i think i was abused in a program

[CCM girl 1989]

thank you to those of you who posted the website names and good luck is always helpeful i will search for those website names and start emailing people more .i just thought maybe some people here had experience in getting money from a program or something and like i said i want to know what abuse is so if i cant get money i can call the police and make their lives difficult as mine will be. has anbody tried this is what i wanted to know and how that works.
i have a friend but he lives at home so i cant stay there but he found me some information about this farm where all you have to do is pick some friut or vegetables or something and clean up trash and they let you live there so i am going to call them and see if they have space for me andmy dog.
thank you for everyone who posted nice things. the rest i dont really understand but thanks anyways as well for your input its confusing though.
ifi anybody has any people or phone numbers specifically you dont mind posting i will give them a try too. now that i posted my name i dont really want to post the program because then a lot of people would know who i am and thats not what im looking for right now that kind of attention. just need a little bit of help .
ccm girl i cant really talk the landlord into anything the house is sold and the new people are moving in thats the situation thank you for your advice you are really wise for a 17 year old girl.
honestly though as long as i have my best friend with me my dog then its all good, everythin g else will work itself out. thanks again! feel free to post any advice or names or how to get abusers put in jail  or get money from it or that kind of stuff i am desperately need it.

Wow! You see Mike, people here at Fornits hate me. I'm sorry you are going through some tough times. Until you have money saved, all you can do is work for your room, and board. It may not be glamorous. However, it will keep a roof over you, and your dogs head hopefully.

This board can be a little confusing at times. A lot of really angry people. But, some good people too. If you feel like you were abused, and have a case, then there are people who can put you in touch with the right people. That will however take away your time, and energy you need to focus on keeping a roof over your head.

The choice is yours. BTW,  my user name isn't my birth year. It was the year I was a student at Cross Creek Manor.

If you find out this farm will not take your dog, I would call your parents, and ask them if they would care for your dog. At least that way you wouldn't be asking for their help with you (I know how degrading that feels, and especially how much it hurts when you do get that door slammed in your face). I'm not saying that would happen to you though. I bet your parents would respect you for working to get back on your feet, instead of asking them for money. Maybe having the conversation about the taking care of the dog would be a perfect time to test the waters to see if they would let you come live with them temporarily, or not? Just a thought.

[Anonymous]

Point? Personal animosity distracting from topic, much? Take your caterwauling at ccm girl to a thread where it makes sense, congenital asshole.

Point?  Even trolls like you have the right to an opinion.

Yep, alcoholic idiots, too. That's why you’re not in prison, babycakes.

[Anonymous]

and sorry if i was rude at first you are all very nice people i am just stressed out really bad because i only have a few days to figure something out. i am calmer now and its good just to vent to anyone right now because i dont know who else to tell. again sorry for first impressions. now im off to go get smashed  forget about my life until2morow

think this guy is a troll? Won't name program, but gives his name. Talks alot about how he wants to get money cause he's hard up, tells ccm girl that she's wise (for a 17 year old girl) and now wants to get smashed...

fishy?

[Anonymous]

cafety is a good group. Arguments causing the "cause" as a whole to be harmed, should be reserved for the cults.
They helped a kid in a similar situation, and that bs about alex is a joke that makes vulnerable people a punchline.

Alex is the punchline.  With all the shit that Isabelle Zehnder has been linked to, the guy is too much of a prideful asshole to separate himself from her, thereby taking CAFETY out of a potentially embarrassing situation.

Captcha:  "Stronger treatment".  I shit you not.

[Anonymous]

and sorry if i was rude at first you are all very nice people i am just stressed out really bad because i only have a few days to figure something out. i am calmer now and its good just to vent to anyone right now because i dont know who else to tell. again sorry for first impressions. now im off to go get smashed  forget about my life until2morow

think this guy is a troll? Won't name program, but gives his name. Talks alot about how he wants to get money cause he's hard up, tells ccm girl that she's wise (for a 17 year old girl) and now wants to get smashed...

fishy?

Not as fishy as CCM being a 17 year old girl.

[Anonymous]

http://cafety.org/

http://www.isaccorp.org/

http://www.heal-online.org/

just in case you're for real

these are three orgs that should be halpful

[Anonymous]

This kid shouldn't have to pick fruit so he can live in some person's shack for free.

That's essentially the bargain slaves had, last century. Even vulnerable housekeepers are paid wages. This hopeless "bare survival" lifestyle, no access to higher education with the anbetter life quality it bestows, the lack of primary education, the lack of an opprotunity to develop life skills or a reliable social network, and the mental damage of being institutionalized and tortured is part of the reason these monsters get away with torturing human beings.

When you are trying not to die, you can't even think about pressing charges. Not that the police will prosecute, even if you try, of course.

Has anyone pm'd, or heard from this kid? I want him to be ok. He shouldn't have to pick fruit so he can live in some person's shack for free.

[Anonymous]

Mike-

How much are you behind in rent?

How much money would get you by, until you get paid?

Some of us want to help, if you let us. Please post your email address so I can contact you.

Sincerely,

Someone who cares and wants to help.

[CCM girl 1989]

This kid shouldn't have to pick fruit so he can live in some person's shack for free.

That's essentially the bargain slaves had, last century. Even vulnerable housekeepers are paid wages. This hopeless "bare survival" lifestyle, no access to higher education with the anbetter life quality it bestows, the lack of primary education, the lack of an opprotunity to develop life skills or a reliable social network, and the mental damage of being institutionalized and tortured is part of the reason these monsters get away with torturing human beings.

When you are trying not to die, you can't even think about pressing charges. Not that the police will prosecute, even if you try, of course.

Has anyone pm'd, or heard from this kid? I want him to be ok. He shouldn't have to pick fruit so he can live in some person's shack for free.

Hey, who said life was fair? If he has to pick fruit to earn a place to stay, and to earn a small amount of money, then that's the way it goes. If you don't like it, then why don't you send him some money, or better yet a plane ticket to come stay with you ANON??

From what he's told us, he's been in jail several times since he's been out, and went to drug rehab. I have more respect for him that he's opting for a slice of humble pie, and working to get his life back in order, rather then looking for a handout!

If he chooses to go after a program, and he has legitimate reasons, then great. But, if he has no friends, or family to take him in, then what?? Then, this is his only opportunity. It's not the end of the world. It's not to say he won't go back to school, get a job, and become successful. It's a bump in the road. It's temporary.

Like I said, if your not happy with this young mans options, then wire him some money to go find another room to rent, or send him a plane ticket. Or collect money from people on here willing to give to the cause?!!

[Anonymous]

This kid shouldn't have to pick fruit so he can live in some person's shack for free.

That's essentially the bargain slaves had, last century. Even vulnerable housekeepers are paid wages. This hopeless "bare survival" lifestyle, no access to higher education with the anbetter life quality it bestows, the lack of primary education, the lack of an opprotunity to develop life skills or a reliable social network, and the mental damage of being institutionalized and tortured is part of the reason these monsters get away with torturing human beings.

When you are trying not to die, you can't even think about pressing charges. Not that the police will prosecute, even if you try, of course.

Has anyone pm'd, or heard from this kid? I want him to be ok. He shouldn't have to pick fruit so he can live in some person's shack for free.

Hey, who said life was fair? If he has to pick fruit to earn a place to stay, and to earn a small amount of money, then that's the way it goes. If you don't like it, then why don't you send him some money, or better yet a plane ticket to come stay with you ANON??

From what he's told us, he's been in jail several times since he's been out, and went to drug rehab. I have more respect for him that he's opting for a slice of humble pie, and working to get his life back in order, rather then looking for a handout!

If he chooses to go after a program, and he has legitimate reasons, then great. But, if he has no friends, or family to take him in, then what?? Then, this is his only opportunity. It's not the end of the world. It's not to say he won't go back to school, get a job, and become successful. It's a bump in the road. It's temporary.

Like I said, if your not happy with this young mans options, then wire him some money to go find another room to rent, or send him a plane ticket. Or collect money from people on here willing to give to the cause?!!

When you were shacking up with men who took you in off the street and have sex with you, was that like eating humble pie? How did it taste?

[Anonymous]

This kid shouldn't have to pick fruit so he can live in some person's shack for free.

That's essentially the bargain slaves had, last century. Even vulnerable housekeepers are paid wages. This hopeless "bare survival" lifestyle, no access to higher education with the anbetter life quality it bestows, the lack of primary education, the lack of an opprotunity to develop life skills or a reliable social network, and the mental damage of being institutionalized and tortured is part of the reason these monsters get away with torturing human beings.

When you are trying not to die, you can't even think about pressing charges. Not that the police will prosecute, even if you try, of course.

Has anyone pm'd, or heard from this kid? I want him to be ok. He shouldn't have to pick fruit so he can live in some person's shack for free.

Hey, who said life was fair? If he has to pick fruit to earn a place to stay, and to earn a small amount of money, then that's the way it goes. If you don't like it, then why don't you send him some money, or better yet a plane ticket to come stay with you ANON??

From what he's told us, he's been in jail several times since he's been out, and went to drug rehab. I have more respect for him that he's opting for a slice of humble pie, and working to get his life back in order, rather then looking for a handout!

If he chooses to go after a program, and he has legitimate reasons, then great. But, if he has no friends, or family to take him in, then what?? Then, this is his only opportunity. It's not the end of the world. It's not to say he won't go back to school, get a job, and become successful. It's a bump in the road. It's temporary.

Like I said, if your not happy with this young mans options, then wire him some money to go find another room to rent, or send him a plane ticket. Or collect money from people on here willing to give to the cause?!!

When you were shacking up with men who took you in off the street and have sex with you, was that like eating humble pie? How did it taste?

How many men did you have sex with, in return for a place to stay? I am curious about this, as your a person who doesn't like "hand-outs"? Do you consider that a handout? Or is it prostitution, and therefore, honorable?

[Anonymous]

Give that whole whoring bit a rest, and please come up with something new. Especially if you want to be successful at talking shit, and derailing threads.

[Anonymous]

ok i hope i can expain it because its kind of complicated.i am behind for two months now i owe for oct and nov and then have to pay for dec by january 10. i pay 400 for my room and then 35 extra for dog fee so i owe two months which is 870 and then jan 10 i pay another 435 for this month. and since this is our last month since it sold then i need to get a new place with a deposit and all that so you see it adds up very quickly and i have only have a little bit left.
because they think im just going to stiff them since they know my financial situation,, that is why they are going to kick me out before the end of the month because they dont see how i am going to pay the 870 plus dec 435 by january 10 so i guess you cant blame them for being pissed.
im working at night as a bartender and the pay is better than my last job but it still low and they dont give me any tips because im new.
 i just got out of rehab because i had to do a 28 day mandatory for my second dwi this  year so that basically took all the  money i had, and my car, and i still owe money on that and have no license. right now im just trying to save and keep what i make and i cant pay off my rent because i need to be thinking about where im going next. even if i somehow work something out to stay until the end of the month, i still need to find somewhere to go after that which usually includes a deposit with a dog.
im stressed out i am seeing not a way to really get through this without skipping out on my old rent, and somehow swinging the next month on couches or the street until i have enough for a new room.
but im not seeing how thats possible. hopefully ill hear back from that farm or whatever it is because even a free shack is better than being stuck in this city with no place to go. if you want to talk to me privately you can email me my email is mikemacen@yahoo
im not asking for money though just some helpful advice if you have any maybe you been in a  situation and talking helps anyways. my dog doesnt seem to comprehend he might lose his   kibble soon. no just playing around kibble is cheap. tried to make a name on here but it didnt work. i dont work until nine so ill be here if anyone wants to email me something useful i am still needing it and thank you for your help you  guys rock!.

[Anonymous]

Mike-

I am going to send you some money via Paypal to your email.

This is not charity. This is a loan, that you can pay back whenever you can, if you choose to. I trust you, as your parents never did.

I want you to use this money to pay off your back rent and save for your new room, which you will need next month. Do not go spend it all on drugs or alcohol.

What do I want in return? I want you to nail the bastards who abused you.  Take them to court, and put them in jail where they belong.

That's it.

Merry Christmas, Mike.


Sincerely,

Someone who cares.


Check your email.

[Anonymous]

Give that whole whoring bit a rest, and please come up with something new. Especially if you want to be successful at talking shit, and derailing threads.

This woman is saying that suing, or this boy’s getting help from ss., is a "handout" in a disparaging sense. Yet, she took her own “handoutsâ€