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This thread is pretty depressing and pathetic.

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Quote from: "Joel"
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"Red and Black," which required the group to divide into two teams and develop strategies, based upon a set of rules, for achieving the greatest number of points. Neither team was able to recognize that the main contingency for getting the maximum number of points was that both teams succeed.
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At CEDU RMA we called it the "RED - Green" game in the summit workshop.  It pretty much aggravated the hell out of everyone. I am reading my summit journal now and will write more later.

Which eventually lead to the following writing assignment:

2 pages of

"How the Red Green game is a perfect mirror of what I do every day and how you relate to others."

At Cross Creek, it was called the Red/Black game.  We also had a 2 page writing assignment to, but I believe it was in relation to how our interaction was with our parents.  Man, I hated those assignments.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Re: Parents, please consider this
« on: June 27, 2010, 02:41:29 PM »
Quote from: "Guest"
I could write my family and friends who were not doing drugs with me.

The rule at CCM was that you could only write to your home address and your parents could only write to you.  Communication with other people required your parents to send the letter to you and if you wanted to send a letter to someone, it had to be sent to your parents.

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I was on phase 4 before I got unmonitered phone calls. I also got to email my parents.

Those never happened as far as I'm aware.  No e-mail communication and no unmonitored phone calls at any point.  You could have visits with parents however at upper levels.

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The reality is the kids that go there are minors. thecnically, all their parents have to do is feed them, clothe them, and give them a sanitary home.

This may depend on the state, but there are more requirements.  Children are entitled to an education and an environment which is emotionally and socially appropriate.

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Even though they have the right to call people in jail, they cant call whenever they want. If you are in lockdown, you can call. You have to call when they tell you to. When my husband was in jail for this ridiculous drug charge, he wrote as the main communication, because you had to call collect and he could only call at certain times.

but you could STILL CALL.

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If you were on the college program, you went to community college and got to do alot of stuff outside CCM. Ask Perri, she was a college girl.

I was told by staff and the rulebook that conversing with others outside of necessity in the college program was not permitted.  In addition, I believe you were supervised by staff.

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No one had a job I dont think. the college program was the only school outside of school at CCM. The school there worked great for me. I had dropped out before going, so I had to make up a semester and do 11th and 12th grade. I made all that up wiht As and Bs and graduated High School 3 days before graduating the program. I liked the self paced thing and people just kept to themselves in school. No one really talked and we just worked on our stuff, which was good for me.

You could not get any score less than a B on a test; I consider the school system there pathetic.  It was impossible to perform poorly thus the grades there indicate nothing.  Self-paced just means reading a textbook and completing tests.

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I went to class wiht my group. As I said it wasnt bad. Did you guys go to public school while in the program? I think that is what you are saying. We went on the facility grounds so no one other than the kids in my group went to school wiht me. I didnt work or go to school outside the program while in the program so i cant really answer that last one.

For school, we did not go anywhere.  The teachers simply used the rooms of the facility that were otherwise used for activities or groups.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Re: Parents, please consider this
« on: June 27, 2010, 02:29:42 PM »
Quote from: "Guest"
I could write as many letters to the people I wanted to. That is, if Im correct, a form of communication.

However, the letters would be delivered via a family rep; you could not directly put them in a mailbox.  The correspondence could also be hindered as I know my therapist had a copy of one of my letters while my parents claim they never sent anything of the sort to him.

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And I did go into the "outside world" on more than several occasions. Actually the longer I was there the more I went into public. For instance, we went to a public gym to work out. I went and did community service at a convelecent home and at an elementary school close to the facility. I went to a dentist on the outside, I went gardening with a couple of girls up the street from my facility, I went to a ceramics class put on by a staff member in her studio once a week. I was not totally cut off.

Don't know how it was then, but the CCM I was at only allowed outside time to upper levels.  Otherwise, we were punished severely for even looking at the outside world.

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I never divulged anything I wasnt comfortable sharing with my group.

In which case progress was halted and punishments could be dealt (i.e. cat 4 refusal).

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In seminars I said some uncomfortable things to the group, but I was ok with that because we had all girl seminars and my facilitator was a woman, so not a big deal to me.

Not anymore.  Seminars are now basically the only time boys and girls are put in the same room at CCM, in the meantime they can not converse in anyway "off-task".  In addition, "some uncomfortable things" is an understatement; there was a huge amount of pressure to cry and reveal deep dark shameful secrets else you will be kicked out of the seminar and held back for two months.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Re: Parents, please consider this
« on: June 27, 2010, 02:22:50 PM »
The CCM that the girls describe earlier in this thread are completely different from the CCM that I recall.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Re: Now antiwwasp is gone too
« on: April 10, 2010, 10:36:53 PM »
I recall Kev saying that the webpage was abandoned and it made it exclusively a forum.  SOmething tells me at this point he couldn't care less about programs.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Re: What about
« on: November 29, 2009, 11:09:30 PM »
I find it absurd that anyone would think that being in complete silence forbidden to socialise or engage in any sort of stimulating activity for weeks on end is not abuse.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Re: What about
« on: November 11, 2009, 11:58:22 PM »
Quote from: "cooltherapy"
Because no one is going to do it until there is a bigger group of people who have come together to take a stand. Doing something like this alone would be self-sabotage. None of the other grads would forgive us. Not because there is something wrong with them but because they haven't come to terms with it yet. Give it a rest. That would be a positive outcome but it is going to take some time and energy.

Lol, do you guys actually hear yourselves?  I mean, my understand is that your saying Carlbrook is controlling and abusive and uses mind-fuckery.  Do you not realise the unwillingness to speak up and take legal action is what Carlbrook wants, and why they encourage the grads to be so high horse and judgemental, creating a kind of exclusive tight-knit cult of Carlbrook graduates where everyone's afraid to saw an opinion that's too incendiary, enforcing and fueling the cult mentality of falling into other people's acceptance in exchange for your self-respect and justice?

Now, I certainly concur with the point that a court case may not go much of anywhere, but at the same, I'd really recommend you giuys really think about why the hell it's so damn important what some brainwashed folks who've fallen so deep that without question they would ostracise you for failing to fully comply and be brainwashed like them think of you.  I mean, really, let go?

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My understanding is that they come straight from Lifespring, an old cult of which David Gilcrease was a part of.  I recall something along the lines of Lifespring being inspired as a get-rich-quick scheme by someone with a lackluster education after failing with some lame scam, but don't quote me on that.

I assume they are based on POW camps and cults and their tactics, specifically most likely from descriptions, testimony of experience, and psychoanalysis books.

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The Troubled Teen Industry / Re: According to fornits members
« on: October 03, 2009, 10:30:05 PM »
Hey look, it's the August photo of Excellence family at TB.  Thanks for that!  Oh, the memories.

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Quote from: "Ursus"
A and I don't think that Horizon is exactly a "lock-down" facility (at least not in the same vein that a place like Tranquility Bay was)

What are you talking about?  Horizon is as much of a lock-up as TB or any other WWASP facility is/was.  It may not be as strict or physically abusive, but it's the same restrictions from the outside world and with a similar structure.

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Then later he gets of with paying a fine and becomes a dean of a nearby school.

Isn't life great?

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Quote from: "HMMMM"
They stopped sending kids to Jamaica and then anyone that pissed ron or craig off always went to distant drums.  I'm guessing 40 in a year.  You never heard of kids going anywhere else.  Everytime ron come into group to threaten someone it was about rice, bean, cold weather.  He would talk about how so and so is doing up there in wilderness.  When they would come back he would parade them around to all the group therapies as some kind of walking deterrent. WIth all the programs out there, it seems that there must have been some deal or some connection between them.

If you don't mind me asking, when were you at CCM, and were you on the boy's side or girl's?

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Quote from: "Oscar"
The persons involved in Distant Drums seem to be the same who was involved in Skyline Journey where Ian August died.

We have also found ties to Eagle Quest and Reality Trek.

That does not make any of them a WWASP program. Cross Creek is a huge firm. They have sub-contractors for anything, maybe also for "students" they want to rest from.

In order to make it a wwasp program the same kind of program and seminars have to appear in the wilderness programs. We have not seen any evidence of that yet, but it might be a task for the Fornits posters to digg info up about these three active wilderness programs.

High Impact was pure WWASP, and it did not have any seminars, nor did it have group or anything like that.

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