"It simply did not happen."
Well, its seems very probable that your statement is "simply" not true. Let me explain.
Lets go back, way back to the mother of SAFE. That being Straight, Inc.
Straight, Inc. has a proven history of abusive methods, their program was absolutely riddled with techniques that lead to mental and physical abuse. Keep up with me now....
One day, under pressure from legal issues, Straight, Inc. decides to up and re-invent istelf on paper, in the way of becoming SAFE. Not that this whole drama doesnt speak entirely for itself to begin with, but lets continue.(see
http://www.thestraights.com for the hard facts)
It would seem highly UNLIKELY that previous to your time at SAFE, that abuse, ridicule, depravation, and more or less downright torture took place on a regular basis, unchecked....and then magically faded away during your time there as a counselor....only to return with a vengence upon your departure. This is the only possibility in which your statement can be true. Unfortunately for you, this is more than just "your word against mine". The evidence is there. clear as day for all to see and understand.
Its like 500 people in a crowd seeing the color red, and one or two of them looking on in disbelief, saying.....buts its not red, its yellow. Now just because these people are either brainwashed or color-blind doesnt change the fact that the color that is manifesting in reality is indeed red. Thats the beauty of the Program, it made us all not only see, but truly believe on pain of death, that the color was yellow.