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How to lock my parents up against their will?
« on: January 11, 2007, 11:20:18 AM »
My parents are both in their mid 60's now. My mother's family has a history of alzheimer's, my dad was adopted so we don't know his history. They both have a long history of alcohol, drug use and psychological issues.  

Recently they have both been causing me a lot of trouble. They've been calling me at work too much, and my boss is getting upset. They've been staying out late, drinking and partying and hanging out with peers I don't approve of. One night I woke up to find my car was not in the driveway, and all my liquor bottles were taken. I was tempted to call the police but I didn't want to get them involved. I want another option.

I am looking for an escort service and a private program. Preferably, I can send them to the same program, and they will be seperated, if only to save cost. I also expect some sort of discount for having two people at the facility please.

I don't need anything fancy, just a place to put them. I am done. I've been doing this for the last ten years and I've had enough, it's time for ME to live. It's time to take back MY house for me and my kids.

Other kids told me they had good experience with the escorts, but to make sure they come in in the middle of the night to surprised them.

I hope they don't hate me, but at this point I don't really care. I am willing to do anything. I have narrowed down my choice of old folks programs down to a couple but I'd really love some advice.

They need to change if they want to come home so this can't just be a vacataion. Thanks.
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« Reply #1 on: January 11, 2007, 12:03:33 PM »
Yeah I assume this idea is a different angle to slam program parents.  

However, take a stroll through a nursing home.  You'd be amazed how many cognizant, ambulatory, continent people "live" there.  

They (nursing homes, senior centers, adult foster care, etc.) are a gulag in their own right.

I Wonder why there isn't the public outrage against  these institutions.  They are "regulated" you may argue.  Bullshit I would say.

I understand ( and share) the outrage at what parents do to teens experiencing normal angst, etc.  But I hope people feel the same outrage toward kids who "place their parents"  .... many of whom are experiencing normal aging milestones.
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« Reply #2 on: January 11, 2007, 01:27:08 PM »
Karmas a bitch.  :smokin:
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Re: How to lock my parents up against their will?
« Reply #3 on: January 11, 2007, 04:02:24 PM »
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One night I woke up to find my car was not in the driveway, and all my liquor bottles were taken.


Are they really fuckin' w/ you on that level? And you're still willing to speak to them? You're a saint!

Maybe these people can help. http://www.lsanc.net/
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« Reply #4 on: January 11, 2007, 06:12:25 PM »
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Yeah I assume this idea is a different angle to slam program parents.  

However, take a stroll through a nursing home.  You'd be amazed how many cognizant, ambulatory, continent people "live" there.  

They (nursing homes, senior centers, adult foster care, etc.) are a gulag in their own right.

I Wonder why there isn't the public outrage against  these institutions.  They are "regulated" you may argue.  Bullshit I would say.

I understand ( and share) the outrage at what parents do to teens experiencing normal angst, etc.  But I hope people feel the same outrage toward kids who "place their parents"  .... many of whom are experiencing normal aging milestones.


No my intent was not to slam, I would be much more straightforward if I were going to do that. All I am trying to do is help potential program parents understand the feeling I get when I read their posts talking about wanting to hire someone to kidnap and ship off their kids, to a facility they never checked out. Personally it makes me feel kind of creepy, even when I am just being facetious.
And no I would never treat my parents like that and I would be just as outraged at any facility/staff who treat old people like dirt. This is all the symptom of a greater problem, broken, distant families, isolated inviduals who need commerce to keep them alive. God help us if we could just help each other without pay.




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« Reply #5 on: January 11, 2007, 06:58:03 PM »
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« Reply #6 on: January 11, 2007, 11:58:56 PM »
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Yuppies Marching into the Sea, copyright Ted Orland.


What's that called again? A good start?

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