On 2004-02-09 07:17:00, Anonymous wrote:
"if your kid was being abused would you want to know? After all you've signed a contract authorizing many punishments at the discretion of the staff... and where can your child report abuse? If they write you about it - it's manipulation right?
Try living that for a few days- bet the kid is glad someone made the call. Bet you would be too if you were held against your will."
Yeah, as I said elsewhere, the problem with the programs is not that boarding schools with therapy for kids that want to be there (or want to be there more than they want to be kicked out of the house) are an inherently bad idea.
The problem with the programs is the poor quality of care---isolating the child from open "free speech" correspondence with the outside world, imposing abusive rules like not talking to other kids or looking out a window or slouching, insufficient access to licensed psychiatrists, confrontational rather than supportive therapy, and staff insufficiently trained in non-restraint de-escalation of conflicts with patients and safer application of restraints where de-escalation techniques fail.
If they were done *right* and minors who preferred emancipation to incarceration, or had an adult willing to take them in, were freely allowed to leave, therapeutic boarding schools would actually be a good idea.
Well, exception to above---in the case of a teen with a criminal misbehavior problem, it makes sense that the teen would have a choice, but the choice would be between the private TBS and juvenile hall. It's a nice check and balance that keeps the TBS's from being *worse* than juvie.
On "freely allowed to leave," I understand that good support of a troubled teen would try to protect the teen from making the decision to leave on impulse and almost immediately regretting it---I have no problem with the rule being that the teen can leave any time in the first month and, thereafter, on the first day of any month. It stops impulse walkouts while ensuring that teens who would be happier emancipated or with extended family members can leave.