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Pregnant in a program?
« on: January 14, 2010, 07:02:20 PM »
Did any of you ever know of a girl getting pregnant while in a program? If so, what happened to her?

Were some girls sent to programs because they were pregnant? What happened to them?

Were female students on birth control?

My apologies for the intrusiveness, but these are not idle questions. I'm asking for a reason.

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Re: Pregnant in a program?
« Reply #1 on: January 16, 2010, 06:46:33 AM »
The only case I'm familiar with of a girl getting pregnant in a program was the Monarch School affair:

http://www.westword.com/2008-11-13/news ... y-started/

And the only programs for pregnant teens that I know of were the WWASP facilities Linden House and Woodland Maternity Home. I'm fairly certain that Linden has shut down in the late 90's, but I don't know what happened w/ Woodland.
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Re: Pregnant in a program?
« Reply #2 on: January 16, 2010, 08:47:05 AM »
Thank you, YEK. I had never seen this story.

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« Reply #3 on: January 16, 2010, 10:29:51 AM »
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...And the only programs for pregnant teens that I know of were the WWASP facilities Linden House and Woodland Maternity Home. I'm fairly certain that Linden has shut down in the late 90's, but I don't know what happened w/ Woodland.
Roloff and his associates had a few, I believe, e.g., the Bethesda Home for pregnant teens... Also, Mercy Ministries (see ALSO).
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Re: Pregnant in a program?
« Reply #4 on: January 16, 2010, 01:55:21 PM »
Some of the Roloff homes were adoption centrals for supporters of the facilities. Mothers are still looking for their children today. There is a group which we have listed on most pages under suspicion for forcing teenagers into adoption. It is called Moms love is forever.

Some of the mothers did choose to fight for their children. Some might remember the 3 girls escaping from such a facility. One was never found.

Beside the Roloff a number of organization operate today so they can provide supporters of the school babies from the detained girls. HEAl-online went after While Shields run by the Salvation Army.

There are more. Search for "adoption" or "pregnant" on the wiki.
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« Reply #5 on: January 16, 2010, 11:48:23 PM »
FYI mercy ministries got front page news coverage over here when some girls accused it of being a cult. While technically not a program in that it only takes girls consensually, once they are in, it is hard to get out and they have been accused of using program style mind control techniques and cutting off contact with the outside world. Mercy is unfortunately operating in a number of countries outside of the US as well as within.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mercy_Ministries
See the section on the Australian Controveries and the links to the news articles in the sydney morning herald.

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Instead of the promised psychiatric treatment and support, they were placed in the care of Bible studies students, most of them under 30 and some with psychological problems of their own. Counselling consisted of prayer readings, treatment entailed exorcisms and speaking in tongues, and the house was locked down most of the time, isolating residents from the outside world and sealing them in a humidicrib of pentecostal religion.

At 21, Naomi Johnson was a young woman with a bright future, halfway through a psychology degree at Edith Cowan University, working part-time and living an independent, social life.

Yet she was plagued by anorexia.

With her family's modest means and her part-time job there was no way she could afford to admit herself into the one private clinic in Perth that specialised in adults with eating disorders.

They had no private health insurance, and there were no publicly funded services in the state. So after much research Johnson found a link to Mercy Ministries on the internet.

Months passed as she devoted herself to going through the application process, pinning all her hopes on what appeared to be a modern, welcoming facility, backed by medical, psychiatric and dietitian support.

She flew to Sydney, thousands of kilometres away from her family and friends, and entered the live-in program.

Nine months later she was expelled, a devastated, withdrawn child who could not leave her bedroom, let alone her house.

Nine months without medical treatment, nine months without any psychiatric care, nine months of being told she was not a good enough Christian to rid herself of the "demons" that were causing her anorexia and pushing her to self-harm. After being locked away from society for so long, Naomi started to believe them. "I just felt completely hopeless. I thought if Mercy did not want to help me where do I stand now?

"They say they take in the world's trash, so what happens when you are Mercy trash?"

Two months after she had been expelled from Mercy's Sydney house (her crime was to smoke a cigarette) Johnson ended up in Royal Perth Hospital's psychiatric unit. From there she started seeing a psychologist at an outpatient program two to three times a week.

"Even now, three years on, I don't socialise widely, I don't work full time, I don't study full time. Even now there is still a lot of remnants hanging around from my time at Mercy.

"The first psychologist I saw rang and spoke to Mercy. She wrote to them over a period of time, just trying to get answers. They were very evasive; they avoided her calls. Eventually she got some paperwork, some case notes, from them."

Mercy Ministries made the psychologist sign a waiver that she wouldn't take these notes to the media before they would release them. Johnson has signed no such waiver and, months ago, she posted her notes on the internet, almost as a warning to other young women considering a stint at Mercy Ministries.

Yet for so long she just wanted to go back to the Sydney house, because they had convinced her that Mercy was the only place that could help her.

"It is difficult to explain, in a logical sense. I know how very wrong the treatment, their program and their approach is, but the wounds are still quite deep, and even though I know that they were wrong, there is still a part of you that just even now wants to be accepted by Mercy."

In the northern suburbs of Perth, in a large, one-storey home bordered by a well-tended cottage garden, the Johnson family is attempting to pick up the pieces of a life almost cut short by Mercy.

With two fox terriers at her feet and doors and windows shut against the relentless Western Australian heat, Johnson - a small, delicate young woman with a razor sharp mind - unveils a sophisticated, nuanced interpretation of her time in the Sydney house.

Careful and articulate, her struggle with the horror of her descent into despair at the hands of Mercy is only evidenced by the occasional tremor in her hands and voice as she describes her experience. She was sharing the house with 15 other girls and young women, with problems ranging from teenage pregnancies, alcohol and drug abuse, self harm, depression, suicidal thoughts and eating disorders.

"There were girls who had got messed up in the adult sex industry - a real range of problems, some incorporating actual psychiatric illness, others just dealing with messy lives, and the approach to all those problems was the same format," Johnson says.

Counselling involved working through a white folder containing pre-scripted prayers.

"Most of the staff were current Bible studies or Bible college students, and that is it, if anything. You just cannot play around with mental illness when you do not know what you are doing. Even professionals will acknowledge that it is a huge responsibility working in that field, and that is people who have six years, eight years university study behind them."

And while there was nothing that was formally termed "exorcism" in the Sydney house, Naomi was forced to stand in front of two counsellors while they prayed and spoke in tongues around her. In her mind, it was an exorcism. "I felt really stupid just standing there - they weren't helping me with the things going on in my head. I would ask staff for tools on how to cope with the urges to self harm … and the response was: 'What scriptures are you standing on? Read your Bible."

Johnson had grown up in a Christian family; her belief in God was not the issue; anorexia and self harm were. "A major sticking point was when they told me I needed to receive the holy Spirit in me and speak in tongues, to raise my hands in worship songs and jump up and down on the spot in fast songs. I told them that I really didn't understand how jumping up and down to a fast song at church was going to fix the anorexia, and yet that was a big, big sticking point, because it showed I was being resistant, cynical and holding back."

Her mother, Julie Johnson, watches as she talks, anxious about the effect of her daughter's decision to tell her story, yet immensely proud of her courage.

"Naomi was very determined to find somewhere that could help her. We didn't have private health cover, so our resources were limited, so she searched the net and came across Mercy Ministries," Julie Johnson says.

"It sounded very promising … she went off to Mercy a very positive young lady who finally had some hope that she was going to come back completely free of this eating disorder."

And the family was excited, too, pleased that there was someone who could help their daughter beat anorexia. "But unfortunately it didn't work out that way. They gave her hope and told her they would never give up on her but … in the end she got quite distraught that she was never able to please them."

Johnson sent her parents a letter telling them she was not very well and that she was very confused with the kind of program Mercy Ministries was running.

"I called and spoke to her counsellor in person," Julie Johnson said. "She told me that Naomi was lying to me, that Naomi was just rebelling … she was making the wrong choices."

But instead of taking her mother's concerns on board, the staff punished Naomi for disclosing anything about her time at the Sydney home.

"They told me that what happens in Mercy stays in Mercy, that what happens between the staff and Naomi stays at Mercy. It is not let out to the family," Julie Johnson said. "We were isolated, we were not involved in her progress at Mercy, we were just excluded and yet we were a family that wanted to be behind her and they wouldn't allow us to be."

The situation came to a head when Johnson returned to the Sydney house after spending Christmas with her family in Perth. She was told she had been seen smoking at the airport and that she was being expelled from the program. Naomi phoned her mother in tears, and the staff informed her they were putting her on the next plane back to Perth.

"She was distraught; she was an absolute mess; her life was in danger. I could hear it, she was capable of anything, the anxiety was so extreme … she was just out of control," Julie Johnson said. "I said to them, 'There is no way you are going to send her

back on her own, she is suicidal. You will deliver her to me at the airport when I can get a flight over'."

Mrs Johnson flew to Sydney to collect her daughter.

"She went into that place as a young lady and came back to us as a child. She was very confused, like she was 12 or 13. She shut herself in the bedroom and thought she was nothing but evil. Her self-esteem went down. She thought, 'I may as well die."'

Johnson, now 24, and her mother, know how close the end had been.

The executive manager of programs with Mercy Ministries, Judy Watson, is proud of the organisation's achievements, and rejects the claim that there are no staff qualified in psychiatry, psychology or counselling.

It appears that there is one registered psychologist at Mercy's Sydney house, although the Herald understands that the little contact she has with the residents is around scriptures, not psychological care. She did not respond to a request for an interview.

In a written statement, Watson said: "Mercy Ministries counselling staff are required to have tertiary education and qualifications in counselling, social work or psychology. Staff also participate in externally provided supervision from psychologists."

Yet she was unable to detail what qualifications each staff member had, or how many had qualifications beyond their one registered psychologist.

On the allegations that young women are denied medical and psychiatric care, Watson had this to say: "Residents' mental and physical health concerns are taken very seriously, and appropriate treatment is made available.

"Mercy Ministries provides a range of services to young women in the program. Mercy Ministries provides services through either health professionals employed by Mercy Ministries, subcontracted to provide services to residents at Mercy Ministries, or taken to specialists at their practice."

Rhiannon Canham-Wright and Megan Smith (not her real name) are two others who have suffered at the hands of Mercy Ministries, this time in the group's Sunshine Coast house.

Smith had also been at university before she went into the Mercy Ministries house. She had been diagnosed with anxiety disorder and obsessive compulsive disorder, and thought a residential program with medical and psychiatric care would help get her illnesses under control. Yet almost from the moment she arrived she began to struggle.

Sitting in the courtyard of a cafe in a large, central Queensland town, as storm clouds gathered above, she told her story in a soft, quiet voice. Like Johnson, she is fiercely intelligent and articulate, focused and determined. She described her mental illness growing quickly out of control the longer she was subjected to the cruel, illogical treatment in the Sunshine Coast house.

"I was pulling my hair out - it's a condition called trichotillomania," said Smith, now 29. "However, it wasn't bad before Mercy. I let the staff know about it because suddenly it had got a lot worse. Instead of taking me to the doctor to where I could have got assessed and got some medication, they just told me to forget about it."

Her condition worsened without treatment, but she had no way of getting any medical care because the house was locked down most of the time.

"To take the rubbish bin out to the footpath we had to get special permission. If we stepped over the boundary we were kicked out of the program because it was treated as absconding. Even to go to the toilet or brush our teeth we had to have specific permission. It was such a sterile environment. We were not allowed to talk about our feelings, there was no family support, no friend's support, and no professional support."

Before long, Smith began to harm herself in other ways. Again she alerted the staff to her concerns. They reprimanded her for wasting their time, calling her a "fruitcake", she said.

"The [staff member] said I was attention seeking, bringing negative energy to the environment and taking her valuable time away from girls who really need her.

"With this particular staff member, I know she had issues in the past, because she used to talk about it with the girls. She was open about it because she thought that was how God qualified her for the work that she did.

"But she had mood swings and anger problems. She would go from calm and normal to aggressively angry very quickly."

Again, there was no medical treatment, just Bible studies and prayer reading, relentless cleaning and many rules that were often only revealed to residents when they broke one of them.

"I went to a residential place that said they help people with mental illness using qualified professionals, [instead] going there took away my help. Even the GP they took me to to get my prescriptions filled was their GP, who they said had been specifically chosen because they were supportive of 'the Mercy way'. I wasn't allowed to talk to the doctor by myself; they had a staff member or volunteer with us at all times."

Asked to name the most valuable thing she learned in Mercy Ministries, she said, without hesitation and with much mirth: "cleaning".

"I am no domestic goddess, so I needed all the help I could get."

In both the Sydney and the Sunshine Coast house residents were prohibited from talking about their past, what brought them to Mercy, their struggles and problems.

"We were threatened with being kicked out if we did disclose anything," Smith said. "It was a lot to do with control and manipulation, and it just shows that they did have that power over us. We could have talked and rebelled but we were so scared of them and just so desperate for help.

"I was really sucked in. That was my world; it was locked down 24/7, so anything the staff said I believed to be the truth."

By the time Smith was expelled from Mercy, three months into her six-month stay, she was a mess. She was locked in a room and told she was not worth helping, she said, then driven to the airport and left alone to wait for a flight to her central Queensland home.

A family member met her at the airport. He had been told, incorrectly, by Mercy staff that Smith had chosen to leave. He was unprepared for the state she was in when she arrived.

"She was extremely upset. She didn't want to come back at all … she was in a real mess," said the relative, who did not want to be identified. "I was extremely fearful that she was likely to commit suicide. It was an extreme shock that this ministry we all had decided was the real deal had turned out to be a worse problem … it left her in a worse state than she had ever been in before."

For two years just keeping her alive became a full-time job, he said. "Whenever she was alone for any length of time it was always a fear that she may not be alive when you got back. When you did get back there were quite a lot of times when she had a knife and she had been scratching her wrists."

Since then Smith has received effective psychological care and is no longer at risk of self-harm or suicide. After more than a year of searching the internet, she found one other woman who had been at Mercy, using the social networking site Facebook. That is Canham-Wright, 26, another former resident of the Sunshine Coast house.

Canham-Wright, now living in Darwin with her daughter, 1, and her partner, describes every day as a struggle since she was thrown out of Mercy, after living there from July 2003 until the following March.

She had gone into Mercy Ministries just after her 21st birthday following a drug overdose and suffering bipolar disorder. Soon after she was in conflict with staff over her regular medication.

Canham-Wright has asthma, and yet she was prevented from having her ventolin with her at all times, she said.

"Every time I had an asthma attack they told me to stop acting … I was punished, I had to do an assignment about why God believes that lying is wrong.

"I was told, 'You still have demons to battle with. Satan still has a huge control over your life. That is when the exorcism and the prayers over my life started."

She got to the point where she no longer knew herself or what she believed in.

"They would call me into their office, saying that I was just make-believing and trying to get attention, and they would start praying over me. They would always pray for Satan to be dismissed out of my body."

Every night there was a prayer meeting. "When someone wanted to have something prayed about in particular, we would all have to lay hands and the staff member … would perform an exorcism."

You will find a donation box and pamphlet in every Gloria Jeans store soliciting donations for Mercy Ministries. "Your spare change helps transform a life," the pamphlet reads.

Yet few who donate to Mercy understand they are giving money to fund exorcisms in a program that removes young women from proven medical therapies and places them in the hands of a house full of amateur counsellors. Its literature claims to have a 90 per cent success rate - yet nowhere does it publish any results.

The allegations by Johnson, Canham-Wright, Smith and others indicates the program cannot lay claim to such a success rate.

The internet is littered with other young women making similar allegations about the Mercy Ministries program.

One young woman wrote in January: "I have been to Mercy Ministries - I have seen so many girls hurt and abused there, it is really sickening. Many girls are also kicked out and leave there far worse off than before they went to get help."

Another replied: "Mercy Ministries operates off the grid, and therefore can abuse and harm young women who go there."

And yet Mercy continues to operate without the scrutiny of government authorities, under the radar and with impunity.
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They prayed to cast Satan from my body
« Reply #6 on: January 17, 2010, 06:36:15 PM »
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« Reply #7 on: January 17, 2010, 06:38:14 PM »
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...And the only programs for pregnant teens that I know of were the WWASP facilities Linden House and Woodland Maternity Home. I'm fairly certain that Linden has shut down in the late 90's, but I don't know what happened w/ Woodland.
Roloff and his associates had a few, I believe, e.g., the Bethesda Home for pregnant teens... Also, Mercy Ministries (see ALSO).
And... see also the following pertinent thread:

    Mercy ministries
    viewtopic.php?f=9&t=19346[/list]
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    Troubled teens were banished to the Monarch Center...
    « Reply #8 on: January 19, 2010, 01:11:12 PM »
    Quote from: "Yael Eshet Khever"
    The only case I'm familiar with of a girl getting pregnant in a program was the Monarch School affair...
    It should probably be clarified that this isn't the Monarch School (Montana; CEDU offspring), but the Monarch Center for Family Healing (Colorado; Gestalt and wilderness therapy). Different program.

    Here's that article from your link:

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    Troubled teens were banished to the Monarch Center wilderness program. Then their troubles really started
    By Adam Cayton-Holland
    Published on November 12, 2008 at 12:00pm


    He was one of the smartest dumbasses you'll ever meet," Harry Haney says of his son.

    Chris Haney was an honors student who took all advanced placement classes at his Texas high school and was the lead-off hitter on the 5A varsity baseball team his freshman year. "Then he hooked up with a kid who was into some other things," Harry drawls, "and all of a sudden he's ditching practice, his grades went from the high 90s to the 50s. Down here, you're allowed to have nine unexcused absences; his junior year he had 148."

    Chris's first other thing was weed, but he quickly got hooked on cocaine. He became addicted to gambling, too.

    The Haneys sent Chris to counselor after counselor to try to break him of his new habits. Once Chris found a therapist he liked, he started visiting him regularly — but the Haneys were already working on a backup plan. The therapist had recommended a wilderness-therapy program in Georgetown, Colorado, called Monarch Center for Family Healing, a unique program that sent troubled teenagers off on lengthy wilderness excursions but also treated them therapeutically to get to the root of their problems. The Haneys decided it was the right place for Chris, and they waited for an opening.

    "It's one of those things where as a family and a parent you're at your wits' end," Harry says. "'What am I going to do for my kid? I want my kid to be safe, I want him to be back on track as much as he possibly can.' We pretty much were at the mercy of the professionals, and that's what they recommended."

    While some teenagers wake up to find a Monarch staffer by their bedside, ready to rip them from the life they know and whisk them to the mountains of Colorado — an extreme, boot-camp tactic that enforces the seriousness of what the student is about to go through — Chris went to Monarch voluntarily, escorted by his parents.

    Right away, Harry noticed a few things that worried him. He found it odd that his son was going to be in a coed group camping in the woods. He also wondered if the cheap, plastic fishing-tackle box stuffed to the brim with the different medications of Monarch students was sufficiently secure. But he'd heard that Monarch was such an amazing place, he let those concerns go.

    Out in the field, though, Chris found his daily routine a far cry from the glitzy, biking/white-water rafting/mountain-climbing Colorado experience that Monarch had advertised.

    "Basically we'd wake up early, eat breakfast that consisted of powdered milk and cereal, and then we'd hike for miles," Chris remembers. "We'd stop for lunch, then keep hiking for a few more hours, and then we'd camp. We'd sit around the fire and shoot the shit for a little bit at night, but it wasn't therapy; it was just talking. Then the next day we'd do it again. It got to be really, really boring."

    And worse. Early on, Chris lost the spoon he'd been assigned for his meals, so he had to consume his meager rations with a stick. An informational pamphlet handed out at orientation had informed students that they were to practice a leave-no-trace style of mountaineering, with each camper issued six squares of toilet paper, but Chris didn't even get that. "They made me wipe my ass with rocks and pinecones," he says. "They never had toilet paper. That six squares thing? That was just bullshit. The girls were made to drip dry."

    Each camper carried a thermos. At streams, they'd fill up — and then counselors would purify each thermos with a few drops from an eye-dropper full of chlorine bleach. Sometimes, Chris says, they would just drop the bleach directly into the stream and then tell the kids to fill up. Chris was soon suffering from severe diarrhea.

    Monarch typically takes students out into the field for two weeks at a time, then brings them back to Georgetown for a week of family therapy. When the Haneys arrived from Fort Worth, where Harry owns a company that manufactures highway safety equipment, Chris smelled so bad that he had to shower twice before they could take him out for a meal, Harry remembers.

    At their first family session, Chris complained about conditions at Monarch. But his parents figured it was just normal bitching about "bad kids' camp," and they sent him back into the field.

    The second time Harry came up for family week, he could see in his son's eyes that something wasn't right.

    "He said, 'Dad, you have to get me out of here; they just want me for the money,'" Harry remembers.

    Harry asked Chris if he'd been getting all the sports pages he'd been sending to keep his son abreast of his beloved Dallas Mavericks, along with many letters. Chris said he hadn't. Nor had Harry gotten any of the individual therapy reports or treatment plans he'd been promised. Although he again left Chris at Monarch, once he got back home, he started investigating the program.

    "I saw all the red flags and indications, so I got on their website and there was a sort of chat board, and I started asking parents if they had experienced any of the problems Chris was telling me about," Harry says. "The next day, that section of the site was pulled off the web."

    Harry called Monarch and said he'd be there Friday to remove his son from the program. When he got to Georgetown, though, he was told that Chris was in the field, "debriefing," and wouldn't be available for two days. Livid, Harry waited in his hotel until Monday. When Chris finally did return, Monarch employees tried to convince Harry to keep him in the program, claiming that he was not ready to leave. But Harry took Chris and left. On the trip back to Texas, he learned that Chris had been camping on Guanella Pass all weekend, not an hour from Georgetown.

    Back home, Chris's stomach problems worsened.

    "There were so many days that he missed school because he couldn't get out of bed," Harry says. "He would have diarrhea and stomach cramps that would keep him in bed for literally three days."

    "It's still that way," says Chris, who's now eighteen. "This is a constant, daily problem." The doctors still aren't sure if he's suffering from giardia or a scorched lower gastrointestinal tract — but they trace the problem back to Chris's time in Colorado.

    "We were duped," Harry says. "The false representation, the treatment that was obviously nowhere near what was advertised. It's just cruel. When your child is at that point, they're on the verge of going over, and more often than not, they're going to take the worst way over. I wasn't going to let that happen to my son, so I sent him to Monarch — and look what happened. And at the price they charge? Almost $375 a day! I felt like I was buying a Cadillac and I ended up getting a used '74 Chevy."

    And Harry and Chris Haney aren't the only ones who think they got a lemon.

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    Dave Ventimiglia, founder and executive director of Monarch Center for Family Healing, is sitting before his computer in the Monarch offices above the post office in the heart of Georgetown, a historic mining town. These few rooms are the only physical manifestation of the center; clients spend most of their time with therapists out in the field, camping in the wilderness.

    "My wife and I worked in treatment centers prior to doing this," he explains. Dave and Lori Ventimiglia were both at an Idaho Springs facility for sexually abused children for seven years; Dave also worked at a lockdown facility for adolescents in Lakewood. "We started as child-care counselors and moved on to detention centers, but we got tired of beating our heads against the wall. It was a frustrating process. We were avid outdoor folks, so we had personal experience with how good being in the outdoors had been for us, and we just thought we ought to combine our interests," he says.

    "Our first nine-day trip, we were borrowing backpacks and scraping stuff together, but we just kept going and putting it together piece by piece, and as we did so, our vision really developed."

    That vision was for a wilderness-therapy program that would separate troubled youth from negative influences and place them in an outdoor setting for an extended amount of time, with therapists along to encourage self-examination and communication. The Ventimiglias' first venture was Trailhead Wilderness School, which they opened in Georgetown in 1997 as a residential child-care facility and treatment center largely for kids placed there by social services departments. There wasn't much of a family component to the programs they offered — most of their students came from foster and group homes — and the placements typically lasted twelve to fourteen months, with a great deal of that time spent out in the wilderness, often in freezing conditions. The experience was grueling.

    "Our staff got tired of it and burned out," Ventimiglia remembers. "We were combining two of the hardest things in the world: working with at-risk kids and then leading an expedition at 10,000 feet. I mean, that can be great for two weeks at a time, like we do now. But ninety days? That's brutal. We started to realize that was not really the right way of going about it."

    They also realized that since they were receiving only a bare-bones, Medicaid-mandated fee for each student, the only way to make that program work would be to grow exponentially. At one point, they had four different groups of up to twelve students out in the field, with base camps in Leadville and Georgetown. But they realized they couldn't keep that pace up. "We felt like we weren't doing the job we needed to do," Ventimiglia says, and they closed Trailhead in December 2003.

    In March 2004, they reopened as Monarch Center for Family Healing.

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    Emily Jarvis started experimenting with drugs and alcohol in 2005, toward the end of her eighth-grade year at Mandalay Middle School in Westminster. She began with weed but quickly branched out into ecstasy and cocaine. She also started cutting herself, and when a school counselor noticed the deep incisions Emily had made in her arm with a razor blade, she contacted her parents. They sent her to Centennial Peaks, a psychiatric hospital, where she was diagnosed with clinical depression and placed on Lexapro and Abilify. But as Emily bounced from counselor to counselor her freshman year at Broomfield High School, the cutting continued, as did other forms of acting out. By the time she was fifteen, she reluctantly admits, she'd had more than ten sexual partners.

    Emily's parents knew that their daughter was dabbling in marijuana and drinking occasionally — behavior for which she was constantly grounded — but they had no idea what else she was doing. What they did know of her behavior, though, was disturbing enough that they began looking into options, perhaps a place she could go during spring break. Then Emily got two matching tattoos of guns on her hip bones, and her mother, Elyce, took it as a sign: There wasn't any time to spare. A counselor at Broomfield who met regularly with Emily recommended Monarch.

    "We thought maybe getting her back into what she loved to do as a kid — hiking, biking, whitewater rafting, all the things that the website said they would be doing with the kids — would be helpful for her," Elyce says, noting that Emily had been a total mountain girl, one who couldn't wait to join her dad on the black-diamond slopes. "We also liked the family-therapy angle. It wasn't just Emily that was the problem; obviously, there was some connection as a family that we lost, and we wanted that back."

    The decision to send Emily away wasn't easy, but Elyce didn't know what else to do. "It was a situation that just couldn't wait any longer," she says. "As a family, we were just desperate."

    In February 2007, a Monarch staffer came to get Emily in the middle of the night and drove her to join a group that had already left Georgetown for Arizona. "When we were driving up there, they were explaining how everything was going to work out — and it was completely different when we were actually brought out there," Emily says. "There was no structure whatsoever. It was ridiculous."

    Emily's parents had been assured that while the groups were coed, the boys and girls were separated at night and there was lots of supervision. "To be honest with you, I wasn't too concerned with the coed thing," Elyce says. "My thought was that this was a troubled teens' camp; I never figured my daughter would have even been in a position to go off and have sex."

    But Emily had no difficulty sneaking out of her tent at night; she just waited until she could hear the counselors snoring. She and another student had sex several times before they were caught. During a group check-in, another student reported that there was "drama" within the group because people were keeping secrets, and he outed Emily and her partner. The two field staffers who were with the group seemed stunned.

    "There was no anger, but they were shocked because they had no idea," Emily says. "No one expected it."

    The staffers called Dave Ventimiglia, who called Emily's parents; they asked that their daughter have access to a morning-after pill. There were none in the camp's medicine kit, so Emily was to hike out with a member of the field staff and go to the nearest clinic. But just as she was supposed to leave, another camper fell and hit her head on a rock and had to be rushed to a hospital. Emily was lost in the shuffle and finished out her time in the field like everyone else.

    Ten days after the counselors had learned Emily was having sex, she finally got back to Georgetown. When Emily saw a doctor, he told her she was pregnant. Emily didn't want to have an abortion.

    Upset with Monarch, Emily's parents looked into a few other programs, only to learn that now that Emily was pregnant, none of them would take her. And Monarch staffers "led us to believe that it would be even more detrimental to pull her from the program at that point," Elyce says. So the Jarvises consulted with a doctor, who notified Monarch that Emily would need increased nutrition and care out in the field. But when Elyce found out that Emily was sick and vomiting, she removed her daughter from the program.

    "We entrusted them with our daughter, the most important thing in our lives, and they totally failed," Elyce says. "She shouldn't have been put in that position to make a life-altering change at age sixteen. No one should."

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    When the Ventimiglias transformed Trailhead into Monarch, they joined the National Association of Therapeutic Wilderness Camping, a group committed to "upholding the best practices of our industry through networking, education, counselor certification and the support of research and political action in our field," according to its website. While there are dozens of programs across the country that specialize in taking kids out of their comfort zone and out into the wilderness, the Ventimiglias emphasized that theirs was a residential child-care facility with a focus on family interaction.

    But now, as solely an independent child-care facility rather than also a residential treatment center dependent on federal funds, they also had less interaction with government licensing agencies.

    For example, while Trailhead, which operated an on-site school, was registered with the Colorado Department of Education, Monarch was not. "They were approved in October of 1999, but they discontinued through us in March of 2004," says Kama Linscome, principal consultant with the CDE. "Once they're not approved through us, I don't have regular contact."

    The Colorado Department of Human Services paid closer attention. As Trailhead, the program had racked up violations, and even a lawsuit. (Ventimiglia says a student ran away and stole a car in Idaho Springs.) "They had been having great difficulty in terms of compliance, the number of incidents that were occurring," a monitoring specialist with the department said of Trailhead in a deposition. "They knew that the state intended to enforce their need to comply, and they felt it would be better for them to close down operations by themselves, take a step back, reorganize and re-implement the program."

    While the standards for residential child-care facilities are less stringent than for residential treatment centers, Ventimiglia believes there should be state and federal regulations specific to wilderness-therapy programs. "State workers are trying to hold wilderness programs accountable to regulations that were never designed to govern wilderness programs in the first place," he says.

    "Can someone get hurt here? Yes. But the incidents of that are so much lower than in the general population, and we're playing it more risky, with kids in the backcountry. Yes, kids can get hurt, but shit, kids can get hurt in PE.... If society is not careful, in terms of facilities to help kids and families, we're going to end up with locked-up, medicalized facilities. That's the risk here. You can't take the risk out of this industry, just like you can't take the risk out of walking down the street.

    "We all need to be careful about trying to sanitize what we do so much that there is no value to it. So that's our risk. Can kids get hurt? Yeah, kids can get hurt. But I'm very comfortable with the level of safety and supervision that we have out there."

    While dealing with troubled teenagers — and their troubled parents — can be challenging, their program is important, Ventimiglia says: "I hear all the time from people who sent their kids everywhere, the top places in the industry, and nothing happened, and then they came to Monarch, and everything clicked."

    Susan McConnell's fourteen-year-old son was one of those. "Our experience with Monarch was life-changing," she says. She sent her son to the wilderness-therapy program in early 2006, concerned with his anger issues derived from an emotionally abusive father. "Monarch Center for Family Healing is just that," she adds. "We participated in extremely hard emotional work in a safe — emotionally as well as physically — environment."

    "When you're looking at a program that works with at-risk adolescents and has been operating almost completely continuously for thirteen years, 365 days a year, we are proud with how relatively few incidents there have been," Ventimiglia says. "I've got a huge bias, obviously — it's my show, but you ought to see the feedback we get. Do we have some people that come through here and wind up dissatisfied? Sure. But I would say maybe 3 percent of people had a bad experience here; the other 97 percent loved it."

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    Maura Canty learned she was pregnant after a fight with her husband landed her in the hospital. They had been out for a drive when she'd told him of a decision she'd been mulling over for several months: She was leaving him. Her husband snapped. He began driving erratically, threatening to kill them both, and when Maura tried to take control of the wheel, he smashed her so hard in the face that he nearly broke her jaw. The car slammed into a brick wall, and the next thing Maura remembers, she was in the hospital and a nurse was informing her that she was pregnant. She stayed with her husband and gave birth to a boy, Michael, but the situation only got worse.

    Michael's father would hold his infant son in his arms and threaten to kill himself. He would put a knife to his own throat and scream how he wanted Michael to see his suicide, and when Maura protested, he would throw her against the wall. Once he went after her with a chainsaw. Eventually, Maura decided she had to get away, and in 1995, at age 24, she fled in the middle of the night, taking whatever she could carry and her three-year-old son. A native of Massachusetts, she decided almost randomly to resettle in Colorado, based on a cheap plane ticket her flight-attendant sister had scored.

    She found work as a receptionist at a brokerage firm and an apartment in Aurora, and they were scraping by. But then Michael started acting up.

    "He just had a lot of aggression," Maura remembers. "He would kind of attack me and I'd have to hold him down, and he would bite me and throw things at me. He'd throw his toys so hard at the walls he'd put holes in them. He was a tough little kid with some real problems."

    She took Michael to see a psychologist at a free clinic at the University of Colorado Health Sciences Center who diagnosed him as having attention deficit and attachment disorders and put him on Ritalin. But Maura says the pills turned her son into a vegetable, so she took him off the meds, and with time, he seemed to mellow out.

    When Michael was twelve and a student at the Denver Waldorf School, where Maura had sent him to get help for his dyslexia, he got busted for smoking pot and his old problems flared up. The school sent him to the Center for Recovery in Castle Rock, a twelve-week outpatient drug rehab program. But at home he remained defiant. He wouldn't listen to his mother, and he started punching holes in the walls, burning her things. Then Maura discovered disturbing, violent pornography on their computer.

    "I was really worried," she says. "He was in therapy at this point, and that was going all right, but he was leaving the Waldorf School and he was going to attend Ponderosa High School with a learning disability. He was already using drugs, and I found that porn stuff, which was the sickest stuff I've ever seen. I was concerned that if he got to high school and he didn't get some of that stuff worked out over the summer, it could create a really bad situation for him."

    An independent therapist who'd been working with Michael suggested that something outdoorsy might help. Maura looked into National Outdoor Leadership School and Outward Bound programs, then found Monarch through the National Association of Therapeutic Wilderness Camping, which lists it as one of the top fifty programs in the nation. Though a month at Monarch was far outside of her price range — at the time, the program cost $375 a day (it's now $395) — she says she was told that student loans were available, and so applied for a $6,000 loan from the Sallie Mae Foundation, a Pennsylvania-based provider that said her application would be approved. Somehow, she scraped the rest of the money together. "The website said it was about leadership, and they were going to get to do all this other outdoor stuff and work through some issues — and I'm going to be a part of it," she says. "It sounded ideal."

    Even Michael was excited. "I thought it was going to be a great outdoor camp," he remembers. "I was telling everyone I knew about it."

    Maura dropped her son off in Georgetown on a Tuesday. The following week was family-therapy week, and since Michael had only been there a short time, the Monarch staff urged her not to come, Maura says. But she was eager to participate, so she went anyway. Over dinners in Georgetown, Michael complained about the program: Students had to wipe themselves with rocks and sticks, the food sucked, he didn't like the staff, there wasn't much counseling. Maura dismissed his complaints.

    Then she went to her first family therapy session.

    Monarch bases those sessions on the Gestalt method. Developed by three psychotherapists in New York in the 1950s, Gestalt focuses on experience in the present moment and emphasizes personal responsibility. According to Monarch, it's "especially effective with 'therapy-wise' clients."

    The Cantys' session was led by "Elder" Duey Freeman, the director of the Gestalt Institute of the Rockies and a psychotherapist who works as a consultant with Monarch. Although Maura had earlier decided not to tell Michael until he was older about what she, and he, had gone through with his father, she'd thought it important that Monarch have the background. "I gave them a history of what had happened when I checked Michael into Monarch because I thought that might have something to do with his anger, and I guess they thought that was the root of all his problems," Maura says. "So we went into this session and Duey said, 'We want you to tell Michael about what happened to him when he was little.'"

    Maura was taken aback, but there were several other counselors in the room, so she decided to comply and spilled the whole story. Michael sat there and took it all in. When he was asked how he felt, he responded that he didn't.

    Then Duey asked Maura and Michael to stand up across from each other. "Duey said, 'I'm going to put my hands around your throat right now,'" Maura remembers, "and I was like, 'Uh, okay.' And he put his hands around my throat and he was egging Michael on, asking him, 'What are you going to do about it? What are you going to do about it? Are you going to save your mother, huh?' I don't really know what they wanted, but I think they wanted Michael to protect me and fight back. So Duey grabbed the back of my hair tight, and he put his finger to my throat like he had a knife, and he was like, 'Come on, I'm going to cut her throat, what are you going to do? Are you going to hit me?' Finally, Michael did shove him away from me, and they were like, 'Oh, good job.'"

    "I really just wanted to hit the guy," Michael says. "I didn't even really know what to think. He was holding pillows to his chest for me to hit him there, and I just wanted to full-on hit him in the face, because it was totally unnecessary. I didn't see the point in it, and it was pissing me off. It was the first time I had ever been told any of that stuff."

    After that session, Michael was going back into the field for a two-week stint of camping, hiking and group therapy. Maura was worried about how her son might handle all the horrific information he'd just been handed, and asked if he was going to receive any immediate counseling. She was assured that he would. But as soon as Michael got back in the field, he was told that some kids from another Monarch group had gotten into the medicine box, crushed up a bunch of pills and snorted the concoction. As a result, the entire camp was being punished through quiet time and solos, which consisted of hiking alone and then sequestering yourself in a tent.

    "You're in your tent, there's no talking, you're just supposed to sit there and write in your journal," Michael says. "Those kids up in my group, they were like my family. You get really close with those people, and I wanted to tell them about what was going on and everything I had just learned, but I couldn't. I just had to deal with it."

    Maura didn't hear from her son while he was off in the field, but she did hear from the Sallie Mae Foundation: Her loan request was being denied because Monarch was not approved by the Colorado Department of Education, contrary to a claim on its website. She e-mailed Dave Ventimiglia about the discrepancy. "You are reading older information that was pertinent to our days as a social service organization and is no longer relevant," he responded. "When we operated with social services students, it was necessary for us to be approved by CDE — and we were. It is no longer relevant for the type of students and families that we work with now."

    "Oh, now I understand, but it is misleading," Maura responded. "Your residential treatment plan I have downloaded says a date on the front of 1/09/06...How would anyone know that information is old?...Sorry but that is one reason I sent Michael there and I bet other parents as well. I hope you correct this on your web as well as to make sure parents who currently have their children there understand your treatment package has not been updated since 2003."

    She began looking into more of Monarch's claims. "I checked with the Department of Human Services about their record and I got this horrible report," she says. She read complaints about students not receiving the therapy promised, about lack of supervision and proper sanitation, about children having sex.

    Michael was now three weeks into his month-long program, and Maura decided to go up for the final family week and voice her concerns about Monarch. She wanted to know why the website made misleading claims about student loans, why she'd never received Michael's treatment plan, why Michael had been assigned a counselor who was not appropriately trained and did not have a master's degree — yet another contradiction of Monarch's website claims. But as soon as she raised the issue, Maura says, her son was kicked out of the program for non-payment.

    Michael was not allowed to retrieve any of his belongings or the journal he'd been writing in; he wasn't even able to snag the phone number of a girl with whom he'd grown close. He and his mother were simply escorted off the property, with no discharge report or further treatment advice.

    "Michael was devastated," Maura remembers. "He wanted to say goodbye to his friends; he spent so much time bonding with those kids. I mean, this is a kid with an attachment disorder to begin with, and he didn't get to say goodbye or get his journal; he was confused, and he figured I was to blame."

    Back home, Michael acted very strange. He kept putting his belt around his neck, pretending it was a noose; Maura went around the house and removed all the belts. Then Michael sequestered himself in his bedroom. Maura poked her head in occasionally, and he seemed asleep. After fifteen hours, though, she went back in and found Michael unconscious. She scrolled through his cell phone and found a text to a friend that said, "I'm really fucked up on pills right now."

    After a trip to the hospital where nurses told Michael he was lucky to be alive, Maura learned that Michael had ground up an enormous amount of Percocet that he had left over from a knee injury, and some of her Xanax. He'd topped off his chemical cocktail with a bottle of tequila that he'd scored from a neighbor kid. Maura hadn't thought to remove the pills, since Michael had never had any problem with prescription medications in the past — and he hadn't told her about the snorting incident at Monarch.

    "Michael doesn't remember a whole lot about that time," Maura says. "He won't say he did it on purpose, but I don't think you're really looking for reflection when you're a teenager. You don't do that type of thing for no reason."

    After the overdose. Maura tried to suggest other programs, but Michael said he'd rather live on the street — and on one occasion, he followed through. Finally, Maura took her son back to Massachusetts so they could be closer to her family. When they left Colorado, Michael was as angry as he'd ever been, threatening to kill himself and cut himself; he started punching holes in walls again and yelling at his mother about how he'd never forgive her for sending him to Monarch.

    "They took my son," Maura says. "My son didn't come back. He's still my son, but he's not. He's a different person; he doesn't trust me. He used to laugh. He used to joke. They took something from Michael up there and from me, and you can't give that back."

    Today Michael is a high school junior. He's still angry — angrier at his mother than he is at Monarch. "Even after I told her all the stuff that was going on," he says, "she wouldn't take me out of there."

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    In June, the Haney, Jarvis and Canty families filed suit against Monarch in Denver District Court, claiming negligence, "extreme and outrageous conduct," and violation of the Colorado Consumer Protection Act.

    "These families paid a lot of money and placed a lot of trust in Monarch to help these troubled teens, and what they got in return was not only no therapy, but actually a lot of psychological trauma that they wouldn't have if they had just stayed home," says Jay Reinan, the attorney representing the families. "At the time that Monarch was making these wonderful promises about the superiority of their program, they were actually operating under this regulatory cloud that had existed for a number of years. They knew they didn't have adequate supervision in the field, yet they placed these vulnerable students in that situation."

    "You can't say things that aren't true to get people to buy into your service," adds co-counsel Jordana Griff. "That's the reason the Colorado Consumer Protection Act exists. But that's exactly what happened here."

    Monarch has denied the allegations in the lawsuit and has filed counterclaims against the Canty and Jarvis families for outstanding fees.

    "I took their material for what it said, and it just wasn't true," says Maura Canty, who hopes that through this lawsuit she can prove to Michael how badly fooled she was by Monarch, and that his experience there was not her fault. "I want them shut down, and I want to protect other parents so that this never happens to another family."

    Because of the pending case, Dave Ventimiglia says he can't discuss specific charges made by the families, but he can talk about the nature of what he's been doing for the past thirteen years: taking care of troubled children in a wilderness setting and using intense Gestalt therapy that is difficult but, he believes, the most effective means of helping troubled teenagers out there.

    While the website advertises that campers can participate in such recreational experiences as whitewater rafting, mountain biking and horseback riding, Ventimiglia explains that every camper's experience is different, and that depending on a variety of factors, some groups will forgo certain experiences.

    Although at one point Monarch's website stated that "all of the therapists possess their Master's Degree in either Social Work or Counseling," that is not the case today. Monarch employs state-licensed psychotherapists, master's level therapists and interns — many of them Naropa third-year graduate students working toward their master's degrees. In Colorado, unlicensed psychotherapists are allowed to practice provided they file with the Colorado Department of Regulatory Agencies and provide disclosure statements attesting to their qualifications. According to Ventimiglia, all of the unlicensed psychotherapists working with Monarch issue such disclosure statements, but families may get confused about which counselors have which qualifications, because the Gestalt therapy sessions can get a bit chaotic.

    "This is not therapy where the kid gets pulled to the side and worked with one on one," he says. "There's lots of therapists, therapists all over the room, lots of people interacting. Most of the confusion comes from the fact that this is a different type of therapy, and for some people, that freaks them out.... There may be confusion about who has a master's and who's licensed, but it's irrelevant — it just is. In the heat of the moment, it's more if you don't like that person, you can work with this other person. That's the method."

    Out in the field, there are usually between three and five therapists for a group of eight to ten students, Ventimiglia says. Occasionally, none of those therapists are licensed — but that's not a violation of any state regulations.

    As for setting up single-sex groups in the field, to separate kids with promiscuity problems, "That's like saying my son has an anger problem, he keeps punching holes in the walls, he blows up on his PE teacher, I need you to deal with that, and then not letting us tackle the issue," Ventimiglia says. "When a kid blows up in the field, we encourage for that to be spoken. Most treatment centers come up with a point system or drug the kid so you never see the anger, and that's just going to come out later. Well, sex is the same thing, and drugs and grief are the same things. The parents come to us and say we need help with this girl who is promiscuous. We could pretend to make it very safe and that we're not going to deal with sex because it makes everyone squeamish and nervous and there's some risk to it, but that is such a disservice to the parents, because adolescence and hormones, are you kidding me? That's number one.... Yes, there's all sorts of selective flirting, or overt flirting, or girls who come in and they zip their fleece down so their breasts are exposed. For us, it's like, okay, that's what we deal with. The risk is because we don't lock the kids up, somebody is going to sneak out and screw somebody. We're like, we have a job to do, which is to help these kids get back into the family; we cannot work with sexuality without talking about sex."

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    Drugs and peer pressure are two very powerful things," says Emily Jarvis, grabbing a cup of cereal out of the hands out of her daughter, ten-month-old Lily. "Once you get sucked in, it's very rare that you get out."

    Seated across the table, Elyce offers up a weary nod and a smile. "She knows that if we even suspect that she's using again, we'll call social services the minute she walks in the house," Elyce says. "That won't even be an option."

    Emily is fully aware of this arrangement and has come to appreciate it; she says it helps that her parents don't give her any choice. Emily completed her GED last July and is currently taking a drawing class at Front Range Community College; she likes school and hopes to major in interior design. She's completely sober and has managed to stave off the drugs and the damaging, promiscuous behavior that marred her early adolescence.

    Having a baby at sixteen tends to make you grow up fast.

    "Everyone is shocked when they find out that I got pregnant while I was at Monarch," she says. "I was in a support group for kids who get out of these types of programs, and everyone in there was blown away that this happened when I was in the wilderness, at a camp. They had no idea how we were able to get away with this stuff. I could go on about how every person I went there with when they got out either went back to their old ways or got worse. The only reason I got better is because I had a baby. Lily is the best thing that ever happened to me, but having a baby at sixteen was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. It was definitely not something I was expecting."

    She wants to make sure that no other kids get surprised at Monarch. "I don't think they should be able to try and redo Monarch, because it's not going to change, and they're going to continue to take advantage of people," she says. "The three of us in this case, we're the only three that came forward. Who knows how many more kids like us are out there?"

    Contact the author at [email protected].


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    Re: Pregnant in a program?
    « Reply #9 on: January 19, 2010, 03:38:26 PM »
    I looked on the Fornits Wiki, no luck. Anyone know the outcome of this lawsuit?

    "In June, the Haney, Jarvis and Canty families filed suit against Monarch in Denver District Court, claiming negligence, "extreme and outrageous conduct," and violation of the Colorado Consumer Protection Act."

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    attorney Jerome "Jay" Reinan
    « Reply #10 on: January 20, 2010, 12:18:59 AM »
    Quote from: "AuntieEm2"
    I looked on the Fornits Wiki, no luck. Anyone know the outcome of this lawsuit?

    "In June, the Haney, Jarvis and Canty families filed suit against Monarch in Denver District Court, claiming negligence, "extreme and outrageous conduct," and violation of the Colorado Consumer Protection Act."

    Auntie Em
    This is a long shot, but Jerome "Jay" Reinan may possibly be their attorney, or perhaps know who is, since he's got a link to the above article on his website.

    See: http://www.reinanlaw.com/profile.html

    Interesting character. Used to pitch for the other side, defending nursing homes and doctors in malpractice claims, but underwent a profound sea change. Now, he sues them. He is well-versed in how these companies avoid accountability by constructing a multitude of shell corporations, hiding their actual net worth. Informative as well as entertaining reading:
    http://www.westword.com/2006-05-25/news/switch-hitter/

    Another reason that Reinan might have that article on his site may, however, be due to his association with John Holland, father of Westword staff writer and said article's author, Adam Cayton-Holland. When Reinan decided to switch sides, he approached his old adversary Kathleen Mullen, a former nun turned plaintiff's attorney, about renting office space from her. Her associate at the time was John Holland.
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    Monarch Center for Family Healing
    « Reply #11 on: January 20, 2010, 10:54:50 AM »
    Another thread on the Monarch Center for Family Healing:

      Wilderness Training at Esalen
      http://www.fornits.com/wwf/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=20379[/list]
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      « Reply #12 on: January 21, 2010, 10:42:34 AM »
      Comments for the above article, "Troubled teens were banished to the Monarch Center wilderness program. Then their troubles really started" (by Adam Cayton-Holland; Westword News; Nov. 12, 2008):


      • The federal government is very much aware of issues related to wilderness camps and is dealing with the lack of regulations pertaining to them. Not all treatment options are as negative as this particular situation. I am so sorry for the families that were subjected to this terrible program. I hope others seeking help are not dissuaded by this program.
          Comment by Katie from Denver on Nov 13th, 2008, 10:11 am
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        [li]In regard to the recently printed article about the Monarch Center :

        As former Monarch field staff, I have a very different view of the program. The Monarch Center for Family Healing is the only wilderness program I know of that dedicates a week to the family aspect of therapy. During this week, parents and other family members are involved in intensive therapy as well as multi-family therapy. They are also encouraged to (and often do) come out to therapy sessions that occur in the field. Monarch is also one of the few wilderness institutions that aims to send the students back home as opposed to a therapeutic boarding school or similar situation when transitioning out of the program.

        Although I don't think it was Monarch that led Ms. Jarvis to have sex and become pregnant, measures have been taken since that incident to aid in supervision at night. Tent alarms are now placed on zippers which sound if a student's tent is opened during night hours. Students tents are set up near staff tents. Staff tents are located between the separate male and female tent sites. When the number of students allows, the male and female groups are completely separate at different locations with different itineraries. Physical contact between the students is not allowed. At my last multi-family gathering at Monarch one parent complained that she thought the measures were too strict!

        I would also like to express my distaste for the caption under the photo of Ms. Jarvis and her beautiful daughter, which describes her daughter as a "souvenir".

        In regard to the possible giardia case mentioned; students use backpacking water filter pumps and iodine pills. Not having patience for the water pump, occasionally students will fill bottles behind staff's back with water straight from the creek, disregarding the warnings from staff. The idea of staff putting drops of bleach in a stream and telling the students to "fill up" is ludicrous.

        Groups are given toilet paper in rolls which stay in ziplock bags. A hand washing dromedary bag is hung in a tree along with a sanitation kit that includes camp soap and hand sanitizer. A gravity filter is hung in a separate tree which holds water that is filtered as is flows out.

        As most families will tell you, Monarch is a life changing program. All three students in this case were pulled out early for different circumstances. I don't know the details, as I don't trust the subjective nature of the article that was written, but it's truly unfortunate.

        At Monarch, contact is everything. Contact meaning "being in relationship". The growth I witnessed in the way families connected at Monarch was truly inspiring. Awareness of different behaviors and emotions is realized. Family members become adept at expressing emotion while remaining in contact. So much is gained from this! Therapy at Monarch is praised by so many for good reason. From a firsthand point of view, every therapist at Monarch is very effective in a positive way.

        The wilderness setting is ideal for removing the distractions that bring us out of contact, ie. tv, video games, internet, phones. It also allows the silence and space to reflect on our behaviors. During hikes, slow hikers push themselves and over time, fast hikers learn patience through their frustration. The wilderness is a good place to bring awareness to emotional triggers and encourage compassion and teamwork. During "solo" time, students work on curriculum and treatment focus journals. While backpacking they also learn to be self-sufficient by performing camp chores such as gathering firewood, filling the dromedary bag, digging a latrine, as well as learning how to cook for the group. There is also more time and incentive for the students to communicate and really "drop in" during groups(group meetings) and in therapy sessions, when they are in the field for weeks at a time. And what better place than in the wilderness to learn to live in the present!

        I have no doubt that every family comes away from Monarch with profound and positive change. I had often heard from staff from other programs that this was a thankless job. While working at the Monarch Center for Family Healing, I found that most students, through all the complaining, knew they and their families were deeply affected and had no problem voicing their recognition and gratitude before they left.

        Witnessing the progress in family relationships was an eye opening experience. I have been deeply touched from living and growing with the students.
          Comment by Samuel Forsyth from winter park, co on Nov 15th, 2008, 22:50 pm[/list][/li]
          [li]I am sure there both good and crappy counselors in this program, as there are in many other mental health facilities. The kid who thought it was bleach in his thermos might not know the difference from the iodine. The girl who got pregnant was alreadt sleeping around, so the fact she was sneaky the have sex there is not suprising. I'm sure that some kids are helped by this program, and others are not. No place has a 100% success rate.
            Comment by lynn from Lakewood on Nov 17th, 2008, 11:41 am[/list][/li]
            [li]Wow. I just came across this article and was moved to post a comment.

            in January of this year, my wife and I elected to place our oldest child in Monarch after months of agonizing issues in our family. Anger, Defiance, drugs, running away, issues with other parents calling- all forced our hands on what to do and where to turn for help.

            After extensive research and recommendations from a crises counselor -Monarch was offered as something no other program even came close to - Family Therapy. Not just a place to send children to have them "fixed". A place to learn what is going on in our family system-what is going on that is causing our child to search out this direction in life?

            For me personally-I was blown away with Monarch. Don't get me wrong-I am still personally having many issues with my child-but I have learned that it is My Family Dynamic that is the root cause of our families problem-not my child. He is reacting to something wrong in our family. We are continuing to work on this. We continue to struggle-but G-d willing- we will connect with each other someday in the honest way we are really supposed to meet.

            I can totally get how the children attending Monarch didn't appreciate the program. Its different. It engages the problems we each face head on-in a way that I honestly haven't seen in any program-course-community. Our society wants the quick fix, the 30 day South Beach Diet approach to parenting. It just doesn't work. It never has.

            I have returned from Monarch to find out what is going on with my child is an epidemic in our society. Our children are screaming out for help-in violent rages, in drugs, in sex, in money. Nothing changes until something in the family cycle changes. Unless the parents-the individual parents- decide to change-then there is just no other way for the child to react differently. After really struggling with this-why so many kids are finding themselves in rages- my second child coined what is going on for me-"we are the most Narcissistic Society on the planet-its the "all about me generation(s)" No wonder our children run to Facebook/Myspace. They learned from the best.

            Does my child like the program? Hell no. But guess what he says everytime he gets himself in trouble and we have to decide on serious boundaries for his safety? "Can I go back to Monarch?" He will quickly deny it after he can negotiate terms of surrender.

            If you are reading this-and wondering if your child will make it through the night because you can't stop them from running away, taking drugs or getting pregnant-you will ultimately have to face the hardest issue I had to face-to get him help. To pause life for a moment so we can take a breath and then dive in head on to what is going on. To give them a chance to work with you.

            My child made it through Monarch. We are still struggling-not because of his experience-because my wife and I suck at this parenting thing. Just about every parent I have met does as well. We just weren't prepared. In today's world-who is. I can give as many stories about parents trying to struggle through thier teenagers rages in their own homes-without help-but their children still continue drugs, get hurt, get pregnant. It's unfortunate that some of the children experienced the same results while in the program. I went into the field with my child and saw the program in action. It's amazing. I know from my experience-that the issues with my child would have happened at home.

            Honestly, there are no places in this world that teach you to be a parent. That's sad. We have done in society exactly as our children are acting out today-however our children are trying out life a little earlier than we experienced it. I have found the greatest tragedy is that we want to look the other way and hope that things fix themselves. Our kids are screaming for help. I am truly thankful that there are programs like Monarch.

            Don't send your child to a wilderness program if you don't want to get involved with your personal issues or avoiding diving in head on your Childs life-all of it. This is life stuff. Its ugly. Its messy-and damn worth it. I'm sad so many people in difficult family situations can't experience fully what a program like Monarch has to offer. I am truely feeling for the families and thier bad experiences in getting hurt. It is hard there. Its actually very very cold as well.

            My son is thankfully alive and I am working like Hell trying to show him how much I love him enough to do what ever it takes to work with him. I remember this next statement and try and live it as much as possible as each day has its own parental opportunities:

            "Can you stand up in front of your child - in all his fury, manipulation and adolescent rightousness - and insist that he adhere to what you know to be true and in the best interests of him, your family, humanity? And then follow through with him if he turns his back on you?"

            Can you follow through for your child? I am working on this daily. Thank you Dave and the Monarch team.
              Comment by Craig McMahon from San Antonio, Texas on Nov 17th, 2008, 11:50 am[/list][/li]
              [li]I think that that place should be shut down. The staff should never be able to work with children in crisis again and a severe penlty should be paid.
              They were dealing with human beings, animals are treated better.
              Who ever is running that place should be looked into to see if he or she even has a license to practice. I bet if you look into to it this has happened before in another state.
              Good luck to all the families.
                Comment by helen from bolder on Nov 17th, 2008, 18:51 pm[/list][/li]
                [li]The staff at the Monarch Center are incredibly proud of the reputation that we have created with the hundreds of families that have participated in the program here. We are disappointed and frustrated that Westword has glorified and misrepresented the facts of the case and look forward to defending our reputation in court and making clear the facts of the case. We have always encouraged parents, and those who are curious about the work that we do, to come out and observe our program. We have had this open invitation because of our confidence in the quality of our staff as well as the effectiveness and integrity of our program
                  Comment by David Ventimiglia from Georgetown on Nov 18th, 2008, 17:39 pm[/list][/li]
                  [li]As a 3-year veteran staff member for Monarch, I saw many varieties of this article's scenarios unfold, each with it's own twists and turns. Nothing is easy when dealing with these populations in these settings, except for 1 thing: slapping a "Perfect" or "Worst" label on the whole process and convincing yourself you're right by ignoring all the other information and opinions available. Ignorance is bliss, and between Monarch being the best place and the worst place, it's all of these things. Unfortunately, the "worst place" scenario is far over-represented in this article, which seems to cater to a population thriving on fear and making decisions based on limited information.
                  I can say that when sex or drug use occurred in the field, the entire company felt the ripple effects-and immediately evaluated its practices. These instances were few and far between, and were often the result of unhealthy group dynamics created by those we were attempting to empower--the students themselves. In my experience, each student's life was taken personally and seriously by each Monarch staff, from Dave at the top, to part-time support at the bottom.
                  What Dave is trying to do is inherently risky-- subjecting people to their inner demons, making their lives within Monarch difficult, frustrating, and seemingly hopeless at times, so that their lives outside can be rebuilt, as a family unit, on healthier terms.
                  Doing all of this within a lawsuit-happy society that's no longer sure of what it means to hold ourselves accountable for our own actions is no easy task.
                  Dave runs a tight ship that could always get tighter, and will. The fact that he is standing by his words and his company today, after 13 years of struggle, praise, disappointment, and emotional intensity, is testament to his committment to teens, family, and a healthier American society.
                  We who have had a rough relationship with Monarch (as I often did too), need to look at our role in that relationship. We who have had no relationship with Monarch need to develop one based on our own experiences only. No matter where we stand with Monarch, we need to hold sacred the thousands of people that have benefitted invaluably from its existence, let their stories ring true, and allow for the continuation of such successful work.
                  I wish Emily the best with her baby, Chris the best with his future, and Mike and Maura new opportunities and open minds to make amends.
                  Thanks to all the students, families, and staff that allowed me to teach and learn a better way.- Paul
                    Comment by Paul Andersson on Nov 18th, 2008, 19:21 pm[/list][/li]
                    [li]As a family member of a monarch student, I agree the behavior of staff members was completely inappropriate on many levels. The counseling methods used in Maura and Michael's case was over the top. A student of psychology myself, I cannot see a situation where these tactics would be ok. The Monarch system needs to be completely examined and likely shut down.
                      Comment by T Canty from new York on Nov 18th, 2008, 19:55 pm[/list][/li]
                      [li]A truly fascinating article. I challenge the author to use his/her literary skill to write another of equal or greater length, depth, emotional intensity, and impact to the Monarch organization-- but this time from the standpoint of success stories.
                        Comment by Paul Andersson on Nov 19th, 2008, 03:18 am[/list][/li]
                        [li]After reading this article, I can't believe that anyone thinks this is a healthy enviorment for children. The owners and conselors involved should be charged with child abuse and child endangerment. These people should be thrown in jail. I bet many of the positive comments on this site are from the people who were implicated. Someone needs to put these scammers out of business!
                          Comment by Mary from Watertown on Nov 19th, 2008, 10:44 am[/list][/li]
                          [li]I can understand how many people will be upset with the content of this story. Sadly, it would be more appropriate to be upset with the lopsided and sensationalistic nature of its composition. The article's depiction of Monarch, its programs, its practices and its director are all significantly at odds with our family's firsthand experience. I truly grieve for the families who are now seeking through the courts what they have not been able to find elsewhere. If I thought that beating Monarch in court would help them heal, I would even wish for that. Our experience with Monarch lasted for three months, and we have remained in contact with families who were there when we were. None of them have found it easy. All of us still struggle to be functional families, with varying degrees of success. But I have heard no regrets.

                          Was Monarch tough? Yes. And not only for the students. My wife and I were each able to spend time in the field with our son and his group--no special treatment, no perks. It's physically grueling and emotionally challenging. But relative to the danger he proved to be to himself prior to Monarch, the risks of wilderness camping were minor (and in fact, his monitoring, equipment and field staff precautions were of a quality at least as high as that we experienced in scouting's high adventures). Bottom line, it really worked for him--it won't for everyone, and I didn't hear Monarch suggest that it would.

                          What's more, Gestalt therapy is not for sissies. It is experiential, deeply emotional and very cathartic. And everyone in our family experienced it. None of us enjoyed it, or even liked it while we were in it, but we all continue to benefit from it and will be forever grateful for it (think labor and delivery--painful, even traumatic; but who regrets it afterward?). We always knew who was working with our son and what their qualifications were. We spoke directly to Dave as well as to other staff with any concerns or questions we had, and we always received responses.

                          I am sorry that Maura feels she lost Michael at Monarch; truly sorry. But I know that we had lost our son to his behaviors, his peers, his rebellion. It was at Monarch that we found him again.

                          As a pastor, I can tell you that every horror story you have ever read or heard about churches and church members is true--of somebody, sometime, somewhere. And there are those who've written off the Church because of those isolated incidents. I see this article taking a similar stance regarding incidents that may have happened at Monarch. I do not doubt the sincerity of those who are challenging Monarch. I never believed we were enrolling our son in a perfect program. But after months of in-depth research and direct contact with programs throughout the country, we chose Monarch and have since recommended it to others who faced similar challenges. As an organization that refuses to simply try to "fix a problem child," but insists on hard work and transformation for the entire family system, it stands head and shoulders above all those we considered. Our experience there was transformative; expensive, difficult, challenging--but truly life-changing.

                          The State of Colorado, and every parent considering treatment, needs to investigate treatment centers, and allegations related to them, seriously. Monarch will continue to be subject to such formal and informal investigations, and will need to continue to operate in the effective, responsible, transparent way that our family has known them to.

                          Would that Westword were as committed to the same in its approach to journalism.

                          I wish these families well. And I trust in Monarch's vindication in court, and in their continued effective work with families in crisis.
                            Comment by Brian from Nebraska on Nov 19th, 2008, 23:37 pm[/list][/li]
                            [li]Wilderness programs for teens are helpful for troubled adolescents. These programs offer recovery from behavioral, psychological and emotional disorders in effective manner. Boarding schools suggest wilderness programs that provide confidence, self-esteem and respect for others to troubled teens and make responsible.
                            http://www.teenageproblems.net/
                              Comment by Ashish from Noida on Nov 20th, 2008, 04:10 am[/list][/li]
                              [li]What needs to be understood here is that these parents are paying alot of money for helping their children. Which the Monarch Center promises to do. They new what Emily was doing. Therefore the Center should have had better policies and restrictions for the coed arrangements. Thank God that Lily has changed Emily's life. But why should the parents payout that kind of money for Emily not to be safe and supervised.
                                Comment by Terri from Westminster on Nov 20th, 2008, 14:29 pm[/list][/li]
                                [li]Wow. I can't believe the blatant bias in this story. We each have a lens through which we view life and it is my hope that journalists are taught to recognize their own biases and do research to broaden their personal perspective. Obviously some fall short of doing this. It sees to me that research was done on one side of this story; not both.

                                It saddens me to see so many take anothers written word as gospel truth. It even baffels me that no one has questioned this reporter about his credentials and research methods.

                                Our society lives on what our media feeds us. I for one am able to come to my own conclusions rather than be force fed by the media!
                                  Comment by Cate from Boulder on Nov 20th, 2008, 22:32 pm[/list][/li]
                                  [li]I want to know what planet the people are from that have written comments in support of Monarch. After reading the article i can only say it takes courage for a journalist to write a story like this one. It also takes alot of self sacrifice for these families to put themselves and thier pain out there for others to read all with the hope that it saves one family from suffering through this program. What it does is puts awareness in the minds of the public that there is more underlying the surface at Monarch and other programs like it other than what is seen by first glance. To the people that have commented that it takes hard work and that it is not easy at Monarch but rewarding did you read the part of the article where the family of Maura and Michael were put through a grouling and truamatic reinactment of truama then the poor kid was left uncared for alone in a tent with no one to talk to. What kind of therapy is that. Revictimizing a victim in therapy is not a possitive expression of healing. I would ask all those of you that did not acually hear what these families went through to reread this article without the rosecolored glasses you apparently must have had on and not see this through your experience with Monarch but through these very brave and couragous families eyes, because it is possible that thier expereience was as real as yours and that is sad and deeply upsetting.

                                  i congradulate the families for being brave enough to take a stand and be at the risk of ridicule and doubt from others on the off chance it saves a family. My thanks to them and the writer Adam for taking a risk in a society which currently is more concerned with their own safety and security than with thier neighbors.

                                  "Be the change you want to see in the world" Gandhi

                                  Respectfully Mike
                                    Comment by mike from aurora on Nov 21st, 2008, 07:12 am[/list][/li]
                                    [li]Man! I don’t want to be rude towards those who wrote positive things regarding Monarch, but frankly I don’t know how else to be. You are naive, ignorant, rude people. These parents and kids have shared very uncomfortable things in an article of this sort. Who in their right mind would put themselves out there like this if these things weren’t true? I have no agenda. I didn’t enroll a child in this program- I have not gone through this experience However I do have much experience in counseling kids and families- and this Monarch place is absurd!! Those parents who wrote in supporting this program have been clearly blinded by the manipulation Monarch has laid on them. Do you people realize how hard it was for the parents who spoke up about this highly abusive place? These parents too were manipulated by this program, debating whether or not to keep their kids in our out; being told if they pulled their kids out it would just cause more problems. The parents that spoke up had guts, they said "enough of this manipulation -we are not going to screw our kids up by keeping them in this program just so we can feel better about ourselves by not having to admit to our kids we made a mistake by putting them in here" A parent who keeps their kid in this place without speaking up is a parent who doesn’t want to admit they screwed up by enrolling their kids in Monarch. These are parents who have not dealt with their own issues of guilt. I greatly respect all the parents and kids who put themselves on the line to share their lives and failures for the sake of others who would enroll themselves in this God-forsaken place.

                                    Regarding the counselors who have worked for this place that have written in- YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO WRITE IN- of course you are going to defend yourselves, you were are part of the abuse. Shame on you. I know exactly what is going on here as an outsider- Monarch is having their people write in about this place to defend themselves to the public. Let me just say I am just an outsider looking in who has done my own research about this place, and this place is AWFUL.

                                    To the parents who say that they have had success with this place: please open your eyes for the sake of your kids. By reading up on what this place is all about, not only in this article, but in several other places, I can clearly see what is going on.
                                    1. They falsely advertise, they give out false information regarding this facility, this is just straight up fact and you can’t deny that
                                    2. They are abusive. There are kids who are abused who feel safe enough to tell the truth. There are other kids who are abused and keep it all inside. This makes severely screwed up kids who turn into very angry and messed up adults, who appear to have their acts together on the outside, but are silently suffering inside. One of two things happen with these kinds of people- they either suffer alone inside, or eventually they blow up and really hurt the people around them. In a place like Monarch, out of fear these kids pretend to their parents they are all better because of Monarch so that they will not have to deal with this kind of abuse anymore. All these kids learn to do is pretend like they are ok; they comply so that the abuse will stop. That is all you are seeing when you think your kids have been healed by this place. They are like people who look ok on the outside after being fixed by a plastic surgeon on the outside, but are internally bleeding. OPEN YOUR EYES PARENTS!!! BE BRAVE!! I counsel families who have been abused by places like this, and you don’t want to go down the dangerous road thinking your kid is ok just to find them dead one day- after killing themselves because they could bear the pain alone anymore, they could live with keeping all the pain inside, or worse your kid grows up to really hurt some other people. WAKE UP.
                                      Comment by sherice from littleton on Nov 23rd, 2008, 17:35 pm[/list][/li]
                                      [li]Just so you know, I have researched Monarch after reading this article, and they had a psychologist on staff that had his medical license taken way because of sleeping with the kids he was counseling. This guy was practicing psychology at this place. Based on this fact alone people should see what is really going on here. This place is a fraud. Its ok to recognize you shouldnt have put your child in here- own up to it. Monarch is clearly bad news.
                                        Comment by andy from littleton on Nov 23rd, 2008, 17:48 pm[/list][/li]
                                        [li]I want to communicate to the people who are saying that Monarch is a bad place, how very wrong they are. This article did not touch on the power and authenticity of Gestalt therpay. It did not convey the compassion and the respect that Dave Ventimiglia or Duey Freeman have for their clients and their families. The article did not tell the readers of the many, many families whose lives have been positively transformed due to the work they did at Monarch. When people are hurting, their pain may manifest itself in drug or alcohol abuse, violence or depression and sometimes lawsuits. It is my sincere desire that the families who are hurting recieve the support they need to express their pain and continue on with their lives. Monarch is a place where clients have the opportunity to take responsability for their own actions and learn to make better choices. I have been the parent who "rescues" her kids and it completely interferes with their ability to learn and grow.
                                          Comment by Heather from Denver on Nov 24th, 2008, 12:47 pm[/list][/li]
                                          [li]It amazes me how many people want to put blame back on the parents who trusted this facility to provide a safe, supervised place for their out of control troubled teens. There are several comments about these parents not doing their research. I would like to know how you come to that conclusion? If you read the article it states these families were either referred to this program and/or researched the website as well.

                                          My question would be to the owners of this facility why weren't these teens provided a safe supervised place prior to one of their students becoming pregnant while in their care? It seems to me the tent alarms should have been in place when this facility first started working with a coed arrangement. Monarch failed Emily by not having these measures in place which would have protected her from being able to sneak off.

                                          Obviously several people that have commented on this site probably have no children (or they have perfect children)as if you were raising teens in our troubled society you would know that it only takes one peer to pull your child into a path of destruction no matter how hard you lay down the law in your home.

                                          Shame on you Tom in saying your confident that this girl has a long history of being abused and you even goes as far to speculate her dad was guilty of this abuse. Wake up Tom if this was the case do you really believe this family would have reached out to so many therapists/facilities to try to help their little girl. Do you know all the facts and their family dynamics...I would venture to guess you don't so how dare you defame her dad's character.

                                          Kudos to all those who commented in reference to those affiliated with Monarch posting comments to defend the acusations which took place while these teens were enrolled in their program. One must wonder what really happened in the first facility(Trailhead)he ran as the facility continued to have violations and even a lawsuit. Wouldn't it be nice if some of the employees from that time would write some comments? I am sure this type of facility works for some but you must question if the rate is as high as Dave claims.

                                          I wish the best to the families who shared their stories and hope some justice comes out where justice needs to.
                                            Comment by Pamela from Delta on Nov 25th, 2008, 00:16 am[/list][/li]
                                            [li]we'll publish some of the comments about monarch in our next issue; if you'd like to submit a letter for publication, e-mail me at http://www.teenageproblems.net/
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                                                  Comment by troubled teens from Delhi on Dec 13th, 2008, 00:51 am[/list][/li]
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                                                            Comment by troubled teens from Delhi on Feb 4th, 2009, 02:42 am[/list][/li]
                                                            [li]I am appalled that anyone could contemplate treating a child, far less a troubled child, in this way.

                                                            I am a 54 year old woman and a mother of three adult children. I would never NEVER have put my child through this. And if my parents had treated me like this for any reason, I would have left home at the first opportunity and broken off all contact with them.

                                                            No wonder these are troubled children when they have parents that think that barbarity is an appropriate child rearing tactic.
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                                                                Comment by Troubled Teen from LA on May 23rd, 2009, 05:19 am[/list][/li]
                                                                [li]Teenage problems are rising day by day every teenager have different problems. They are very easily comes under the bad influences and like to o for wrong path. Many reputed troubled teens schools offer efficient programs for troubled teens.
                                                                http://www.teenageproblems.net/
                                                                  Comment by Troubled Teens from noida on May 27th, 2009, 06:16 am[/list][/li]
                                                                  [li]ok, im a past monarch STUDENT! i wouldn't trade my time at monarch for anything, i met some of the most amazing people of my life there, and no, i was not told to comment on this by monarch. i was there the same time Emily was, actually, if your reading this em ive been trying to get a hold of you, anyways, i met some amazing people there, and some of my favorite memories of my whole life are ones there. i even visited later on, i love monarch and it changed my life for the better. i had issues with defiance, drugs, self harm, drinking, running away, just a lot of bad stuff a parent does not want to see their kid get into. but one of the main things about monarch i love is thAt they taught me that i am not the problem, the problem was my family had a problem, i had been the scape goat, but we later realized that i was not the issue, it was our entire family that needed to improve, not just me. my parents pulled me from monarch, which i was not happy about. i had been wanting to go to a boarding school for a while, and my dad finally somewhat came through on tht promise. I ended up going to residential care for troubled teens in missouri, and i hated almost every bit except for the people i met there. although, i am now drug free, sober from alcohol, 18 and living at home while living with my parents rules and obeying them, not cutting myself, not running away even though im 18 and could legally leave. i have to say that the second program i went to would have NEVER worked on me had i not gone to monarch first, bc monarch made me realize i needed to make a change, that my family and i needed to change. honestly, i can think back to experiences I had at monarch, and i wish i could go back to that moment with those people and jst be there under the stars with them again, talking about our issues in an environment where we felt safe, and could receive re-assurance that we weren't bad people, or just another "troubled teen." yes, there were times i wrote my parents begging them to come and get me, but had i known them the outcome i see now, those letters would have never been sent. Actually, one of the families in this column, i beleive, later came to a family week and told us how great the program was. people always say that i must have been so happy to get out of monarch and be somewhere that gave me a bed to sleep in, and i say no. if i could have stayed at monarch that whole time instead, but somehow still have met the people i met in Misourri, i would have in a heart beat. I reallly miss everyone from monarch. i can honestly say there wasnt one person on any of my expeditions that i hated or disliked. I met my best friend there, she died about 6 months after my experience there from related issues to the ones that she was coping with there, but i also had another three friends die later within that year, and they had never been to monarch or any other programs, shit happens, and in my case and my best friends case, monarch wasn't to blame. they probably kept us alive longer than with out going there. I will admit that yes, the supervision was a little lacking at night, but after what happened, the boys hiked an extra mile or two or three starting the first night back in the field away from us (the field meaning the "backcountry" or whatever). my point here basically is that monarch is not out to screw people over, rip them off and ruin lives, they are doing what they can to help. I was the girl in this story who was rushed to the hospital after hitting my head on a boulder and i can tell you that within the maybe even one hour that it took for paramedics to find us,i revieved amazing care and comfort. I was held, comforted, kept conscious, and was throwing up so i was layed on my side while being talked to inorder to keep conzcious until the paramedics got there. Monarch's therapy has encouraged me to possibly study gestalt therapy and hopefully one day work there. I DO NOT think Monarch should be shut down, it has saved many lives and I have faith that it continues to do so.
                                                                  ~Libby
                                                                  p.s. shout outs to dave, emily and lily, badger,jenn(R.I.P.), my group , and the families of myb group. i love and miss you guys.thanks for all your help! wouldnt be here without you.
                                                                  p.s.s.- thanks also to rachel and moses and alan, the best field staff ever!!miss you guys!
                                                                    Comment by libby from tulsa on Jun 24th, 2009, 03:31 am[/list][/li]
                                                                    [li]Wilderness teen programs recommend programs that contains complete educations with some activities and adventures events for youngsters. These programs develop camper’s fundamental skills, powers and mental abilities for their personal developments. Camps teaching staffs and trainers are the best and trained people who are dedicated towards teens and children.
                                                                    http://www.teenscamp.net/
                                                                      Comment by wildernss program from texas on Aug 3rd, 2009, 04:29 am[/list][/li]
                                                                      [li]monarch was great! all the gear i got to bring back with me is great for hiding my bongs and stash!
                                                                        Comment by anonymous from What a Joke, Colorado on Dec 26th, 2009, 15:45 pm[/list][/li][/list]


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