A few years ago, someone on a parenting site read a post about some trouble I had with my extended family that largely stemmed from the really messed up roles set by the TTF's I was in as a teen. She passed me a note and told me about this site and a few other resources. It was exactly what I needed. I wanted yo thank her, but all I know is that she is a WWASP survivor and lives in CA. I'm going to the SIA convention in CA and would like to say thanks in person, of possible. Please, send me a message, if you think this is you or someone you know. Sorry, I forgot her name. I am terrible with names.