Think for a moment. Rocky Mountain Academy really started going downhill when they railroaded Roy Phillips out. They didn't realize that he held the whole school together. And, he was the light in the darkness, giving meaning to the hearts of the therapists and the hearts of all of the kids being degraded and marginalized by the program and staff. As a psychologist, he explained to the kids how to survive the program by fooling moroni. The day after he left, he had a massive heart attack and almost died. He was my dearest friend, and what they did to him was horrific and I have not forgiven them. Maybe some day.
After working there for about 10 years, Roy was old and had plenty of money to retire. He kept doing work as a therapist there, because he really cared deeply for the kids - we would talk for hours about stratigies to save the kids sanity by telling them how to make their stay there bearable because we all knew the staff were idiots and easy to confuse.
I learned from him how to nurture the kids so they could fool staff idiots and mormons by standing tall, staying above water, and still getting what they wanted. He was their coach and mine too. He dressed as Santa on christmas and handed out candy. For every holiday he role played and laughed with the kids doing silly things to cheer them up - he was very successful and saved many from suicide and hospitalization imposed by that insidious program. A kinder soul I have never met.
What Happened to Roy:
He was called in and "asked" (ha) to run clinical services. Roy was not at a place in his life to handle the stress, being old and tired, and he told them that. They said Well, if you won't work in that capasity, then pack up your things. He did that day.
The stress of losing his beloved kids and experiencing the "dark side of the force" if you will, led to his a massive heart attack the next day. Thus, RMA was cursed. They threw an angel out of his job to die. Now RMA is going away. And so will all of the other schools unless they stop the false love and concern, stop their abuse of staff, therapists, and kids, and actually develop the kind of compassion love and high humanity exemplified by Roy Phillips. Tonight I am going to celibrate the closing of RMA with Roy's bold, kind, powerful heart in my thoughts and in my hands. I dedicated all of my posts to him - that his work will live on in me if he dies. He may already be dead. I have been unable to find him Here's' to the Honerable Roy Philips dead or alive - If dead or alive, he lives on in the masses of human beings he touched with his beautiful heart, mind, and soul. [ This Message was edited by: Roy on 2005-02-11 16:00 ]