By Roni Caryn Rabin
msnbc.com contributor
updated 7:25 a.m. CT, Tues., Dec. 2, 2008
John Hill was a typical teenager in many ways: He started smoking when he was in high school, which upset his mother, and he spent a lot of time in his room alone, staying up until 5 in the morning playing video games. He went to school but often signed himself out sick after a couple of hours, and his grades plummeted.
When his mother asked what was wrong, he told her to leave him alone.
John’s mother Barbara, of Homedale, Idaho, was worried. But, she said, “He had always been the kid who never got in trouble … I kind of assumed it was just adolescent behavior kicking in.”
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Teenagers are, by definition, difficult. Like the stereotype, they can be moody, reckless and emotionally volatile, crying in the shower, screaming at their parents, slamming their bedroom doors behind them.
It’s not a new phenomenon: the psychologist G. Stanley Hall dubbed the teen years a time of “storm and stress” more than 100 years ago. But experts now know these years are a critical period of development when serious mental illnesses can emerge and progress undetected and untreated, in part because they are perceived as typical teen behavior and may manifest with symptoms different from those in adults.
By the time they are college age, nearly one in five young American adults has a personality disorder that interferes with everyday life, found an extensive study released Monday by Columbia University and the New York State Psychiatric Institute.
While half of all serious adult psychiatric illnesses start before the age of 14, evidence suggests that parents may be the last to know. One study found that parents were unaware of 90 percent of suicide attempts made by teenagers. Another report from a screening program found that the vast majority of parents of kids identified as having psychiatric symptoms thought their child was all right.
“The tendency of parents is to think ‘This is normal,’ ‘They’ll outgrow this,’ ‘Not to worry,’” said Alec Miller, a doctor of psychology and chief of child and adolescent psychology at Montefiore Medical Center and Albert Einstein College of Medicine in New York City. “As a parent you can really lose your compass about what’s normal and typical when you have a range of behaviors coming at you.”
“Parents tend to believe the myth that it’s just a phase,” agreed Dr. Harold S. Koplewicz, founder and director of the New York University Child Study Center and author of “More Than Moody: Recognizing and Treating Adolescent Depression.” And, he added, “The worst thing a parent can do is wait.”
Recognizing signs of depression
— Depression often manifests in teens differently than adults. While depressed adults are sad and melancholy, depressed teens are often angry and irritable.
— Depressed adults often lose enjoyment in life; depressed teens may still enjoy activities but not look forward to them.
— Depressed teens will often say they're bored and give a lot of "I don't know" answers.
— Irritability and moodiness that keep a teen from functioning normally for more than two weeks should be regarded as a warning sign, experts say.
— Other red flags include substance abuse, which is often a form of self-medicating, and cutting, or self-injury, which can be a precursor to suicide.
Many parents baffled by changes in their children’s behavior seek out counseling on their own. One third of the queries to TeenTalk, which offers free phone and online counseling for teens are from parents, said officials with the project, run by the Ruth Rales Jewish Family Services of South Florida.
Barbara Hill watched as her son became more and more withdrawn, even from his friends. When she tried to broach the subject he was, by his own account, gruff and dismissive.
“Every time she tried to sit down and talk with me, I’d blow her off, or be real rude,” said John, now 20.
But while he appeared angry, John was actually terrified. He was hearing voices calling his name when no one was around — experiencing what he later learned were the first symptoms of schizophrenia — and was too frightened to confide in anyone, even his mother.
“I thought she was going to kick me out of the house but I finally broke down and told her,” said John, who was surprised at how supportive his mother was. He now takes medication to control his symptoms and has become an outspoken advocate for other young people with mental illness.
While schizophrenia is relatively rare, affecting only about 1 percent of the population and usually developing during the college years, depression is common among younger teens. According to a nationwide report by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, 8.5 percent of teens aged 12 to 17 — or one in 12 — experience depression in any given year, with almost half saying they were so down that they couldn’t perform their daily activities.
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The report, based on the responses of 67,706 youngsters surveyed between 2004 and 2006, found girls much more susceptible to depression than boys, with 12.7 percent of females and 4.6 percent of males reporting a depressive episode.
One of the SAMHSA report’s surprising findings was that only 30 percent of those who had experienced a depressive episode had gotten treatment. The number is even lower for college age adults struggling with personality disorders, according to the Columbia study. Fewer than 25 percent of them receive treatment, researchers found.
Last year, public health officials reported the first increase in teen suicides following a 13-year decline, an 8 percent increase in suicides among young people aged 10 to 24 in the year 2004, with the biggest percentage jump among girls aged 10 to 14.
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