God this thread sure took a different direction. Gone one day and it all goes to hell.
Anyway, GUEST, I am NOT Isabelle. I saw your inference on page 16. Take me out of that formula, and keep me out of that crap altogether.
You're taking away from what this thread was intended.
Edit: If you do this with every new parent, aunt, or whoever is coming here for help, they are going to stop coming here, and won't take you seriously, and you'll be to blame if they place their kid in a "PROGRAM". Just my opinion. And I am not forcefeeding my opinion either, like some people on here do.