viewtopic.php?f=9&t=31647&start=150 Whooter wrote:
But that doesnt mean everyone is the same or all programs follow the same path. This is where everyone here gets stuck. Would it be accurate or fair to paint the Public school system as this?:
Whooter, where you get lost is you think posters came here to debate/argue, we did not. There is but one motivation,"to purge" and commiserate. We have no inclination to entertain any kind of "variance of opinion" with you. Actually no one I can see starts out even wanting to debate with you, really what is happening is the posters find themselves defending what they are exposing here. There personal story comes under attack and they retaliate. Just reading many of your posts here can feel like a "attack" against our vulnerable admissions.
We did not come here to listen to your views on programs that are successful, I am truly pleased there are programs that in your opinion help. I just believe as everyone else here that you picked possibly the wrong venue to rant about it. "We" do not want to hear about a successful program while were pouring our heart out about our abuse that we finally came in touch with, 30 years later for some, earlier for many. Do you really think anybody can handle your constant antagonism while there trying to deal with horrific memories with new friends here.
WTF, Whooter, are you this clueless. These sites are not for a jousters like you. People have already been damaged, how much more do you want to do. Don't turn away Whooter, you are hurting people here. That is a truth.
It is almost blasphemy to keep saying to Anne, Samara, Gonzo, Bruce and others that they are stuck, in denial, stubborn or whatever other characterizations you want to say because they want you to stop your immature posturing here.
Your subject of discussion has never been on the table, ever. We don't care, we do have a right to say this. We do have a right to purge without you intervening with your obnoxious remarks.
Whooter, I am not trying to be mean here, just trying to explain that your actions here have hurt people for the last 5 years and continue too.
As Gonzo, I have not been here long, so I haven't had much interaction with you. I don't have to, I don't want to. I have seen your kind, your here to disrupt whether it is professional or personal it doesn't matter. What matters is the consequences of your actions.
If you had any heart you would stop.
Listen....