Cheryl helps convince young girls/students at Whitmore that it is OK to have crushes on her husband, to accept his advances, to think this is normal and acceptable, and even special; and that she approves of this behavior.In the world of child molestation, therapists call this the "grooming period." Is that clear now? Our daughter did not report any "peeping tom" episodes, like having Mark spy on the girls when taking showers or changing clothes etc. I'm not saying that any complaints about "peeping" are not valid--I just do not know about them. But if girls report that, then I have no reason not to believe them. I believe the molestation allegations firmly.