I understand that you are giving consent.
Really? Cuz from the quote below, it doesn't appear that you do.
Now we are seeing it with survivors rapes being discussed without the consent of the person who was attacked.
That discussion was about me and my rape. Nobody else was referenced, so you can stop pretending that you care if I was hurt by it or not.
Did someone get the consent of the Reubens when they talked about their son/brothers suicide and then invited them to join the conversation here on fornits?
I haven't seen any 'invitation' extended to the Reubens. I could be wrong, but I haven't seen any personally. Even so, I think it's an appropriate discussion for the TTI because many of us who have been through programs (unlike yourself) understand how damaging they are and how that can effect someone's sense of self and could lead to or at least contribute to suicidal feelings. If John Reuben is going to put himself out there as a representative of the TTI by starting a "non-profit" to get more kids into programs.....then he's made himself somewhat of a public figure and it's absolutely appropriate to discuss the fact that sending his son to a program very well
could have contributed to how he was feeling when he took his life.
In general this isnt right, not everyone is you and other people may not want their rape being discussed when ever someone else feels like it.
But we're talking about MY situation. You feigned being upset that someone brought up MY rape, not anyone else. That's what we're talking about.
Talking about rape can stir up bad feelings in the person who was victimized, it may not with you, but it does in some victims.
Well, WY didn't bring up any other rape victims.
If there were another survivor on this board who was raped I dont think it would be appropriate for anyone to just start talking about it openly without that person giving the okay.
That didn't happen.
Quit playing the victim here. You voluntarily, regularly and knowingly come to a board populated mostly by survivors of these programs and routinely dismiss and minimize what we've been through. If the heat's too much for you, either put your big boy pants on or get the fuck out of the kitchen.