First of all, if the kids at Whitmore wanted to talk to this girl after she left, the parents of those kids can approve communication. The girl is probably one of those negative people saying alot of bad things about Whitmore and that's probably why Cheryl cut it off. I don't blame her. They don't need alot of negative stuff coming from that girl. This website is hurting alot of people, and I don't mean just Whitmore. It's hurting the kids to see these things being said about Whitmore. Even the kids who have left and loved it are hurting as well. But, the parents can approve communication with anyone they want their child to talk to. All they have to do is tell Cheryl.
Also, the parents pay Whitmore to have control over their emails, letters, etc. Isn't that why the parents put their child there...to cut off communication with negative stuff? The parents need Cheryl to take control. Are you telling me that all the other programs allow the kids outside contact with all their friends and boyfriends, girlfriends, etc. No, they don't. See, Whitmore really is no different than other programs.
And, if your daughter is one of these kids putting bad things on the internet about Whitmore, maybe you need to take control of her and confront Whitmore yourself. I'm sorry your daughter was hurt. It seems to me these bad feelings need to be worked thru and I believe Whitmore gave her the tools to do that. Maybe she just needs a little boost from Mom.