I AM IN THE SAME SITUATION. AFTER STRAIGHT I REALLY NEVER TRUSTED MY MOTHER, AS A RESULT I SHUT HER OUT WHICH MADE HER SPY ON ME, YES SPY!!! SHE EVEN WENT AS FAR AS LISTENING IN ON ALL OF MY PHONE CALLS BY RECORDING THEM. SHE STILL SAYS" IF IT WEREN'T FOR STRAIGHT YOU'D BE DEAD" ACTUALLY I DONT SPEAK TO HER ANYMORE, BUT I KNOW SHE FEELS THAT WAY. SO TO MY POINT..... AFTER ALL OF THE BULLSHIT I (WE)HAVE BEEN THROUGH IN STRAIGHT AND AFTER. I STOPPED OVER HER HOUSE UNEXPECTEDLY TO FIND HER ALONG WITH MY YOUNGER BROTHERS GIRLFRIEND SMOKEN BUDS!!!!! SCREW HER!!!! I DONT WANT TO SAY ANYMORE. THANX FOR LETTING ME TALK