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Offline Anonymous

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« Reply #30 on: December 05, 2007, 12:33:42 PM »
but thats what happens you are isolated and bullied into submission b/c you have no other choice! I was not aloud to see my mom for 11 months I was 15 and had always lived with her. I did no drugs and commited no crime before being accepted into drug treatment at a staight spin off for 2 yrs. I never saw the light of day except on Sun. when after we had to clean out foster families house we got to drive in the sun until noon when we had to be back at the program again and get screamed at for yet another round of abuse that lasted on average 16hrs a day! The really awful thing is this behavior does not get you anywhere in the world of today. maybe in the eighties you had bully sales people but this is soooo outdated. and this is the abuse we sustained in our teens. I cannot even begin to put the peices back together as some are truely lost. I'd like them back please!!! I'd lik those years and the yrs after. I'd like an appology from my stupid parent and evil step parent. I'd like my college education. I'd like retribution. I'd like most of all peace and friendships and to feel normal and whole. I realize we all have our crosses to bear and mine are a direct result of the program. And I realize there are so many crimes commited that go unpunished but that does not make them any less of a crime and does not mean that the victum suffers any less. In fact they suffer more b/c there is no aknowledgement or support. but we are still alive and what a life it is!
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« Reply #31 on: December 05, 2007, 01:27:57 PM »
what. is. your. fuckin. point. thanks.
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« Reply #32 on: December 05, 2007, 01:47:41 PM »
whats yours? and if you don't know the answer already I would be wasting my time trying to explain!
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« Reply #33 on: December 05, 2007, 01:53:59 PM »
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what. is. your. fuckin. point. thanks.



Which part is giving you trouble dear?

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« Reply #34 on: December 05, 2007, 02:30:36 PM »
Nevermind. I guess it's the writing style or something. I read it again and it kinda made sense. Stop rolling your slutty eyes at me, woman! :rofl:
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« Reply #35 on: December 05, 2007, 02:43:25 PM »
Actually, this part didn't make much sense to me:

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maybe in the eighties you had bully sales people but this is soooo outdated.
Not sure what the person was trying to say, but was abuse ever something that should be considered 'en vogue'? [/quote]
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« Reply #36 on: December 05, 2007, 02:46:51 PM »
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Nevermind. I guess it's the writing style or something. I read it again and it kinda made sense. Stop rolling your slutty eyes at me, woman! :rofl:


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« Reply #37 on: December 05, 2007, 02:49:31 PM »
if youve ever worked in sales or specifically wall street selling stocks there was alot of hard selling and closing and even though the pace is still fast it does not consist of bullying anymore. much like collection agencies used to bully people to pay up they are no longer taught to use this tactic? i hope this clarifies my earlier statement
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« Reply #38 on: December 05, 2007, 02:53:21 PM »
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if youve ever worked in sales or specifically wall street selling stocks

Sorry, never had the pleasure.
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« Reply #39 on: December 05, 2007, 03:00:36 PM »
well then that explains it! have you ever had a conversation with someone trying to sell you something? do you live on this planet?
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« Reply #40 on: December 05, 2007, 03:02:50 PM »
Fuck off.
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« Reply #41 on: December 05, 2007, 03:08:40 PM »
you started it
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« Reply #42 on: December 05, 2007, 03:10:13 PM »
Did not.  :rofl:  :rofl:
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« Reply #43 on: December 05, 2007, 03:38:18 PM »
in answer to  the question about someone voluntarily signing in or committing to a program after age 18....
i turned 18 while i was at Hephzibah House.  i told them i wanted to leave, but i was ignored and not permitted to go.  i had no access to a telephone, and any incoming/outgoing letters were all read.  there was at least one other girl there who was also 18.  i know i was not there voluntarily...but (and now to actually answer the question)....Hephz. House is FULL of staff who are former students of the program.  There is one girl who went on to marry ron williams (director) son.  others are just on staff, and after they have been out of the program, they have had younger sisters who came into it.  even after i wanted to leave at 18, i just quit fighting.  i was what they called a "model student"...i just bided my time.  but i left the second my 18 months was up.  they wanted me to stay on and go to a good christian college (of their approval) and then help out at the home.  fat chance!
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« Reply #44 on: December 05, 2007, 04:28:45 PM »
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Hephz. House is FULL of staff who are former students of the program.

I have been wondering about this business of many of the staff being former students. It adds to the evidence of cult behavior. Did others at other facilities find this to be true? Does "graduate" equal "get hired"?

Auntie Em
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