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Offline dbucfan

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« on: October 30, 2004, 02:20:00 PM »
Darren delgado here...im really not worried bout people knowing who i am in fact you all probably dont even remember me because i was one of the lifers that left for S.T.E.P. in tampa...anyway whether you know me or not i will be visiting often...great site! :wave:
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« Reply #1 on: October 30, 2004, 03:53:00 PM »
So Darren -

  Were you tortured and abused in STEP as well? Or LIFE?  Did the program mess up your life?
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« Reply #2 on: October 30, 2004, 04:16:00 PM »
tortured...no...uncomfortable, and for a while...VERy unhappy but i got used to it...adapted and 7th stepped...almost became a staffer at step but i fell in love with another staffer and decided i couldnt be a staffer with my feelings for chandra...anyway my life is great...three kids...great wife...nice house and a career. it makes for some interesting and funny stories to tell my wife and friends!
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« Reply #3 on: October 31, 2004, 11:10:00 AM »
I remember you Darren.  Tall, thin, dark hair.  And Chandra Beatty -- lol ... you didn't marry her?  Wonder how so many of you I knew there are doing now days?  Like Tara, Paxton, Fran, Kris, Grant, Matt...

 Remember Melinda Lopez?  What an AIRHEAD.
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« Reply #4 on: October 31, 2004, 02:16:00 PM »
i wonder too... yeah thats me...not so thin anymore...5'11 195 lol!
thats what fatherhood and married life will do to ya!wanna email me who you are?
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« Reply #5 on: November 01, 2004, 03:22:00 PM »
once again...thats obviously my response above...i keep forgetting to sign in!! :evil:
anyway...here is my email...for anyone who wants to divulge there anonymous identity.[ This Message was edited by: dbucfan on 2004-11-01 12:24 ][email protected][ This Message was edited by: dbucfan on 2004-11-01 12:24 ]
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« Reply #6 on: December 09, 2004, 10:15:00 PM »
bump...
anyone?
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« Reply #7 on: December 16, 2004, 10:06:00 PM »
Darren,

I'd like to hear all about STEP.  Were the first counselors all from SAFE.  Was George Ross or Helen Peterman or any others from LIFE involved besides Gordon Davis?  

Do you feel your experience was positive?  Did it help you?  Did you see any abuse in any program you were in?  Do you have any papers including newspaper clippings?  Do you know of anyone who is no longer living who went through any of these programs?  Do you have any pictures of the program or facility?

You can post here or email me if you like at
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Thank you,
Wes Fager
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« Reply #8 on: December 17, 2004, 08:53:00 AM »
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On 2004-12-16 19:06:00, wesfager wrote:

"Darren,



I'd like to hear all about STEP.  Were the first counselors all from SAFE.  Was George Ross or Helen Peterman or any others from LIFE involved besides Gordon Davis?  



Do you feel your experience was positive?  Did it help you?  Did you see any abuse in any program you were in?  Do you have any papers including newspaper clippings?  Do you know of anyone who is no longer living who went through any of these programs?  Do you have any pictures of the program or facility?



You can post here or email me if you like at

[email protected]



Thank you,

Wes Fager

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  Wow - you are just ITCHIN' to get some "dirt" on programs, or people, aren't ya?!?  How pathetic.
  Do you have a REAL job? If so, please devote your time to IT.

  When programs have been closed for OVER a decade, I believe you can, rest assured, find NO abuse there (even though there never was any at STEP - though I'm sure you want to believe there was...for your stories and web site).
  Do you work for the Inquirer?   :lol:
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« Reply #9 on: December 17, 2004, 11:20:00 AM »
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  Wow - you are just ITCHIN' to get some "dirt" on programs, or people, aren't ya?!?  How pathetic.

  Do you have a REAL job? If so, please devote your time to IT.




Maybe this is his job.  Jealous?

 :rofl:

Maybe you should take your story to the Weekly World News... put it right up there with the aliens and the other conspiracies.

 :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:
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« Reply #10 on: December 17, 2004, 12:39:00 PM »
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On 2004-12-17 05:53:00, Anonymous wrote:


  Wow - you are just ITCHIN' to get some "dirt" on programs, or people, aren't ya?!?  How pathetic.

  Do you have a REAL job? If so, please devote your time to IT.



  When programs have been closed for OVER a decade, I believe you can, rest assured, find NO abuse there (even though there never was any at STEP - though I'm sure you want to believe there was...for your stories and web site).

  Do you work for the Inquirer?   :lol: "


Do us all a favor and go play in traffic.  Straight begat LIFE which begat STEP....they all use the same cultish practices.  It all follows the direct line.  Abuse doesn't have to be physical to leave a lasting impression.  Most of the damage that was done to me was psychological stemming from the whole way it was set up.  Break them down then build them back up.  Talk about PATHETIC!!!!!!!
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« Reply #11 on: December 17, 2004, 11:11:00 PM »
Do us all a favor and go play in traffic.  Straight begat LIFE which begat STEP....they all use the same cultish practices.  It all follows the direct line.  Abuse doesn't have to be physical to leave a lasting impression.  Most of the damage that was done to me was psychological stemming from the whole way it was set up.  Break them down then build them back up.  Talk about PATHETIC!!!!!!!"
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  Ah, what a nice comment.  You people are SO classy.  I AM jealous!  Damn!
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« Reply #12 on: December 18, 2004, 03:03:00 AM »
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 Ah, what a nice comment.  You people are SO classy.  I AM jealous!  Damn!"


Your point is....   :question:  :???:
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« Reply #13 on: December 18, 2004, 10:43:00 AM »
Your point is....   :question:  :wave:
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« Reply #14 on: December 18, 2004, 10:59:00 AM »
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On 2004-12-17 05:53:00, Anonymous wrote:

  Wow - you are just ITCHIN' to get some "dirt" on programs, or people, aren't ya?!?  How pathetic.

  Do you have a REAL job? If so, please devote your time to IT.



  When programs have been closed for OVER a decade, I believe you can, rest assured, find NO abuse there (even though there never was any at STEP - though I'm sure you want to believe there was...for your stories and web site).

  Do you work for the Inquirer?   :roll:
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