Dude, do not try victim-blaming. That is a crock of shit and you too would hate the allegation if it was directed at you. This forum is not the best venue to determine the veracity of any claim or counter-claim, so let's not jump in to deliver our own abuses. Pray that we can keep it to forum-related activities.
We know that Wayne, Danny and other Élanoi are being ignorami on the board. Let's try not going down the deep rabbithole ourselves.
As for pansexuality, it is where one is attracted to all sexes and genders - male, female, and intersex. It's a term used in the GLBT community for ones who are not limited in the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual or Straight labels. You also have to remember that gay persons and the the gay community is among the targeted by the TTI.