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« on: September 08, 2007, 03:23:22 PM »
I dug these up while checking out the official Elan School site.

I like this one because I know who the student was that conducted the tour with the interviewer. His name was "Mike Quinn" and he was from Chicago.
I was in Chicago in "94" and my best friends boyfriend was friends with Mike. So we chilled together a few times and he was swooped up off of the sidewalk by the police in front of me when we left a store with Corona's in hand. They were questioning him about some gang stuff. Needless to say he landed in "Cook County Jail". I went to see him a few times and even sent him a few bucks for commisarry. I left Chicago and never heard from him again. Hope he's OK.


 
 

Elan School
Poland Springs, Maine
Deanna Atkinson, Admissions Director
(207) 998-4666
Visit by: Tom Croke, June, 1992

My visit to Elan occurred on a record breaking 100 degree early June day. My first impression was of a well kept, but somewhat rustic Maine farm. The large group of teenagers off in a field playing soft-ball told me this was the right place. I was warmly greeted by a very busy admission staff. As I was oriented to the facility, however, my hostess, Donna Mangan, referred all questions regarding program to my soon to appear student guide. My guide, a delightful red haired young man I'll call Jeff, was a retired gang member from one of our largest cities (not Los Angeles). He had been at Elan for fifteen months, and was about to go home for his first visit. He was proud of Elan, grateful for what Elan had done to save his life, and did a superb tour.

Jeff escorted me to one of three frame buildings, each having an almost complete self-contained program. Altogether, these houses, plus one more for students close to discharge, contain 135 students. The interior of the building reminded me of a beehive, with all that was happening.

The first floor was a typical eating, cooking and living space. There was also a corridor for girls' dormitory space. In the dining space was a circle of about a dozen intense teenagers with one staff member. Jeff explained they were being confronted for not making sufficient progress (not achieving a high enough level).

Upstairs were a series of offices off the main corridor (in addition to a side corridor with boys' dormitory space). These offices were bustling with activity. Each of these offices had a particular function pertaining to the life and operation of the school, ranging from supervising housekeeping to providing for activities, and providing for security.

Each student is assigned to one of the offices and is given a particular title, establishing rank or level in the system. Each individual has assigned duties in the operation of the facility. Each is kept strictly accountable with intricate accountability procedures. Ranks are divided into two groups, called "strength" and "non-strength," reminiscent of the military distinction between commissioned officers and enlisted personnel. The program gives each group the task of its own maintenance, with strict accountability for precise response to the demands of the situation. Deviation from expectations will lead to heavy verbal confrontation, loss of rank, and privileges. The theory behind the approach is that as students learn to meet the expectations of this system, they will learn to meet the expectations of larger society in a responsible way.

Although the students have much responsibility, admissions are handled by the paid staff, students have no control over who joins their group, and a fully qualified psychologist supervises all therapeutic activities. An analogy to the military is somewhat appropriate, and it turns out many of the staff qualified for their positions through a military background. It is the responsibility of the higher level students to be the first line of stopping runaways, and intervening in other negative behaviors, a job they seem to do quite effectively. This is even to the extent of having a student sentry on duty all night every night (in shifts).

Education for most students takes place in the evening. I did not have an opportunity to observe classes, but did interview the Director of Education. Elan students work on a competency based curriculum adjustable to reflect the requirements of the school back home. Still, Elan can and does award its own diplomas. Elan is quite proud of its excellent college placement record. Reflecting the needs of the program, all homework is done on weekends in supervised study halls, as there is not time during the week.

Although I had limited opportunity to see it in operation, Elan keeps a separate house for students nearing departure, to smooth re-entry. The students living here, usually in the last three months of the eighteen month program, go off campus during the day for activity appropriate to their future plans, usually a job in the community, and attend school evenings with the other students. All have well developed discharge plans when they leave.

Elan is not for the faint hearted. While the atmosphere is highly confrontive, most of the confrontation comes from peers, who are well trained to come back with a high level of support following any stressful confrontation. Humiliation is stated clearly as a therapeutic tool, as is following up on such intervention with encouragement and warm support. BULLSHIT!

Many of their residents have significant Drug and Alcohol history, which Elan understands as a symptom of other pathology, frequently referring for twelve step work after graduation. The entire program stresses student contribution to the life of the student community.

I often hear Elan characterized as a school for the most out of control teenagers, and I often hear the suggestion that it is kind of an east coast Provo Canyon School. Neither perception is accurate, nor fair to either school. Unlike Provo Canyon School, Elan has no passive security systems, and no locked units. Elan takes pride in the fact that most of the direct intervention takes place through peer confrontation rather than interaction with a credentialed therapist, such as the direct treatment at Provo Canyon School. Elan cannot accommodate students who present immediate risk of violent acting out.

I would consider Elan very strongly for a young man or woman with serious oppositional tendencies or a conduct disorder, but who could be safely contained by Elan. I was particularly impressed with the honesty of Elan's presentation, in which I was very clearly exposed to those things they knew would not be to my taste. I feel confident that Elan is what it advertises itself to be.




Here is another one.


ÉLAN SCHOOL


Poland, Maine
Connie Kimball, Admissions
207-998-4666
www.elanschool.com

Visit by Louise Kreiner CEP & Amy D'Uva, May 17, 2007
 



Upon entering Poland, ME, we first noticed Shaker Village, a picturesque working town surrounded by rolling hills. A few minutes later, we drove into Elan's driveway. At first glance (on a very dreary day), the school looked less than inviting; a trailer type building showcased the administration building and the grounds looked a little barren (this due to mud season) waiting for life to begin. This is where the dreariness ended.

We were met in Portsmouth, NH, by Elan's driver, a woman named Teresa. Teresa was a lovely, upbeat, dedicated employee of Elan who educated us for the hour and a half ride. Her cheeriness and commitment to the students was our first clue that Elan would be a solid program.

A no-nonsense approach to learning both in the classroom and socially is what both students and staff on every level conveyed to us. The system at Elan deals with reward based on a military style pyramid. Students are all playing on an equal field starting out with various problems including substance abuse, family and social issues, academic failure, truancy, promiscuity and other defiant behavioral issues. Good behavior is rewarded by being given more responsibility in the two main houses. Poor behavior means demotion back down to the bottom of the pyramid. This school is run by the theory that each student is to be respectful of the others. In other words, when a situation comes up, student input is weighed heavily in determining discipline, therapy and consequences given to their peers. Recommendations for group session topics are also suggested by the students and reviewed by the staff. To our amazement, some of the students we spoke to privately had been in other programs, were 18 or older and had chosen to stay at Elan until completion of school and graduation. This in itself is a remarkable feat. We believe students recognize the dedication of staff and teachers to their cause. We love to see a strong academic component with solid courses a "real education". Elan has it. Each student who was closing in on graduation was going off to colleges in various locations across the country including "name schools".

When asked, the students spoke quite highly of all of the different facets of their lives in Maine. The program is meant to be co-educational and takes students from age 13. On our particular visit the youngest students there happen to be 16. Elan is not a clinical program nor do they pretend to be. Don't look for the Ritz here. The accommodations are cramped but spotless maintained by the worker bees (lowest on the pyramid). There is little TV or movie watching and only homework or college search can be done in the computer labs. Meal times are done in each house and run by top level students. Elan has a five-week rotating menu which is approved by a certified dietician to ensure that students receive proper nutrition. The food looked edible but again it's not a five star menu.

Quite simply Elan is down home Maine. The bonds with teachers, staff and each other are what drives and motivates these kids to become caring, responsible adults. The foundation given at Elan should catapult each student into college, work or back to family successfully.


And last but not least...



The Elan School was founded nearly 35 years ago when Joseph Ricci, who graduated from a therapeutic community himself and psychiatrist, Gerald Davidson, became disenchanted with traditional adolescent treatment. Both Ricci and Davidson are now deceased and Sharon Terry, Ricci’s widow, runs the school.

In the past 10 years, I have not seen another program with the depth of staff experience that Elan offers. The Executive Director began at the school 27 years ago; Admissions Director, Deanna Valente, has 20 years experience working with families; Clinical Director, Dr. Jerry Sapan, 15 years; Dr. Vander Putten, Medical Director, 16 years. The Academic Director, Frank McDermott, who retired as a superintendent from a public school system in Maine, started at Elan a mere five years ago, but brings a wealth of experience to the school. The four senior directors have been at Elan for 28, 20, 16 and 10 years respectively. They are directly responsible for the two houses where the students live. Five staff members graduated from Elan, and their history of employment at the school is 34 years, 28 years, 22 years, 2 years, with the last one recently hired. Leadership and experience are critical to a program’s effectiveness, and Elan’s strength is clearly illustrated in the staffs’ level of experience.

At Elan School, the program is delivered through a very complex therapeutic community/ positive peer culture model that found its roots in self-help substance abuse models developed at DAYTOP, Phoenix House, and Synanon. Students play a significant role in the school in the tradition of positive peer influence, meaning, the students actively confront others concerning their behaviors and attitudes. Students take order and responsibility seriously at Elan.

The student who toured me around the campus was leaving Elan in a few weeks. He was articulate about the details of the program, had clear ideas of attending college and moving on with his life. He appeared to be competent and business like in his demeanor with clarity of where he was going and why. Looking almost like bees around a beehive, the students I saw were completing their daily chores and duties. It was interesting to see how intense they were in their daily responsibilities, and one can only surmise that Elan places a very high emphasis on accountability.

Elan believes many youth practice “pseudoâ€
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« Reply #1 on: September 08, 2007, 09:12:28 PM »
Is that blurb about humiliation actually in the article or did you add that as a comment?
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« Reply #2 on: September 08, 2007, 09:40:21 PM »
Great work, java.gurl!

FWIW, these are the visit reports (by Educational Consultants) from Lon Woodbury's site noted over in the 'First ever (TCK Pow WoW)' thread re. recent changes to the Elan School site.
http://wwf.fornits.com/viewtopic.php?t=23039&start=8

Links to original sources are here:


I posted the links and particulars simply because sometimes the date might be pertinent, not to mention the person writing the report.

In answer to your question, hanzomon4, the word "BULLSHIT" was added by java.gurl and some words were "bolded," but otherwise the text reads exactly as the original.
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« Reply #3 on: September 09, 2007, 01:56:19 AM »
OMG, that bit about humiliation was really an original part of the article. I echo java.gurl, ((Bullshit))
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« Reply #4 on: September 09, 2007, 07:59:58 PM »
The people who wrote those articles are "Educational Consultants," and the articles are designed to sell the school to parents.  StrugglingTeens is one big collection of tools to suck in parents who are thinking of sending their kid to one of these places.  Of course, issues are going to be presented in a certain light, that light certainly not being the perspective of a student unlucky enough to end up there...
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« Reply #5 on: September 10, 2007, 05:07:30 PM »
Quote from: ""hanzomon4""
OMG, that bit about humiliation was really an original part of the article. I echo java.gurl, ((Bullshit))




LOL...It would of been funny had someone (or I) been able to alter it on the website for the entire world to see! I NEVER received any "warm" support and/or  "love" after I was ripped a new asshole and called all kinds of fucked up things. Hell, in GM's I had Jeff and Marc tell me things about myself I never even did! I actually laughed a few times and asked them who they were talking about cuz THAT person is not the one receiving the GM! Assholes.



This is a picture taken of Elan 3 when I was there! Don't we look like a nice bunch of delinquents?





Sorry it is so freakin small guys and gals. That pisses me off. I really want to see all of my old pals. I can't see it bigger either.



Eliscu posted this one a few months ago and it rocks.



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« Reply #6 on: September 10, 2007, 06:23:40 PM »
Quote from: ""artman11111""
Quote from: ""Ursus""
The people who wrote those articles are "Educational Consultants," and the articles are designed to sell the school to parents.  StrugglingTeens is one big collection of tools to suck in parents who are thinking of sending their kid to one of these places.  Of course, issues are going to be presented in a certain light, that light certainly not being the perspective of a student unlucky enough to end up there...

Is that what they call themselves? They are Whores. They Whore themselves out for a fee.Both from the family in need, and the treatment center to whom they place the child. Most have never even visted this treatment center. I have spoken to a couple of those abuse brokers in the past. They are like "car brokers". Its just a deal to get done so they can get a commish check.
I think Sue S is kinda pissed because she is broke. Not because her "reputation" has been scorned. Because her game is exposed for what it really is. Now whomever her treatment center clients are,see that she is embroiled in protecting her reputation. They want nothing to do with her. She could have just stopped playing the fornits game,and continued collecting monies.
But No !


Last I heard the "commission" was a month's worth of "tuition" or $1000-2000, paid by the institution in question.  I could be wrong about that, that info is old and was third-hand to begin with.  I also did read somewhere more recently that Sue Scheff made about $200,000 annually for doing what she does.
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« Reply #7 on: September 10, 2007, 06:44:33 PM »
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Quote from: ""Ursus""
The people who wrote those articles are "Educational Consultants,"

Is that what they call themselves? They are Whores. They Whore themselves out for a fee.


High priced turd polishing whores....... ::roflmao::  ::roflmao::

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« Reply #8 on: September 11, 2007, 07:52:45 AM »
Quote from: ""Eliscu2""
Here are posted some very old Elan pics.

http://http://www.kabbalart.com/elan.html




:rofl:   Those were great! Were you in any of them? I am in the one I posted but it is so damned small I can only make out a few ppl. Claire looks like she was 17 in those pictures! Was she a resident? WOW! I was in kindergarten or 1st grade then. Do I make ya feel old? LOL..
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« Reply #9 on: September 11, 2007, 09:45:09 AM »
Quote from: ""Eliscu2""
Here are posted some very old Elan pics.

http://www.kabbalart.com/elan.html


So sad, the many suicides... And how many have tried at some point, but thankfully, did not succeed?  And how many "accidental" deaths were, in reality, suicide?  

I knew someone at Hyde who was so hounded during her time there, and so tormented by this, that she eventually did try, even though it was years afterwards, but the attempt was totally totally connected to this time.  And someone else as well, this latter person no longer with us in the mortal realm...
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« Reply #10 on: September 11, 2007, 07:23:04 PM »
Quote from: ""Eliscu2""
Quote from: ""java.gurl""
Quote from: ""Eliscu2""
Here are posted some very old Elan pics.

http://http://www.kabbalart.com/elan.html



:rofl:   Those were great! Were you in any of them? I am in the one I posted but it is so damned small I can only make out a few ppl. Claire looks like she was 17 in those pictures! Was she a resident? WOW! I was in kindergarten or 1st grade then. Do I make ya feel old? LOL..

Yes I am in Quite a few of them, usually with my P.O.'s I think they are called S.P.'s now. Claire was about 16 and her and I were residents together. Now that you bring it up, ya I am old!







 ::mecry::  ::nod::   I was teasing ya. I am old too. I may be only "31" but I feel like I lived the life of a "60" year old! I took a LLOONNGG test on the internet once that was supposed to tell me my "real" age. After it added up all of my health issues due to the many substances I ingested and other stuff like diet and exercise and mental health stuff I was told I am actually "40"! That is NOT to shabby is it? I thought it would be "80" or "100" or "You should be dead by now bitch"!

When I was in Elan I thought I would never get out of there and before I knew it I celebrated my 15th, 16th AND 17th birthdays there! I was there 2 months when I turned 15.

So young. So young. I can't believe I actually lived through all that crap. So many times I wanted to kill myself in there. Runaway (I did 3x and got caught. Besides where the hell was I going butt ass broke at the age of 15 in the middle of the fucking woods. People DID make it out of there so if I really tried hard I could of to. Guess it was not meant to be!) and hang myself in the woods or whatever. BUT something told me "Not yet, wait, it'll end soon" and it took a hell of a long time (2/91-9/93) I lost a friend in that shit hole, because of that shit hole and my Nana. But I made it out.

We all did in one way or the other.

I know what you mean Ursus about the suicides and such. I was dumbfounded when news would come to me about this one committing suicide or od'ing or going to prison. I thought I had it sucky. I did NOT graduate and was forever in trouble and yet here were the graduates and staff faves dieing left and right from rotten, sad things. I would wonder why me? Why did I not end up in THAT position?

THAT is all over now for all of us!

Onto happier things like my cute kitty "Peanut" and here is a picture of her! Is she not precious? She does NO wrong in my eyes. Ever.


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« Reply #11 on: September 12, 2007, 12:32:00 AM »
Aww, I got such a soft spot for cats. I was conned by a pack of strays that cute-ed their way into my heart and now they just ignore me. It was so funny though because the social one would just walk up to me and sit on my porch. Once I started to feed it(Mistake I know) the timid boyfriend cat(boyfriend because we caught them fucking on our lawn) showed up. After I started feeding him he would run to me and walk around me in circles meowing.

After a few weeks they would get the food and only eat half of it, but by the next day it would all be gone. So one night we caught them in the middle of the night with three other cats outside chow'in down, go figure.
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« Reply #12 on: October 02, 2007, 04:29:25 PM »
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Aww, I got such a soft spot for cats. I was conned by a pack of strays that cute-ed their way into my heart and now they just ignore me. It was so funny though because the social one would just walk up to me and sit on my porch. Once I started to feed it(Mistake I know) the timid boyfriend cat(boyfriend because we caught them fucking on our lawn) showed up. After I started feeding him he would run to me and walk around me in circles meowing.

After a few weeks they would get the food and only eat half of it, but by the next day it would all be gone. So one night we caught them in the middle of the night with three other cats outside chow'in down, go figure.




Have you ever noticed that stray males or un fixed males are very friendly and talkative?

I have known 1 stray for 2 years now "Bruiser" a hudge grey tiger and he is so sweet and friendly but a tough boy when it comes to other cats interloping on his action (food and attention). He gets that misplaced agression though. The other day he chased a cat off my porch and on his way back on the porch he bit my upper arm as hard as he could and actually shook his head with my arm flesh in his mouth! I have 4 fang marks and 4 hudge ass bruises now. I look like I was beat or something. Then a second later he was purring on my lap. All 15 pounds of him. He'll vanish for months on end at times and comes back like he never left. He knows I have indoor cats but does not care. If I let him in to chill he'll terrorize them and scare them away to soak up all the love and food he can. Brat. He never sprays however. Thank god. If he did I'd NEVER let him in my home. YUKK! I can clean it though.

I wish I could get "Bruisey" a good home. He needs one. He needs to be the ONLY cat and get spoiled then he'll be in heaven. Poor cats.

I put out food and all day it goes untouched then over night it vanishes all the water too. Hmmm....

They cute their way into my house and wallet too. LOL.
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« Reply #13 on: October 02, 2007, 04:33:06 PM »
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I applaud your work with animals. With all thats going on in the world today,people like yourself that take your own time,money and energy to help the helpless,get a free ticket to heaven.
I used to volunteer at this local no kill shelter,but time constraints have gotten in the way. I bought an extra bag of dog food last week and dropped it off. Wish I could do more.
When I 1st started volunteering there, I was the shit shoveler. Not very prestigious ! haha.. But I graduated to a dog walker Wooo hooo. Was hard to leave them sometimes. I just wanted to bring them all home
Hats off to you Java girl



Thank You Artie. Very few appreciate it or understand how important me taking one cat off of the streets truly is. Especially when I save girl cats. No more unwanted kittens popping out 3-4 times a year! I wish the people in my city would follow suit. Oh well. How's your doggy doing? Puppy's are so sweet! Hard work but so worth it in the long run. Take care Artie..Hug your puppy for me!!   :D
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« Reply #14 on: October 02, 2007, 11:26:10 PM »
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Aww, I got such a soft spot for cats. I was conned by a pack of strays that cute-ed their way into my heart and now they just ignore me. It was so funny though because the social one would just walk up to me and sit on my porch. Once I started to feed it(Mistake I know) the timid boyfriend cat(boyfriend because we caught them fucking on our lawn) showed up. After I started feeding him he would run to me and walk around me in circles meowing.

After a few weeks they would get the food and only eat half of it, but by the next day it would all be gone. So one night we caught them in the middle of the night with three other cats outside chow'in down, go figure.



Have you ever noticed that stray males or un fixed males are very friendly and talkative?

I have known 1 stray for 2 years now "Bruiser" a hudge grey tiger and he is so sweet and friendly but a tough boy when it comes to other cats interloping on his action (food and attention). He gets that misplaced agression though. The other day he chased a cat off my porch and on his way back on the porch he bit my upper arm as hard as he could and actually shook his head with my arm flesh in his mouth! I have 4 fang marks and 4 hudge ass bruises now. I look like I was beat or something. Then a second later he was purring on my lap. All 15 pounds of him. He'll vanish for months on end at times and comes back like he never left. He knows I have indoor cats but does not care. If I let him in to chill he'll terrorize them and scare them away to soak up all the love and food he can. Brat. He never sprays however. Thank god. If he did I'd NEVER let him in my home. YUKK! I can clean it though.

I wish I could get "Bruisey" a good home. He needs one. He needs to be the ONLY cat and get spoiled then he'll be in heaven. Poor cats.

I put out food and all day it goes untouched then over night it vanishes all the water too. Hmmm....

They cute their way into my house and wallet too. LOL.


Hahaha....

In my case the female was the ice breaker for all the others, and not just with me, she had a run of the entire apartment complex. The boy cat was a pussy cat. Very shy, sometimes the girl would hit him and run him off. The saddest thing was when I saw him being attacked by birds. He would run under the cars to avoid them but every time he came out they would peck the shit out of him. He just ran and kept his head down, actually he always had his head down like he had low self esteem.

I wish I could keep a cat......
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i]Do something real, however, small. And don\'t-- don\'t diss the political things, but understand their limitations - Grace Lee Boggs[/i]
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