Horse shit. If his experience is going to be used to deny my rightful need to show that in my case the experience that caused his supposedly "positive" metamorphasis indeed halted my natural growth; and this ammunition will be used to deny the claims of many here that no matter what the ends DO NOT justify the means, then I do not agree not to pressure him. Silence = Death.
And as to any claim that because I post here that I feel insecure, that I FEEL incomplete or scared and furthermore- under the general conversation heading of being under the influence of things that were both negative to my future life and detramental to my adolesense, being against my will, that I somehow needed the "program" more- to be honest (and I wouldn't have it any other way since it's my "truth" word) I would rather resent that...
To be sure, let me clarify: Shanlea, I take it to mean that you posted that because I post here what kind of things I am NOW finally noticing in my life that I am lacking...that bit of confidence that truly allows me to be self reliant or any number of the things that 450 abusive raps slammed into my head (that's NOT including all the profeets, workshops, all day random raps, or knowledge workshop or counselor conferences that I took part in) that I somehow needed the program in a way that others did not. And I am not picking at you, but you sided with Ottowa (and I don't mean sided in a way to create division in ALL of our common ranks) on this point too. And I just want to draw attention to something that I think may have slipped your mind: You also did not go through what I went through. You did not complete the brainwashing workshops and do the amount of raps that I did so...Please know that I am revisiting something that I did not know was effecting me the way it was...It ALL came tumbling down. And yeah, I went to college, I've had a little money once, and I even thought the world wasn't such a shitty place (for an admittedly short amount of time) for a while. But now I know what is wrong with why I don't have a happy life YET. YET, Jah, I pray, and that reason is a lack of control over my past. CEDU. Nothing else except the issues that THAT therein contain. so...this is the first time I have ever addressed you, and I have no idea what or who you are (except I remember, a young mother (like Kahil talks of in the one on beauty) and someone interested in changing the system with regards to troubled youth) but I want you to know how very much I disagree with the contention that the program, as it was FOR ME, could be good for anyone.
Now I think I am turning into a ranting Psycho. Sorry. I had a great quote in my brain but...it's gone. ohhhh yeahhhh:
"The friend of my enemy is my enemy". Sun Tzu
Disclaimer: Shanlea is NOT my enemy.
as usual, I am
-blownaway