blog of a program parent

[Anonymous]

www.Fornits.com

Turning dysfunctional families into a spectator sport, since it started partying like it's 1999

Tired of sitting on the sidelines? Can't stop screaming at the T.V. during ABC's "The Supernanny?" We have got the forum for you. Get off the bench and join the game, and tell families how you think they should raise their kids. Better than Wife Swap because you have your say! You can interact directly with dysfunctional families and tell them whatever you'd like. Regret not getting your PhD in psychiatry or psychology? Now is your chance to live out your dream without one minute inside of school. You can even sign your name as a Doctor of Psychiatry, nobody will be the wiser! Come give it a shot at fornits.com, where everybody is an expert.  

[TheWho]

Who's fault is it that Katie kept ending up back in Orange? Her parents? Her brothers? No....KATIE!

On what plane of existence is this anything but psychosis, and are the residents there immune to smallpox?

:clown:

It's pretty sad the good guy died at the end of Silence of the Lambs, huh? Whose fault was it that the woman stayed in the bottom of the well? The guy keeping her down there? No... HERSELF!

Very poor analogy.  Katie knew each time she broke the rules that she would have to go back to orange, so she had a choice.

[maruska]

"Did you happen to catch the insinuation that Katie likes to be the center of attention"


Did you miss that part, that her father has been writting a public blog on her for three years?!?
So SHE likes to be a centre of attention...weird.

[TheWho]

It's pretty sad the good guy died at the end of Silence of the Lambs, huh?

That is rich!  Typical survivor response.  The poor guy at the end was the victim.  The bad people were his parents.  If they had funded his sex change operation he wouldn’t have to kill young girls to feed his sickness LOL.  Thanks for that one guest, classic.  If he had lived someone from here would be trying to get him to sue someone so he wouldn’t have to work again!!LOL.

[TheWho]

There was a time that if you spilled hot coffee in your lap you would say “Wow, that was clumsy of me”… now it is”That wasn’t my fault, I need to sue someone”.  When I ever saw that person posting on fornits all ready equipped with lawyers names and phone numbers for kids to sue someone else for their own fuck-ups I almost died.

That my man is the true classic post!

[Anonymous]

"Did you happen to catch the insinuation that Katie likes to be the center of attention"


Did you miss that part, that her father has been writting a public blog on her for three years?!?
So SHE likes to be a centre of attention...weird.

His blog was meant to be private...not out their for public consumption....ya'll knew that when you posted it!  So he wasn't so careful in protecting his and Katie's privacy...or that of her family, but for God sakes, this guy was doing everything he could to make things "work" for his kid.  There is no feeling more desperate than that of a parent watching their own child self destruct - sitting helplessly on the side lines.  Would I have left my kid is a program where she failed to progress?  No, but I am not HIM or THEM!  None of us are, so who are we to judge?  The man wrote from his heart.  Of course he talks about finances - this was a HUGE expense for the family overhead every month.  I sure would not piss away $4,400..5,400 per month..whatever the dude was paying if I did not see any results or things improving.  We must all live & die by our own decisions - he is the one that has to look at himself in the mirror everyday and ask himself, "Have I done enough for her?"

[Anonymous]

www.Fornits.com

Turning dysfunctional families into a spectator sport, since it started partying like it's 1999

Tired of sitting on the sidelines? Can't stop screaming at the T.V. during ABC's "The Supernanny?" We have got the forum for you. Get off the bench and join the game, and tell families how you think they should raise their kids. Better than Wife Swap because you have your say! You can interact directly with dysfunctional families and tell them whatever you'd like. Regret not getting your PhD in psychiatry or psychology? Now is your chance to live out your dream without one minute inside of school. You can even sign your name as a Doctor of Psychiatry, nobody will be the wiser! Come give it a shot at fornits.com, where everybody is an expert.  

  You win the prize!!!  This is like watching some sappy soap opera.  Don't you people have jobs or do you just spend the day on myspace/facebook?   How you people can insinuate yourselves into this girl's family is scary.  She didn't fair to well with the last people she trusted.

[Anonymous]

Wow, this thread is really driving the sick fucks out of the woodwork. (Or maybe the same one. Hard to tell on Fornits. Programmies are so similar in writing style that they'd instantly get nailed for proxy-samefagging on any of the chans.)

Your conflation of what YOU want and actual psychiatric disorders is amazing. To this assclown, "MY HOUSE MY RULES WAAAAAHHHH" (Seriously, how is this adult behavior?) and real mental problems are the same thing. There is a mental problem here, but it's not your kid's and never was.

And most of us have been strongly recommending that Katie GTFO that place at the earliest available opportunity. Family? I don't see a family here. I see a sick fuck, his trophy wife, three seldom-mentioned brothers who never stuck up for their sister apparently, and his badly abused daughter trying to make sense of any of it.

Katie: IT DOESN'T. THAT'S THE POINT. Get the HELL out of there, NOW, and go LIVE for a few years and you'll know what we mean! And find a fucking lawyer because WWASPS is apparently terrified of more people joining the suit and it looks like you're in a good position to help end their hellholes.

I agree, Katie. katie, rto "leave them alone" and like sickos, wwasp holding you prisoner for 3 years without due process and the torture they plied you with there is a-ok. But juries see these things other ways .

Trust me, suing WWASP is the only way to get justice. The mental illness, the loss of 3 years of your life, the loss of all you could have accomplished, the difficulties you will have catching up and making up for lost time, the despair and pain, they have no remorse for.

Sue WWASP. Follow the links. Hook up with that recent grad in "facilities" and Anti-wasp. Money is all they want even if they have to wring it by twisting innocent bodies into nothing, take it from them. detroy them. GET JUSTICE

[TheWho]

What is this "due process" that the kids are being denied?  Does anyone have a link to this and how this is being denied?  Does this only apply to certain states?  Fornits is the first place I have heard of this.

[Anonymous]

www.Fornits.com

Turning dysfunctional families into a spectator sport, since it started partying like it's 1999

Get off the bench and join the game, and tell families how you think they should raise their kids. Better than Wife Swap because you have your say! You can interact directly with dysfunctional families and tell them whatever you'd like. Regret not getting your PhD in psychiatry or psychology? Now is your chance to live out your dream without one minute inside of school. You can even sign your name as a Doctor of Psychiatry, nobody will be the wiser!  

You seem to think diagnosing and treating families without having medical credentials or following standard protocal is a bad thing? Yet you are OK with WWASP doing precisely that. Perhaps if we started abducted families to deliver our "treatment" and charging the state for that "service" you would be more supportive.

WWASPite, you will loose all your assets in the class action and never will a loss be more profitable for man kind

[Anonymous]

Who's fault is it that Katie kept ending up back in Orange? Her parents? Her brothers? No....KATIE!

On what plane of existence is this anything but psychosis, and are the residents there immune to smallpox?

:clown:

It's pretty sad the good guy died at the end of Silence of the Lambs, huh? Whose fault was it that the woman stayed in the bottom of the well? The guy keeping her down there? No... HERSELF!

Very poor analogy.  Katie knew each time she broke the rules that she would have to go back to orange, so she had a choice.

IT DIDN'T PUT THE LOTION ON ITS SKIN

IT'S ITS FAULT IT GOT THE HOSE AGAIN

What is this "due process" that the kids are being denied?  Does anyone have a link to this and how this is being denied?  Does this only apply to certain states?  Fornits is the first place I have heard of this.

:roflmao: :roflmao:

[FemanonFatal2.0]

whew! its been a crazy roller coaster trying to catch up with this thread and all I have to say is"

What? are you kidding me?... fuck this! awww shiiit. wait! I wanna get off!! shit shit shit AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.    well that was lame.

No but seriously, Mike don't you think your being a bit of a panzie? Dont flatter yourself, us crazies don't give two squirting shits about you and your cunt of a wife. We most definitely won't be coming after you with pickled babies... the only thing we keep in jars is our... "medication".

Furthermore, I think you seriously missed the point here, we aren't targeting you, we are exposing you for targeting your daughter. Just as much as you have the right to publicly defame your daughter, we have the right to publicly defame you. I know you may believe in this instance the eye for an eye philosophy is a bit inconvenient but all things considered you really should consider yourselves lucky that we are the ones bringing this up instead of Katie finding out down the road and having no one to "talk it out with" resorting to an extreme that you might find much much more inconvenient. As Ginger mentioned, some program survivors have resorted to much much worse.

I am not excusing any of the comments here that have crossed the boundaries of the original intentions of reaching out to Katie, in fact that's why I try to stay as civil as my self respect will allow, however I think you need to take a bit of "accountability" yourself and ask yourself how YOU created this disaster.

Ill give you some cliff notes.

You completely alienated your daughter in order to pursue a relationship with a woman who has been abusive toward your children.

You failed to properly identify her disorder, and refused to educate yourself how to accommodate her needs.

You assisted in the psychological torture of your child and when that didn't magically cure her, you opted to have her imprisoned under the assumption that WWASP would fix her and she would return an obedient, appreciative and non suicidal little  girl.

Now you defend these actions by continuing to blame her, berate her and further alienate her from your family.[/list]

aaaaaaaaaand exactly how well is all this working out for you again? well I guess based on results you have exactly what you intend right?.... lolololol

well at least SOMEONE benefited from the 30 year mortgage your paying right now... yea that would be good ol Bob Litchfield. If I were you I would demand a fucking refund.

[TheWho]

What is this "due process" that the kids are being denied? Does anyone have a link to this and how this is being denied? Does this only apply to certain states? Fornits is the first place I have heard of this.

No one here understands what it means.  But it sounds good to say it to each other.  Gives us the feeling that we were denied something or were "entitled" to or something we didnt get and therefore validates our hatred towards our parents and siblings and programs.

Ya need fuel to keep this hatred going.  We will take where ever we can get it even if we dont understand it.

[Anonymous]

Clearly it is long past time to break out the Zyklon-B.

They won't get the benefit of a trial, or even charges against them. We'll simply round the programmies up and give them an extra-strength of German delousing agent. It's just a shame there's no gold in fillings anymore.

Silly programmies. They thought they were entitled to a lawyer, or rights, or even to live. Whoops!

[FemanonFatal2.0]

The Fifth Amendment to the U.S. Constitution reads:
“    No person shall be ... deprived of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law ....    ”

Due process is stated in the constitution maintaining that no American citizen shall be incarcerated without first having their day in court. In most cases these children were not even charged with crimes, so you should consider in the eyes of the law as well as our personal hindsight the punishment doesn't fit.

We may exert some entitlement in this area, but only because we were denied this right, among many many others in the program. Some also being the right to reach out to contact the authorities or child protective services when we were being abused. I was certainly not granted any of my constitutional rights as I was also held in Mexico (without proper documentation I might add) and was subjected to extreme amounts of torture simply because there was no authority over the program and they knew they could basically do anything they wanted to us because they already had our parents permission to abuse us.

Entitlement to life and freedom is what America is about, and just because your child isn't 18 yet doesn't mean he doesn't deserve the same constitutional and human rights as you. Parental rights don't over shadow the welfare of children and once the parent makes a choice that puts a child in danger, duress and violates a child's right to seek counsel and protection from authorities the only thing a child can do is cling to the law, and their inalienable rights to protect them.

Don't confuse entitlement to human rights with selfishness... they are two completely different things. I have been out of my mothers home since I was 17 years old and although my mother has assisted me in many ways since then, I have never once felt myself entitled to anything from her. I am however an advocate for human rights and the freedoms that America was built on. The fact that you confuse these two completely different subject matter only proves further the kind of thinking that drives parents to be abusive to their children. Your children are not your slaves, prisoners, or your enemy and the more you treat them as so the more you will create a war zone within your home. I'm honestly wondering if any of you have heard of parenting classes?... Or why you are so stubborn to refuse to be open to the fact that your parenting styles may not be conducive to a healthy household environment. Why is making changes for your child out of the question when you expect them to automatically change for you? Sounds like entitlement to me lol.