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The Troubled Teen Industry / Re: My new avatar is a microcosm of my deeds.
« on: July 19, 2010, 12:48:51 AM »
This thread is pretty depressing and pathetic.
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At CEDU RMA we called it the "RED - Green" game in the summit workshop. It pretty much aggravated the hell out of everyone. I am reading my summit journal now and will write more later.
Which eventually lead to the following writing assignment:
2 pages of
"How the Red Green game is a perfect mirror of what I do every day and how you relate to others."
I could write my family and friends who were not doing drugs with me.
I was on phase 4 before I got unmonitered phone calls. I also got to email my parents.
The reality is the kids that go there are minors. thecnically, all their parents have to do is feed them, clothe them, and give them a sanitary home.
Even though they have the right to call people in jail, they cant call whenever they want. If you are in lockdown, you can call. You have to call when they tell you to. When my husband was in jail for this ridiculous drug charge, he wrote as the main communication, because you had to call collect and he could only call at certain times.
If you were on the college program, you went to community college and got to do alot of stuff outside CCM. Ask Perri, she was a college girl.
No one had a job I dont think. the college program was the only school outside of school at CCM. The school there worked great for me. I had dropped out before going, so I had to make up a semester and do 11th and 12th grade. I made all that up wiht As and Bs and graduated High School 3 days before graduating the program. I liked the self paced thing and people just kept to themselves in school. No one really talked and we just worked on our stuff, which was good for me.
I went to class wiht my group. As I said it wasnt bad. Did you guys go to public school while in the program? I think that is what you are saying. We went on the facility grounds so no one other than the kids in my group went to school wiht me. I didnt work or go to school outside the program while in the program so i cant really answer that last one.
I could write as many letters to the people I wanted to. That is, if Im correct, a form of communication.
And I did go into the "outside world" on more than several occasions. Actually the longer I was there the more I went into public. For instance, we went to a public gym to work out. I went and did community service at a convelecent home and at an elementary school close to the facility. I went to a dentist on the outside, I went gardening with a couple of girls up the street from my facility, I went to a ceramics class put on by a staff member in her studio once a week. I was not totally cut off.
I never divulged anything I wasnt comfortable sharing with my group.
In seminars I said some uncomfortable things to the group, but I was ok with that because we had all girl seminars and my facilitator was a woman, so not a big deal to me.
Because no one is going to do it until there is a bigger group of people who have come together to take a stand. Doing something like this alone would be self-sabotage. None of the other grads would forgive us. Not because there is something wrong with them but because they haven't come to terms with it yet. Give it a rest. That would be a positive outcome but it is going to take some time and energy.
A and I don't think that Horizon is exactly a "lock-down" facility (at least not in the same vein that a place like Tranquility Bay was)
They stopped sending kids to Jamaica and then anyone that pissed ron or craig off always went to distant drums. I'm guessing 40 in a year. You never heard of kids going anywhere else. Everytime ron come into group to threaten someone it was about rice, bean, cold weather. He would talk about how so and so is doing up there in wilderness. When they would come back he would parade them around to all the group therapies as some kind of walking deterrent. WIth all the programs out there, it seems that there must have been some deal or some connection between them.
The persons involved in Distant Drums seem to be the same who was involved in Skyline Journey where Ian August died.
We have also found ties to Eagle Quest and Reality Trek.
That does not make any of them a WWASP program. Cross Creek is a huge firm. They have sub-contractors for anything, maybe also for "students" they want to rest from.
In order to make it a wwasp program the same kind of program and seminars have to appear in the wilderness programs. We have not seen any evidence of that yet, but it might be a task for the Fornits posters to digg info up about these three active wilderness programs.