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Anonymous:
a million pieces, by someone you trust, when you are broke, depressed and caring for small children....

how did you pick yourself up?

Deborah:
Spend alot of time with people who love you. Find atleast one who has the attention to hear you vent (cry, grieve)... until you're vented out.
See good movies. Exercise hard.
Don't let it hold you down.

Anonymous:
The answer is easy, but in practice it is very hard.  Yes, I had my heart broken in a million pieces more than I care to admit.  I also had young children to tend to.  My answer is just that.  Tend to your children.  In tending them, you tend yourself.  The pain is real, and feeling it is ok.  But do not act on this pain in any destructive way for you or your children.  If you or your children are in danger you must take appropriate actions to protect yourself.

Feeling heart broken is normal in the course of one's life.  You will survive it as long as you act responsible.

Some depression is also normal from time to time as we course our way through life.  Only you can determine if your depression is temporary or not.  Again, if you are acting responsibe, then it probably is temporary.

I do hope you find the strength inside yourself to carry on in a responsible way.  For your sake, and for the sake of your children.

webcrawler:

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"a million pieces, by someone you trust, when you are broke, depressed and caring for small children....



how did you pick yourself up?"

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I work lots of hours, attend school, and volunteer. When I stay busy I don't have time to feel sad. Night time is the worst because there is no one around. I will do a lot of reading, cleaning, and taking long bubbles baths to help me feel better and relax. Also I don't talk to people about it if they are the type to just say negative things. Have you told the person how you feel? Any chance this could be a mis-understanding and things worked out?

groovy1634:
I don't know exactly what your situation is, but I'm sure we have all been there once or twice in our adult lives. I know it sounds cheesy, but I have found this really helps. Like other posts before this, finding someone who will listen to you whole-heartedly would be a good start. The sooner you express your feelings, the sooner you can put things into perspective in order to deal with them. It really sucks sometimes to break down, especially in front of others, but it will give you a chance to clear your head and your heart. Maybe then you will start to feel a little better. I am sorry you got your heart broken, and I hope you get to feeling better soon.

peace  
The great object is that every man be armed. Everyone who is able may have a gun.
-- Patrick Henry

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