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God Bless Rick Strawn!
« on: March 14, 2005, 08:40:00 PM »
I just read about Rick Strawn online.I am so impressed about the human being that he is.He used to be a police officer. He now dedicates his life saving teens lives. He now owns his own Escort Service..Many police officers do their jobs and then go home and forget abot it.Rick Strawn never forgot about the kids and parents of the world who are so desperatly in need of help. He started his Escort Service to do his part in helping the kids and parents of the world. The world needs more people like Rick Strawn. God Bless Rick Strawn!

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God Bless Rick Strawn!
« Reply #1 on: March 14, 2005, 09:08:00 PM »
Or he may have realized that he could make a lot more money by escorting teens. Not to sound negative, but this is why this industry has flourished so much over the years. It has made many millionaires in its wake.
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God Bless Rick Strawn!
« Reply #2 on: March 14, 2005, 10:14:00 PM »
wow, never heard a good thing about that guy before, who the heck are you?

From Reason's Hit and Run (http://www.reason.com/hitandrun/)
You can comment here (http://www.reason.com/hitandrun/006223.shtml#comments) on this article.

Lifted from the blog, links reinserted:
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"Kidnappers, Inc.

Maybe you've heard of abuse factories like Tranquility Bay (http://observer.guardian.co.uk/magazine ... 72,00.html), where parents too lazy or irresponsible to do the hard work of parenting send their kids (often guilty of little more than talking back or being caught with a joint) to be "behavior modified." The new issue of Legal Affairs profiles (http://www.legalaffairs.org/issues/July ... aug04.html) one of the scumbags who makes his living getting them there."
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The article is very in depth and describes one of the kidnappers, Rick Strawn of Strawn Support Services, a former Atlanta police officer, and his shady past;being accused of molesting his 12-year old stepdaughter, alcoholism, DUI, firing a gun in the air, domestic violence charges, and fondling the breasts of his niece when she was 12 or 13:

'Four years earlier, Strawn had married Susan Kyzer, a single mother with a young daughter. Strawn didn't get along with the girl. She had attention-deficit disorder and the Ritalin she took wore off by the time she got home from school. "Her behavior was like a needle point with Rick," Susan said. "He was of the view that kids should be seen but not heard, and this kid was always heard."

In 1996, the stepdaughter told a counselor that Strawn had molested her two years earlier, when she was 12. She'd just gotten home from a school football game, and she was still wearing her green-and-white cheerleader's outfit. She fell asleep on the living-room floor while watching TV with her stepfather. She said that she woke to the feel of something hard against her vagina and ran out of the room. Strawn was arrested for molestation. During the police investigation, he claimed that he'd fallen asleep after drinking, and in his dreams had confused his stepdaughter with his wife. But Susan told the investigators that just after the incident, Strawn had told her that "'it was just a weak moment.' . . . He got turned on by her laying there with a short skirt on and all, and lay down beside her and unzipped his pants against her." Strawn grew depressed and began taking medication. He also admitted to detectives that a year earlier he had fondled the breasts of his niece on two separate occasions, when she was 12 or 13.

The Atlanta police department suspended him for several months. But Strawn's stepdaughter recanted her accusation, leaving prosecutors little choice but to drop the molestation charge. Strawn was taken out of the field, however, and assigned to do desk work. He was no longer the go-to officer. "I was being tolerated," he said. "And for someone with my personality, being tolerated is enough to make you want to get drunk."

One night in January 1997, Strawn went home drunk. After arguing with Susan, he said he was going to shoot himself and he got his .38 revolver out of the garage. "I've had all I can take," he told Susan, his stepdaughter, and the couple's 8-year-old son, Jared. But his threat was, to use his word, manipulation. He fired into the air and left. When he returned home later that evening, he passed out.

The next day, Susan confronted Strawn about his alcoholism, as she had many times in the past. His stepdaughter chimed in that she had snapped a picture of Strawn in his stupor the previous night so that he could see what he'd looked like drunk. Strawn wanted to destroy the roll of film but Susan and her daughter wouldn't let him, because it included a photo of the family cat, which had since died. A struggle ensued, and Strawn kicked the girl in the groin. He then grabbed his wife by the throat, choking her while his stepdaughter called 911.

Strawn left the house and drove to a nearby park, where he continued drinking. Susan and her daughter found him there. Susan tried to calm her husband down. Her daughter called the police. Strawn was arrested and charged with family violence, reckless conduct, and four counts of simple battery?misdemeanor charges that in Georgia together carry a maximum sentence of six years. Less than a month later, he was arrested again when he was found drunk and nearly passed out in his car. He avoided jail by pleading guilty to reckless conduct and a DUI charge.

The Atlanta police department was not as forgiving. In May 1998, it determined that Strawn had "brought discredit" on himself as a police officer, on 11 different counts. His superiors decided to fire him. Strawn opted to retire instead. He left the day before he was due to lose his job after 25 years on the force.'

I guess the worst part of his story ends here:
'As for his stepdaughter, when I asked Strawn about her accusation, he said that she'd made up the charge to get him help for his alcoholism. She is now 21 and, along with Strawn's niece, works as an escort for Strawn Support Services. But she will not team up with her stepfather.'

I've printed this article and the two Observer articles to PDF, should they disappear.

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God Bless Rick Strawn!
« Reply #3 on: March 14, 2005, 10:15:00 PM »
August 01, 2004
Want your kid to disappear? For $1,800, former Atlanta police officer Rick Strawn will make that problem child someone else's problem. He even makes house calls.

But if Strawn is decent and likable, he will also go to almost any length to get his charges to do what their parents want. He has chased kids down. He has dragged teens to the car in their underwear. He has used a choke hold, learned as a cop, to render a few others unconscious. He has taken suicidal kids from hospital treatment to reform school.


posted by dng at 11:10PM UTC [trackback] (16 comments total)

via the world of stuart forums

posted by dng at 11:33PM UTC on August 01, 2004

Stories like this make me sick to my stomach and they surface frequently enough that I have to wonder why the US has no legal protections for minors from kidnapping, transportation across international borders, imprisonment, and torture. Just because a kid's parent(s) condone this treatment should not make it legal.

posted by steveno at 11:45PM UTC on August 01, 2004

How is this legal? If a kid is so badly off that they actually need this, then chances are the "re-education" should A, be recommended and carried out by professionals, and B, involve the parents in a little re-education of thier own. These parents sound a little over-zealous. A 9PM curfew? Please, thats asking the kid to break it. I feel pity for everyone involved, but mostly for the kid.

posted by humandictionary at 12:08AM UTC on August 02, 2004

This truly sickens me. I understand the that parents believe they're trying to do good, but I think they should honestly be prosecuted. There need to be greater rights for minors.

posted by wo mu si at 01:45AM UTC on August 02, 2004

Therapy by abuse? Good lord.

posted by Nostrildamus at 01:47AM UTC on August 02, 2004


Strawn won't board a plane with a kid who puts up too much of a fight?that's why he ended up on that 26-hour drive. But when escorts do fly with protesting kids, airport officials rarely ask questions.


Wow. Where is Anne Jacobsen when we need her?

Unfortunatley, this isn't anything new. The "Tranquility Bay" that is referred to was the subject of a must-read article last year and more can be found by searching for Tranquility Bay Jamaica on Google.

posted by jccalhoun at 02:31AM UTC on August 02, 2004

Here. is a MeFi link from about a year ago regarding similar schools in Missippi, with an in-post link to Tranquility Bay.

Tough love is pretty scary, even though I think at least some of the parent were unable to find ways to deal with their children

posted by path at 02:33AM UTC on August 02, 2004

Question to international monkeys: is this sort of thing legal in other countries as well, or is the US alone in this alarming practice?

posted by humandictionary at 03:19AM UTC on August 02, 2004

The whole thing is frightening - but when you get to the part where the reporter discusses the escort's past - it's absolutely sickening.

Totally fucked up.

posted by Melinika at 04:12AM UTC on August 02, 2004

I'd be willing to bet that in any country where it's legal to send your kid to a foreign boarding school, it's legal to send them to Tranquility Bay, at least until specific steps or laws are put into place to stop the practice (which would probably be more difficult than it might seem).

The escort is a real piece of work. Chokeholds? If your parents put you in a chokehold, they go to jail. Should be the same for this creep.

posted by Xeny at 07:19AM UTC on August 02, 2004

The ethos of Tranquillity Bay, Casa, etc. reminds me of nothing so much as Scientology: we're saving you from yourself, and if you disagree, you're lying.

posted by ilyadeux at 09:36AM UTC on August 02, 2004

If a kid is so badly off that they actually need this...

No kid needs this. No kid deserves this. To me, this seems to be exactly what these kids don't need: further distance between them and their parents and a bunch of arbitrary, unnecessary rules backed by negative reinforcement. Mind you, I'm no psychologist, nor am I an alcoholic ex-police officer accused of molestation.

posted by Smo at 10:13AM UTC on August 02, 2004

this is what happens when parents start out by letting the tv do the babysitting, and end up blaming the teachers for our kids behavior problems at school. we end up deciding that our kids problems aren't anything we can solve ourselves - after all, we didn't raise them ourselves. the tv and the teachers did. how can we be expected to fix them ourselves?

granted, my dad pretty much went 50-50 on my siblings and i. the two older ones (my older brother and i) are married, both have college degrees (both of us have a BS in zoology), and have decent jobs (older brother = computers + army, me = grad school + teaching). my younger brother and sister? well, they didn't do so well. neither went to college, both work sort of shitty jobs (little brother bounces between factory jobs, little sister mostly waitresses or tends bar part-time). they both have money problems, but they also both have a fondness for certain varieties of Cannabis sativa. my brother has spent some time in jail here and there for unpaid tickets and getting caught with paraphenelia.

but did my dad decide to send both of them off to some internment boot camp for troubled youth? hell, no. he's not always proud of what they have done, but he is there to help them when they need it, and kick them in the butt when they need it. we all know they have some growing up to do, and we're all waiting for it to happen - but this is something they need to do on their own. you can't beat responsibility into anyone. having someone come into the house at night to abduct the kids is insane. i sure as hell wouldn't start suddenly loving and honoring my parents if they did this to me. more like lasting, lingering resentment and a good chance of adding to the paycheck of some future psychologist.

posted by caution live frogs at 02:27PM UTC on August 02, 2004

I think part of the problem is the pressure some of these parents place on their kids to not only succeed but be perfect and most importantly not to be a source of embarrassment or shame. Kids pick up these vibes and do one of two things: rebel or conform. Both courses of action have their consequences but the former, at least in the short term, offers a sense of freedom. This is something extremely controlling parents can not abide so they naturally gravitate towards 'services' like those mentioned in the article which offer to ultimately restore their absolute authority.

I think places like these are very harmful to kids and can be permanently damaging to family relationships. Family counseling might have worked for the Boussard family if they stuck it out but I have a feeling the parents probably didn't like the democratic approach to child rearing because they may have perceived it as a threat to their control. They would have to take into account Louis jr's point of view and they probably weren't interested.

posted by hikikomori at 03:49PM UTC on August 02, 2004

i sure as hell wouldn't start suddenly loving and honoring my parents if they did this to me.

I can't imagine that any of these kids develop any real love for their parents in these centers. They may acquiesce to every demand; they may even believe what they've been taught, but I doubt what they feel could be called love, except in the Huxlian sense.

posted by Smo at 04:30PM UTC on August 02, 2004

One of the most important points to consider as well is that the parents that send their kids off to places like this can AFFORD to. There are probably lots of kids whose parents aren't rich who are much worse than those described in these stories and whose parents can't afford to make them someone else's problem. In this way, it is yet another example of people seeking to use money as a way of fixing things. Funny how 99% of Americans (let alone 99.99999999% of the world) seem to get by without having to send their kids off to some pseudo-jail.

posted by jccalhoun at 06:43PM UTC on August 02, 2004

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