and others. This determinism encourages people to define themselves in negative and self-defeating ways, such as “I am an alcoholic” or “I am an addict,” as if this is a part of one’s personhood. Note how this kind of confessional dominates in current AA and disease model approaches to addiction. It is not a mistake, or counter to Scripture, to suggest that individuals have choice, willpower, and control over their lives, even when it comes to addiction.

interestingly enough, browsing further on this guys' webpage -- it appears like many on Fornits he opposes both forced treatment and incarceration for drug use. He's rather eloquent in his arguments as well.

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Let It Bleed / Re: The Lyrics thread
« on: March 08, 2010, 03:58:58 AM »
Quote from: "Rush - Freewill"
There are those who think that life has nothing left to chance,
A host of holy horrors to direct our aimless dance.

A planet of playthings,
We dance on the strings
Of powers we cannot perceive
"The stars aren't aligned,
Or the gods are malign..."
Blame is better to give than receive.

Chorus
You can choose a ready guide in some celestial voice.
If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.
You can choose from phantom fears and kindness that can kill;
I will choose a path that's clear
I will choose freewill.

There are those who think that they were dealt a losing hand,
The cards were stacked against them; they weren't born in Lotusland.

All preordained
A prisoner in chains
A victim of venomous fate.
Kicked in the face,
You can't pray for a place
In heaven's unearthly estate.

Chorus

Each of us
A cell of awareness
Imperfect and incomplete.
Genetic blends
With uncertain ends
On a fortune hunt that's far too fleet.

Chorus

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Quote from: "Joel"
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Free come on you know darn well they have never funded, endorsed or participated in a survey.

http://www.aa.org/en_pdfs/f-13_winter08.pdf
Nice find Joel.  He didn't believe the black and white on Penn & Teller's Bullshit episode.  Maybe he'll believe it when he sees it on AA's own website.

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Quote from: "Danny Bennison"
Quote from: "Free Will"
It may be difficult to find places where AA has stated a success rate (it has had the surveys, however), but it does flatly state that AA is the only way to sobriety.  AA does this by redefining sobriety to mean a person who has adopted the spiritual principles of AA (of course a person only finds out about this redefinition after joining AA).  A person that quits drinking is merely "dry" (as i elaborated on in the other thread).
:shamrock:  :shamrock:
Free come on you know darn well they have never funded, endorsed or participated in a survey. It would go against everything they stand for. We as members are not their pawns and WE ARE ANONYMOUS...ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS= AA, they can't we are anonymous. Get it!!!!!!
Read the materials no where are you going to find that statement, "AA is the only way to sobriety".

AA states that people who quit without AA are not really "sober".  They are merely "dry".  This means AA teaches that AA is the only way to Sobriety.

Furthermore.  AA literature itself teaches:

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The A.A. literature says:

    * ... you may be suffering from an illness which only a spiritual experience will conquer.
      ...
      At first some of us tried to avoid the issue, hoping against hope we were not true alcoholics. But after a while we had to face the fact that we must find a spiritual basis of life — or else.
      The Big Book, 3rd Edition, page 44.
    * ...he was insisting that he had found the only cure.
      The Big Book, 3rd Edition, page 257.
    * ...they had found the only remedy...
      The Big Book, 3rd Edition, page 259.
    * Any willing newcomer feels sure A.A. is the only safe harbor for the foundering vessel he has become.
      Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, William Wilson, page 35.
    * Unless each A.A. member follows to the best of his ability our suggested Twelve Steps to recovery, he almost certainly signs his own death warrant. His drunkenness and dissolution are not penalties inflicted by people in authority; they result from his personal disobedience to spiritual principles.
      Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, William Wilson, page 174.

There is a lot of doublespeak on this (last house on the block, etc) and logical contradictions, but the truth of the matter is that AA teaches that while you are free to *try* other options, you are guaranteed to fail, or fall victim to the unhappy sickness of the "dry drunk".  There are hundreds of AA slogans on the topic, such as "it's our way or the die way", which I'm sure you've heard.  

There's lots more, but I can't be bothered to go on here.  I've made my point on this particular issue.  If you still don't get it, hundreds more examples can be found here:
http://orange-papers.org/orange-cult_a1 ... a_only_way

Note that I don't agree with everything the guy says, but he has a lot of good insight into and research about AA.

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It may be difficult to find places where AA has stated a success rate (it has had the surveys, however), but it does flatly state that AA is the only way to sobriety.  AA does this by redefining sobriety to mean a person who has adopted the spiritual principles of AA (of course a person only finds out about this redefinition after joining AA).  A person that quits drinking is merely "dry" (as i elaborated on in the other thread).

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Open Free for All / Re: SEKTO, PSY and INCULCATE
« on: March 08, 2010, 01:33:43 AM »
Quote from: "Danny Bennison"
"Dry Drunk" simple is someone who does not go to meeting and suffers because of this. HALT RETURNS....Hungry, Angry , Lonely and Tired. He doesn't drink.

Aha.  So let me get this right.  I defined "Dry Drunk" correctly in the other thread.  A "dry drunk" is somebody who got sober without AA and is therefore considered to be miserable, despite the absence of alcohol.  In other words, AA is about more than just quitting drinking.  It's a "spiritual program".  You learn what is essentially a religion, not a recovery program.  If the goal was simply recovery, simply not drinking would be enough.

In AA terms, a "dry drunk" (apostate) can never be happy, just as Christians believe those without Jesus can never be happy, despite how happy their lives actually are.  They see what they want to see, just as you see what you want to see, because you're terrified of the possibility there is another way and you've been duped.  Those I know who quit drinking on their own you would look down with pity and disdain.  Indeed "dry drunk" is perhaps the worst thing you can call a person in AA terms.  Indeed it is insulting.  It's a slap in the face to anybody who has quit drinking without AA.  No recovery is valid in your eyes except for those through AA -- and you just won't realize how blind you are.

What you don't realize is that you fell for a bait and switch. You joined the group to quit drinking and ended up getting sucked into what is essentially a religion.  A Calvinist religion whose philosophy ultimately denies the existence of free will.  And because you believe it does not exist, because you believe you are in an impenetrable cage of powerlessness, you never bother to try the door to see if it's really locked.  You know what I think?  I think you're afraid to try.  I think you're comfortable where you are.  I believe you've found happiness in slavery.

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I personally don't give a shit about this stupid crap, here is another one 13 stepping, Someone with years picking up folks who just came in AA.
Me I first came to AA because I was in a 30 day treatment center after detox and they had meeting up in front of the building. This dude walked up to me one nite and said hey you want to get out of here for a hour. I said sure so off we went trotting off to my first AA meeting, man I hit that meeting and 4 of the sweetes honeys were sitting in the first row and I was hooked. AA was for me.

You went to AA to find pussy?  How noble.

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Quote from: "Whooter"
Thanks for the references, freewill, I am neutral on this so I dont have a personal opinion at this point......I looked thru the effectiveness section but there isnt any reference to a study which supports the numbers that this guy bases his statements on.  The Youtube videos never pointed the reader to a study either.

His Orange papers stated:
Even the most ardent true believers who will be honest about it recognize that A.A. and N.A. have at least 90% failure rates. And the real numbers are more like 95% or 98% or 100% failure rates. It depends on who is doing the counting, how they are counting, and what they are counting or measuring.

But he never referenced the study.  Does anyone have a link to this?  How many people were studied?  Who carried out the study?  What were the results?  
It appears he just pulled the numbers out of the air.



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Whooter.  He cites the Brandsma study, George Vaillant's data, and many others.  He's very clear at how he arrives at his conclusions so you can agree or disagree.  It's in black and white on his effectiveness page.  Don't pretend like they don't exist.  Where there aren't hyperlinks to sources there are quotations with captions, footnotes, endnotes, and so forth.  I already pointed you to a few studies, both of which he uses but are hardly his only sources.

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