I survived the program. 1989-1995.
I currently live in Utah with my wife. And if you knew me, you probably know who I am already. I honestly hardly ever think about that time in my life. I have a great relationship with my Mom. Things are on and off with my step dad. My brother is doing great. And, I'm happy.
I entered the program when I was 15 years old, and I was a pretty fucked up kid. In hindsight, I believe the majority of my problems were not drug related. I was a kid from a fucked up, alcaholic, physically, and mentally abusing family. In some ways, I think the program helped me. I wanted to stay and Dr. and Mrs. Newton and a group member turned clinical, told me I couldn't and basically I should go out and pick out a coffin. I was brainwashed, so I freaked for about a week, and have slowly gotten over it over the course of the last 7 years since I got out. I learned to live life to the best of my ability with the goal of being happy. It still trips me out when I think about stupid shit like some asshole newcomer owning up that he jerked off in the mayonnaise jar and made sandwiches for the girls side. How crazy is that? Or being crucified in the group room, literally held up in the air by about 10 different newcomers and staff members, and being screamed at in our faces. How fucking trippy is that? The one cool thing was the talent shows. And, as a fifth phaser and staff member I made one of the best friends that I've ever had in my life. Rock on Canada! Like others, that I have heard, I apologize for being mean (people have told me since leaving that they hated me because I was mean, but they always liked my Mom). I was just as brainwashed as you. I personally think that i'm pretty healthy mentally, considering. Dr. Newton will probably get whats coming to him, but to be honest with you, I couldnt give a flying fuck. I am still playing guitar and drums, I smoke pot, I drink occasionally, I'm NOT an alcoholic, I AM a pothead, and I have values. And, I'm not dead obviously. No offense to anyone, but, besides a few people who I still consider my best friends, I really dont care to remember anything else about KIDS of north jersey. My life goes on. I have a beautiful wife, I have a not perfect but wonderful life, and thats really all that matters, isnt it?
"I am straight here me roar in numbers too big to ignore"
"And I know too much to go back and pretend."
"I've heard it all before and I've been down there on the floor, no ones ever gonna keep me down again."
"Cause I am strong, I am invincable, I am STRAIGHT"
HAVE A NICE LIFE!
[ This Message was edited by: anonymousNJ on 2002-04-18 17:39 ]