Sean and Eric Arnaugh or Arnow? I think the brother came in first. He was a big sumbitch that the girls side drooled over. He looked like Jim Morrison on Steroids, no shit! He was sent to Patterson Horizons and stayed about 3 weeks in our home and was immediately given preferential treatment. He was my stepbrother Mike's newcomer. During an emergency shortage of homes for about 5 new guys that all came in the same fuckin day, I "traded" Eric for two smaller skinny dudes so they would fit in the car and have a place to stay. He wound up pulling himself when he turned 18 and did'nt have my dad to try and talk him out of it, which may have been staff's intentions all along.
As far as Mrs. Arnow, jeez, she could make a guy open a door slam into his face. She was one of the top ten Eye Candy Mom's during Open Meetings for damn sure.
Sean festered her way through the program and I remember Dr. George Ross liked to fuck with her because she was missing her front teeth and looked like a 7 year old.
She was finally alllowed to wear a dental appliance once she got Talk and Responsibilities. I was standing "guard " at the staff office door by the water fountain in Morgan Yacht when Shawn's mom opened the door slightly and tapped my arm scaring the shit outta me, cuz I was really into my head at the time. She handed me a jewelry box and asked me to run it over to the girls side. When the Nazi girl on 5th phase gave it to her, Shawn burst into tears and immediately slipped it into her upper teeth. From that day forward she was a totally different person. I really don't know much about her program, since this happened around May of '79 and my ass was out the door that August and I may have attended 7 step group, but I made it a point to stay the fuck away from the program and Big Group. The only thing I had to "give back" was FIRE and lots of it. Bob in Tennessee 85 Day Jerk