Whooter, you are posting everywhere but here. I’m wondering if it is because you are finding yourself in a bind interacting with me under my demand that you grow your self esteem?, Although this certainly is not a double bind, as it is in programs for troubled teens.
Well, whenever you’re ready to start feeling better about yourself come on back, or you can keep doing nothing. Your choice, but I wish you cared about yourself enough to put the tiniest amount of effort in.