Fair in my experience is an illusion. right and wrong good or bad are up there with black and white. There is a lot of grey here. I beleive the only way to know what is right and what is wrong or what you want and what you don't want is in you, your heart, your gut, my heart, my gut.
I can't make anyone take perception of right and wrong. It should be classified with stealing, when someone sells thier fear because they are afriad, or told to act happy and smile, when they are hurting and in pain, or blame someone else for your life, or lie to themselves and others to please someone else.
I really know nothing, except what I feel. and I feel all of you in my heart and my head for the last couple of months in away I haven't for years. The truth is that I love every single one of you even if I wouldn't go fishing with you I still love you. The same was present for me when I was there.
I know it felt like no one cared when I got out like I had been giving up on agian, thrown away. These are thoughts and feelings that sometimes are my lead in this life. Focusing on the facts are very important. Searching for those facts is the most important thing I have been doing here. We all got out into the real world no where near another and used the telelphone, or saw eachother once in a while. In my experience this is life, the love is still there.