I've been using WinMX for a while now and it's clean, like you said. Other good ones are Ares, Soulseek and Kazaa lite.
Thanks for the offer, if I get opportunity to DL that I may be in touch.
You might be able to burn that video to disc using a CD-RW (instead of a DVD burner) by using freeware that allows you to burn vid files using a CD-RW..