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« Reply #15 on: August 15, 2004, 06:37:00 PM »
that was me, Elizabeth.  forgot to log in.
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« Reply #16 on: August 16, 2004, 11:29:00 AM »
Shane unc knows exactly when we went, for I don't
but do not worry.I harbor no ill's for anyone
save thorpe for marrying my ex after we broke up.(ha ha )could care less about that too hope there
doing as well as most people are.
Any ways I am Native Indian and was thrust in
to the str8niss when I was 15.Later to work
in the field as some one with actual schooling.
Brain washing had taken me down a road were I
enjoyed helping people and not in negitive way
as we were taught to.
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« Reply #17 on: August 16, 2004, 10:20:00 PM »
Hi Matt,

I think I remember you.  Is Shane unc an ex-staffer and native indian too?  We were very good friends and I would love to know how he is doing.

That's great you're helping people.   Congratulations.
I majored in Psychology in undergrad but was too scared my scarred history might affect how I related to people.  It's been better for me to make art.

Soon, I may start making art with homeless and abused children.  Hoping this will be therapeutic for them and me.

Elizabeth[ This Message was edited by: future.air on 2004-08-17 05:23 ]
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« Reply #18 on: August 18, 2004, 02:12:00 PM »
Hi Future,
I think the person you are thinking of is Shane Wel. and the last I heard he got married and lives in California. If I am wrong , I apologize in advance.
Scott
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« Reply #19 on: August 18, 2004, 11:46:00 PM »
That's exactly who I'm thinking about.  Do you know where in Cali?
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« Reply #20 on: August 18, 2004, 11:56:00 PM »
I wish I did know as I would like to know how he is and talk to him a bit. I hope he is well.
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« Reply #21 on: August 19, 2004, 12:06:00 AM »
I felt Shane really cared about people.  I would like to catch up with him.  He helped me alot after I got out.


Did you ever talk to Glenn or know more specifically what happened and why he did it?  You can email me if that's better.[ This Message was edited by: future.air on 2004-08-18 21:09 ]
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« Reply #22 on: August 19, 2004, 06:54:00 PM »
I felt the same way about Shane even when I was on my phases with him and when he was on staff. He was just different and it showed even back then.
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« Reply #23 on: August 19, 2004, 08:05:00 PM »
Check your private messages Future
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« Reply #24 on: August 19, 2004, 09:39:00 PM »
Shane is someone I have been searching for as well.  I have tried to search for him online to no avail...do you guys know if he is
..lch or ..lsh  ?

I was also looking for Jim W. who I think married Shelley S.  can't find them either.

The de-programming I spoke of earlier was a long process of therapy and going to meetings.  I finally made some close friends who listened to me talk on and on about my feelings and my "doubts".  As I mentioned earlier I married someone from straight and something comes up EVERYDAY... whether its telling the dogs to face forward or singing some stupid song like One tin soldier or making fun of ourselves and saying that we are "awfulizing".  Straight made an indellible mark on my psyche, my experience there altered the course of my life in many significant ways.  I am fortunate to not have had as terrifying and demoralizing an experience as those I read about on here. It took years for me to stabilize emotionally.

After I got stable I went back to school.  Now I am a social worker.  I am currently working as a substance abuse counselor for the department of juvenile justice in Florida.  My focus is not on diagnosing juveniles as addicts or pressuring them to pursue "recovery", these kids are referred to me and then I ask them if they want services.  They are free to decline.  When they do accept, my primary focus is ensuring that they have a positive "helping experience" so that when and if they need help in the future, they are more likely to seek it out.  Some kids are in real trouble with drugs and I share with them what I know about substance abuse and recovery. Some are just being kids and experimenting, however they are in real legal trouble and meeting with me gives them the chance to talk about the anxiety associated with being in "the system".  The way straight contributes to my work is by reminding me of how NOT to affect a childs life.  I intervene with compassion and open mindedness and not unilateral disrespect and persecution.  

E, I encourage you to do that work with kids, its a very real way to make a contribution to our society (and its fun too!)
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« Reply #25 on: August 22, 2004, 11:32:00 PM »
Elizabeth or anyone for that matter that knows how to get in touch with trevor please e mail me

steve knepper
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« Reply #26 on: August 23, 2004, 12:04:00 PM »
hey i'm not sure how to check private messages?



and I'm not sure how to get in touch with Trevor.  last name mullican (i think) and his family was in woodbridge.  maybe you could try calling them?

also craig stevens might know.  his family lived in reston, virginia.
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« Reply #27 on: August 23, 2004, 12:36:00 PM »
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« Reply #28 on: August 25, 2004, 07:02:00 PM »
You can check your private messages by going over to the left hand side of forum page and clicking on "private messages"
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« Reply #29 on: October 17, 2004, 02:59:00 AM »
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