It's a horrible situation. Has the Danish government gone mad with control fever?
I should add that it sounds very similar to abuses perpetrated by various governmental "child protection" organizations here in the States. Which is not to say that these organizations can not or do not ever undertake actions that are in the best interests of the child concerned. Or that every person working for such organizations is "evil."
It's just that the inordinate amount of power these people have, sans any effective checks and balances, coupled with local corruption and ignorance... all together make for a plum most ripe for the plucking, so to speak, for those so inherently inclined...