Fartoogone:
You are right, I have spent more than enough time on this. Anyhow to preserve people's reputations, no it was not brett or brian. Nor was it any behavior problem person.
We all went through too much BS to have to deal with this stupidity. By the way, the wife and kid are good, the career has exploded and life seems to get better everyday somehow. The more distance and time I put between myself and the program (8 steps, 4 signs & five criteria). I have kept the Serenity Prayer and I use the 12 - they seem to work better.
Best Regards. Thanks for the support!