I hate that phrasing "putting myself on bans". Ewwww, too programmie for me. Psy, I was just stating my opinion. Things change and evolve and this board is evolving. I've gotten what I've needed and I think I've given back quite a bit in return (and will continue to do so, albeit not publicly) and it seems its time to let the next generation take over and shepherd this as they see fit. These changes may in fact be necessary in order to 'fight this fight', but they just don't suit me personally at this time in my life. I'm glad to see so many of you (here and in private relationships and conversations I've had over the years) being so passionate about it. Please don't abandon that because I or anyone else doesn't have the stomach for it anymore. Take in carefully what others are saying, but trust your instincts. That's one of the worst things they did to us, IMO.....made us doubt our inner voice and instincts.
Fornits is and always has been, as Ginger so aptly puts it.... a cyber biker bar. Its rough. Its raw. But its real, first and foremost. I'd hate to see that disappear. I'm off to Daytona for the weekend. Hubby is working the race and I feel like I haven't seen him in ages (not like I'm going to get to spend any time with him while he's working, but hey.....I can sit on the beach til he gets back to the hotel, right?). I love this place, I'll never 'leave' leave...I'll always be in and out, but I think its time things are turned over to the next generation for the majority of it.