Something that just hit me. One of the most obscure and difficult Summit "tools" for me to wrap my brain around was the saying "I am responsible for what I see." I was like "What the fuck is that supposed to mean? Does that mean that if someone fucks up in front of me, that is somehow my responsibility? Does it mean that I am responsible for my own perceptions?" Oh, shit, I just saw a person get run over by a car, it's my fault I saw that. So I thought about it more, and it fits right into CEDU's solipsist viewpoint. What you see is a result of you and you alone. It is a reflection of you.
The other one I had problems with was the saying "End results equal original intentions." I kept asking Carmen what this meant, and instead of explaining it to me, she just kept repeating it back to me, s.l.o.w.l.y., as if I was some retard who would be able to grasp the meaning if it was just repeated to me over and over. As IF anyone had control over the consequences and effects of every single action they take. "Well, if this happened, it was obviously because you wanted it to." I am sure this goes over real well with rape survivors. And again, it feeds into solipsism. It's your world, and only you can control it. If it happened, it's because you wished it so.
I saw him roll through RMA campus around 89'.
I've already posted in great detail about what a douche bag he was.
Yeah, in that fucking jaguar of his, with his coke-head wife Brigette. I remember she came up and hugged me while I was out building that ridiculous rock wall when I was on my full-time punishment in voyageurs. I had no idea who she was, and I kind of freaked out, since we weren't supposed to hug, smile, sing, or laugh on full-times. I was thinking to myself "who the fuck are you, and why are you getting me dirty? Now I'm going to have to cop to this." She said "It's okay, I am allowed to hug you."
Jeez, those two. The loser square gamers who were so starving to belong to something, they voluntarily checked themselves into a drug rehab cult, even though they didn't have any substance abuse problems at the time. One of these days we will find out what the fuck that was all about. All I know was that the Synanon square gamers got a much harder time than the regular gamers, because they really didn't "need" to be there. I honestly don't know for certain if they *were* square gamers, since nobody can seem to get a straight story about what role they both played at synanon. I just remember someone from the old guard coming into the forum and talking about it. Don't bother looking, the search function is hosed.
I came up with a limerick about Mel when I was there. It was right after the tuition had been raised, and some of the parents had apparently let the kids know about it, so that info spread around school like wildfire. The only thing that seemed to spread just as fast was my limerick. The day after I said it to about seven people in a van on the way home from a day trip, pretty much everyone in the school knew about it.
There once was a guy named Mel
Whose jaguar was being shot to hell
So he raised the tuition
Without the parent's permission
And now his jaguar's doing very well
Needless to say, I got talked to in a rap about it. By Caroline. She didn't even raise her voice, which surprised the hell out of me. She just shamed me with a few sentences about how it was surprising that I would make a joke like that, since I was friends with his daughter, Stacy. With Caroline, that is an official rap pass.
I was lucky in that Caroline really didn't fuck with me too much after voyageurs. Not sure why, but I'm certainly not complaining. If I were to speculate, I think it was because 1. She really wasn't too fond of me, and 2. Stacy kind of took me under her wing when I moved up to Discovery, and if there was one staff Caroline did NOT fuck with, it was Stacy. I dunno if she was intimidated by her, but I rarely, if ever, saw those two interact. They were never in a family together, they never ran a propheet together, and I don't think they ever ran a rap together as power/support. Probably because neither would even think of playing second fiddle to the other. They were both alpha dogs, so they stayed clear of each other. You have your kids and I'll have mine.
One huge thing that really bugs me about Stacy is that in my opinion, she was probably one of the most intelligent staff there. I mean, really, she should have known better. Dana, too. They were both pretty fucking sharp. I'm not even willing to give her clearance because she grew up with that pusbag of a human for a father. (If memory serves, she lived with her mother for the most part while she was growing up.) She just seemed smart enough to transcend all of that shit. I remember by the time I graduated in Dec. 89, it was right when she got married, and took some time off from the school (at least that was how I remembered it). At that point, she seemed somewhat disillusioned by the program. But she came back, and eventually headed up ascent, which was probably one of the most abusive aspects of the 90s era Idaho schools.