Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform > Lighthouse of northwest florida (fka VCA )/ Rebekah / Roloff )
Lester Roloffs Rebekah Home for Girls Survivors-Cult-mindcon
TimScrivener:
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btw.....did you read the post by "notworking"?
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I wasn't able to find it.
Ursus:
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btw.....did you read the post by "notworking"?
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I wasn't able to find it.
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Click HERE (she just bumped it).
TimScrivener:
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btw.....did you read the post by "notworking"?
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I wasn't able to find it.
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Click HERE (she just bumped it).
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Thanks.
TimScrivener:
I don't agree that spanking a child with a paddle is abuse. I do agree if you cause physical damage it is abuse. I personally don't believe they should have paddled anyone in the homes for the simple reason that abuses can occur. Maybe even by well meaning people. I've actually seen it myself. But this was the exception to the rule and not the normal operation. I know that there were times in the Homes that some people that were not qualified were in charge. I also know that most of the people that went through the homes benefited from it. Like myself and hundreds like me.
Lester Roloff was not a bad man, and he didn't run a cult. He was a good man who wanted to help people. Unfortunately, there were people involved with his ministry that did the wrong things. I know that right now there are good people in charge of both homes that are left. Men and women are getting their lives straightened out. I just want to give the other side to these accounts on here that make it sound like the worse place on earth.
Ursus:
--- Quote from: "TimScrivener" ---I don't agree that spanking a child with a paddle is abuse. I do agree if you cause physical damage it is abuse. I personally don't believe they should have paddled anyone in the homes for the simple reason that abuses can occur. Maybe even by well meaning people. I've actually seen it myself. But this was the exception to the rule and not the normal operation. I know that there were times in the Homes that some people that were not qualified were in charge. I also know that most of the people that went through the homes benefited from it. Like myself and hundreds like me.
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Psych professionals might disagree with you re. whether "spanking a child with a paddle is abuse." Probably a fair number of parents, too. It has to do with violating and disrespecting a person's autonomy, of which physical boundaries are one aspect.
If children learn best by example, what does this teach?
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