I have not agreed with many things you have said on Fornits but that is Free Speech and I respect them as your opinions.
I whole heartedly agree, I think disagreeing with each other is the foundation of what makes us individuals however even though we dont share the same thoughts and feelings we still learn a lot from each other when we choose to express ourselves. I would never hate on someone because they have a difference in opinion, I may tell my opinion and challenge their thought process but I have plenty of friends and people I look up to who have the exact opposite set of beliefs and I wouldnt dream for a minute of trying to convince them of differently. I will always be drawn to a good debate, especially when our topic can be analyzed from many different angles and different theories and solutions can be applied.
Just so your aware, Tony I respect you. I don't think having a difference of opinion would separate any of us or cast any kind of grudge against each other, I think its all in good intentions that we come here to express our opinions and challenge those of others... its how we progressively shape our experience of this industry as a whole. So dont take anything I may say personally, if you and I meet someday I will most likely give you lots of hugs.
Could you please elaborate on what you meant when you wrote,"Fornits members"? I have been posting on Fornits for over a year and I am not sure if I am one of these members of which you speak.
I'm honestly surprised you would say that. I figure all registered posters on Fornits are Fornits members, no matter what your stance is... I dont believe our opinions on one thing or other make us either part of one group or another, I have always figured we are a collective, all bringing our own flavor to the dish that is Fornits.
there are many grey areas in life that are more healthy and deliver a better mix.
I have never really considered myself a black and white person, it is possible that my opinions are biased when it comes to the program, or possibly program parents because my experience has lead me to develop a strong theory that I have seen proven too many times to count. Something you might now know about me is that for many years I worked with struggling families, and many times lived with them and observed their every day interactions. I have experienced first hand the type of parent that would and has sent their children to programs and it is NOT pretty. Please know that I wouldn't have even made these assumptions if I hadn't had extensive experience with the subject. I will never say that my theory about a certain subject applies to ALL people, and I will always acknowledge exceptions but I think that it is fair to say that my theory according to my observations is very likely to be true. You don't have to agree with my theory to at least realize that there are a lot of parents out there who are not doing their best to raise their children and the fact that kids end up in programs is just a symptom of this.
I'm sorry about what happened to all these people who were messed up in programs but I don't come here (most of the time) for a chuckle.
Neither do I, but it happens when people use humor on a forum.
I think it is possible to have moderate rules that make good sense without being totalitarian.
I agree, but dont think its moral to expect any of us to enforce such.