You wrote:
I am not blaming you I am just saying that you e-mailed me under false pretenses I am not blaming you or any victim.
--I thought you really were someone I knew, actually. Sorry if I confused you.
You wrote:
I am jut saying that I stopped being the victim and you know what I am not supervised that you re turning his around to me being harsh when I am just sharing my opinion just like you.
--That's good, I'm glad you stopped being a victim. I'm wondering, when you say this you mean you are no longer being victimized? I dont understand, how did I turn this on you, exactly, by saying you're harsh- that is, your opinion is harsh? I'm not saying you're not 'just sharing you're opinion', but you're opinion seems harsh and unempathetic- and that's my opinion.
You wrote:
I am free to do that it' why this is a forum. You don't have to agree with me like I don't have to agree with you.
--Yes, share you're opinion- I'm all for dialogue, but as you did you shared you're opinion about everyone elses experience and I think it worthy to comment on and challenge as you too challenge the validity of everyone's experience by saying, in effect, everyone the solution is- 'grow up, deal with it and move on, you need to change you're ways and it's you're fault you were abused to begin with'. Correct me if I'm wrong... IMHO, that is indicitave of someone who lack empathy.
You wrote:
About my negative feelings read my posts and then you will know where i am coming from.
--ok
You wrote:
I am not blaming anyone and that's the difference between me and you.
--Seems to me you're blaming the victim. I hold the staff accountable.
You wrote:
I know my responsibilities in my life and in my past
--Sounds like you and I have something in common.
You wrote:
I don't know you so I have no bone to pick with you
--Good, I'd hope not! Im really not one many people have a bone to pick with, just not my style. Too old.
You wrote:
but if you put up another post with a gun shooting some comment I will know that you want to just fight and be abusive and i will not respond to any more of your posts because guns and violence and intimidating conversation like that is dumb.
--Sorry, damn miscommunication!I put that there not to shoot at words but to work with the words-Emotocons used not to reflect what i feel, I'm very non-violent, but to show someone being harsh and attempting to annihalate other's- metaphorically, their validity.
:wave: [ This Message was edited by: katfish on 2005-05-01 18:52 ]