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velvet2000:
Maybe leave a message on the machine of a different therapist who is more on the ball, and hopefully a free one. I could be wrong but I think Family Life offers free services for adults. Yeah, when it comes down to it everything is our responsibilty alone, therefore no matter what we really always do handle things on our own...But having help from other people doesn't make us "Codependant" or incabable of making our own decisions. We form tribes, we form families, we're all meant to have a little help from people around us. That can be the difference for your next ten to fifteen years. How many times have I gone to someone for help assuming that they will say that I'm "pulling bullshit" or "You need to get honest" or "You're in your head" because I didn't use exact AARC lingo or my feelings came at an innapropriate time like before earning a step when I was supposed to be momentarily perfect? It's been hard to stop that programming from allowing me to trust people, but like the determined loud mouth that I am I've spilled out everything I think and feel to anyone who will listen, and gotten wonderful result from it : ) You sound like you love your place, so I hope that you keep it and maybe rebuild it with an entirely new enrgy. If not and you have to trade it in for a smaller place, that's okay too. Change inside tends to change our outside surroundings too.

lgood1:
Not sure what therapist you are trying to contact. I also know of a support group that meets once a month. Some ex members of Kids go there, as well as other organizations with similiar characteristics. Free of cost. If you are interested write me at lgood1@msn.com.
Would love to offer this information to you.

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